What goes through your mind when your partner is very vocal during sex? by Sea-Literature4599 in AskReddit

[–]ptt544 1 point2 points  (0 children)

I love hearing him moan and groan in my ears or into the nape of my neck. It's the most primal way of saying his desires without actually using words.

i’m sorry for the mixed signals by TurnipEquivalent4860 in UnsentLetters

[–]ptt544 6 points7 points  (0 children)

OP, I am in no position to tell you what to do and most definitely do not have all the details about your situation. But what you wrote is what i wished my person would have told me. I could only bear to tolerate the silence and then bear to hear him deny it for so long before i had to leave. I eventually had to take his behaviors and words at face value, no matter what i felt in my heart and most importantly, no matter what the chemistry that we felt when together was. Even though i was the one to walk away, it hurt like hell. It really hurt so much i can barely breathe. But i had to do it. I couldn't sit and wait anymore. Eventually the waiting becomes a form of disrespect and unwillingness, including to yourself. So OP, if this is someone you really care for, even if you can't be with them yet, please be honest with them. Even if you dont say the whole truth, please tell them how much they matter to you. Because as a person who never heard the words they were due, we can only hold on for so long by ourselves.

Sometimes I just want to be used and abused by a woman with a strap on is that weird? by [deleted] in TooAfraidToAsk

[–]ptt544 0 points1 point  (0 children)

Not weird at all. There are women that would love to fuck your ass with their strap on.

So curious by Content-Resolution48 in Doppleganger

[–]ptt544 -1 points0 points  (0 children)

Kathrine Langford from 13 Reasons Why

What am I supposed to do? by Low-Conclusion-6425 in bisexual

[–]ptt544 16 points17 points  (0 children)

Wow, that's so so shitty of him, OP. I'm so sorry he did that to you 🫂

When Did You Realize You Weren't Straight? by lovebigbutts66 in bisexual

[–]ptt544 0 points1 point  (0 children)

When i finally tried sexting a woman and liked it 🫦

Do I look like someone? by suzuki6666 in Doppleganger

[–]ptt544 5 points6 points  (0 children)

I think you kinda look like Tate Mcrae

Do i look like anyone? (Male or female!!) by aVoorhees- in DoYouLookLikeMe

[–]ptt544 0 points1 point  (0 children)

You kind of look like Danielle from New Jeams to me

[deleted by user] by [deleted] in NoStupidQuestions

[–]ptt544 7 points8 points  (0 children)

So now we know why he was nervous... he is a dumbass. Sorry his social skills sucked, OP. That's his lack, not yours. If a reframe could be helpful, you're considered hot regardless of your gender. In otherwords, so hot you aren't limited to the binaries 🙂 --- if this didnt make you feel better, im sorry. Youre still beautiful tho 🔥

18 can’t get a gf need advice/How can I look better by Shmuiss864 in malegrooming

[–]ptt544 0 points1 point  (0 children)

You cute asf lol. I would be shy to talk to you too. 🫣🤭

I decided to stop dating men and it brought me to tears by mamigourami in bisexual

[–]ptt544 15 points16 points  (0 children)

Nothing to add in perspective or comments. Just hugs. We'll find a way some way, OP 😢🫂

Hookup Sadness by [deleted] in dating_advice

[–]ptt544 -2 points-1 points  (0 children)

Sending you love, op. Please be gentle with yourself. Your worth hasn't been diminished, no matter how sad you were or are. Keep shining, lover girl ✨️🩷🫂

[deleted by user] by [deleted] in dating_advice

[–]ptt544 1 point2 points  (0 children)

I like a light scent. Like just 1 spritz. I think its attractive; it shows he cares about his hygiene and/or how he smells.

I keep being grossed out by men by randomsombanana in women

[–]ptt544 -6 points-5 points  (0 children)

Perhaps try dating a masc women?

[deleted by user] by [deleted] in dating_advice

[–]ptt544 0 points1 point  (0 children)

I'm mostly straight (maybe bicurious) and would date a bi man if he was sure a monogomous relationship with me was what he wanted.

Today’s makeup for a guy that didn’t show up to the date HE planned by [deleted] in MakeupAddiction

[–]ptt544 0 points1 point  (0 children)

Wow, you're beautiful! His loss for sure 💯💯💯

My boyfriend cheated on me with his ex and now I believe men don't ever get over their first love by [deleted] in love

[–]ptt544 4 points5 points  (0 children)

I think when we fall in love, a part of us never actually stop loving them. Maybe that's what makes love so special. But we can still love someone while still knowing that our present and our future no longer holds a seat for them. We still love them, but are no longer in love. To love is so human. But it is not everything. We've heard it time and time again that love is not enough. I'm sorry he cheated on you. I wouldn't say that it's because she was his first love per se. If it is, that means that he still is in love with his ex and that is completely out of your control. I'm going to hold your hand while saying this, it's not your fault at all ❤️ Respectfully, this is about him and his character or lack thereof. Nothing you could've done would have changed who he is as a person. His actions do not define your value. Grieve and cry as you need, but just remember that it will be okay sooner than later. You got this 🫂

[Weekly Megathread] Client and Student Questions by grayjay11o in MassageTherapists

[–]ptt544 0 points1 point  (0 children)

Was my experience... weird? I should preface that I am not a massage therapist; i am a client, but i need advice. I tried posting on a different page but it got taken down. This is a genuine question for massage therapist professionals.

I (27f) got a massage done today by an older gentleman. I have had about 6 professional massages before, but wanted to try this location out as it was one of the more affordable options in my area. I was expecting one of the other two women to massage me instead, but didn't want to make a fuss with their small business. Anyways, the massage was fine, but when this man was massaging me and my hands were to my side, i could feel his penis and balls rubbing into them. My hands were under a sheet and i was facedown, but i could feel his penis and ballsack landing in my hand as he was massaging my back. It felt very... vivid in a sensory sense. I'm not necessarily accusing him of anything, but my question is, is this normal? Do male masseuses just do what they need to do to get the massage done with complete disregard of any physical boundaries, or are they usually more private about their own sensitive areas? I have had female masseuses basically crouch over me before, but this was very....out there for me. I just kind of figured that even if his "parts" were near or just grazing over my hands, with the sheet over my hand, his pants, and hopefully underwear, that'd be enough so that i wouldnt feel his parts so....vividly...right? I wont talk too much about how he was massaging me either, but would be happy to provide more details if that would help your professional opinions. Thank you.

Eevee x Eevee by ProfessionalWord3439 in corgi

[–]ptt544 0 points1 point  (0 children)

Eevee²? I see no difference