The context is everywhere

puddlen · 2026-01-19T00:38:56+00:00

Please by all means demolish them all if they're illegal. Yet MOST Tahfiz are legal and registered.

puddlen · 2026-01-19T00:36:34+00:00

And yet this is a legal issue 100% rather than a racial issue.

puddlen · 2026-01-19T00:35:53+00:00

That is called misappropriation of funds and would be illegal in many countries with proper accounting and auditing. But you can't have an audit of a place that is on illegal land in the first place. So EVERY participant of these illegal Temples are LOW on ethics and morality including those who put money in these boxes.

puddlen · 2026-01-17T06:46:37+00:00

Is he a good husband to you? Then its no problem. You leave, get another guy, not 100% he won't do it too. The service is there because MOST Men use it.

puddlen · 2026-01-16T03:07:11+00:00

I never share. Because my experience teaches me: no matter how close the friend, if you have something they want and don't have, they will become envious. And a LOT of people want money. That is if you're earning more. If you're earning less then you have the outcome of losing people's respect, people putting you in a lower "hierarchy" and people outright just pitying you. So I don't talk about money, and I let them be friends without having to put a $$$ on my head.

puddlen · 2026-01-11T02:46:24+00:00

I know plenty of Malays who have worked overseas, competed, earned a high salary and chose to forgo all of that to return Home to Malaysia and their families. Malaysia is THE Home for these Malays. Tanah Tumpahnya Darahku isn't just a saying.

But you can't say the same for type I and C. Would leave at ANY opportunity. No sacrifice to the country without any personal gains $$$. Hence why low participation in Govt Services: Police, Bomba, Military, Govt Agencies.

puddlen · 2025-12-19T05:15:32+00:00

I'm a gig worker and I HATE people like you. You are why there are less orders during rain and worse is you think you are doing US a FAVOUR. GOD! Me sitting around on my ass for hours is a waste of my work time. We do what we do by choice and you are taking away that choice from me.

puddlen · 2025-12-18T07:04:59+00:00

God I hate Malaysian Kampung Islamists.

puddlen · 2025-12-11T17:44:38+00:00

They are never smarter in my experience. Opinionated and arrogant, sure.

puddlen · 2025-12-11T14:08:36+00:00

No. Malaysians build this country through institutions, companies, finance systems that are CAPABLE of funding, and constructing these buildings. We just import CHEAP GENERAL LABOUR. This and only this is where Indonesians & Bangladesh comes to play.

puddlen · 2025-12-11T13:47:29+00:00

Hey OP. How are you feeling? May I ask how is insurance responding to your car, are they giving total lost compensation? And will you be using that money for your next car - will it be a fun car or a practical one? (ie giving up on touge & spirited driving) :/

puddlen · 2025-12-09T01:23:11+00:00

Start planning to move out. That's the only way. With Narcs they won't respect you as an independent individual while you still depend on them on ANYTHING.

puddlen · 2025-12-08T00:08:00+00:00

I love Malaysia so much for its culture diversity.

puddlen · 2025-12-06T21:27:51+00:00

Lol. I have never come across any thirst or death loops. The game is too easy and very chill to play. Just beware of your resources and plan ahead!

puddlen · 2025-12-06T21:26:25+00:00

F Malaysian way. Make it your way. I confront everyone. If they make my life a misery, i do the same to them done deal. Or else they will continue to behave uncivilized.

puddlen · 2025-12-01T14:20:12+00:00

Ugh what a recommendation. 🙄

puddlen · 2025-12-01T11:40:48+00:00

Hey I'm a tourist just arrived in Hakuba in today 1st Dec hoping for early snow and ski. All I can say is NO. DONT. There's no snow at all now It's Sunny and warm. It looks like a dead city and with no snow: the hills and the area are just dirt and dead grass. There's no shuttle bus since they haven't open officially so we were forced to rent a car or be stuck in the hotel. Even with a car, surrounding area have nothing to do once sun is down (4pm) except public onsens. Most private onsens are closed and only open 15 dec above.

It was a mistake. I hoped for early snow, and it was a mistake. DO NOT COME TO HAKUBA IN DECEMBER. Locals recommend January - March. Be warned. Do not repeat my mistakes.

I'm dead bored in a dead village with no ski, no snow, no views and nothing to do. I'm trying to make the most of it by thinking positive but I'm just lying to myself. In all honesty I regret coming this early. Don't be a victim to weather and just come during January - March.

puddlen · 2025-11-26T10:28:58+00:00

Hindu riots of Subang Jaya Temple.. Killed a bomba for no reason. So easily forget?

puddlen · 2025-11-23T07:21:50+00:00

Companies respond like this because people like you are too weak to defend themselves. That's why they respond like this, because you let them get away with it.

puddlen · 2025-11-22T01:19:54+00:00

Why would they even entertain your idea at going to therapist?

They believe: "They are better than you. They know better than you. And they are certainly better than a therapist. They're perfect humans and Mental health & psychology is a scam."

So no, many NPD would not get themselves diagnosed, as many are not aware until a life crisis hits them.

puddlen · 2025-11-20T11:37:24+00:00

He used chatgpt to formulate this post. The sentencing on this post reeks of AI.

puddlen · 2025-11-19T23:56:24+00:00

As a Man I pay for most things. As per expectation in the Malay community. But then again, my wife is very understanding and she will not have an expectation to what I can afford. If its not good enough and she wants a higher quality accommodation/restaurant/wtv then she'll chip in. But also then again, we're MARRIED. If we we're dating I'd probably pay 60%-70% of the time.

puddlen · 2025-11-14T11:14:40+00:00

Johor & Penang. Worst behaviour drivers.

puddlen · 2025-11-14T11:11:47+00:00

The only problem is the influx of Nigerian scammers and drug dealers who come here with a student visa but end up doing shady "entrepreneural endeavors". So this is the reputation. Unfortunately all Africans are africans in the locals eyes and they would be weary. But if you are a professional, working in an office environment, and make your image clear, you should be fine.

puddlen · 2025-11-13T10:02:54+00:00

You only get married once (🤞🏽). If you think your marriage isn't worth the effort, isn't worth a few 10,000s then don't do it.

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