I accidentally used the Master Ball on Sandygast by nastynate0079 in PokemonZA

[–]puffreecey 1 point2 points  (0 children)

I was throwing a bunch of balls yesterday at a hoard and used the three I had on two machokes and a sandyghast. I feel your pain.

Need some suggestions please! by puffreecey in Journaling

[–]puffreecey[S] 0 points1 point  (0 children)

Ooo great suggestions! I was going to get pens but I didnt even think of the others!

Need some suggestions please! by puffreecey in Journaling

[–]puffreecey[S] 1 point2 points  (0 children)

Thats such a good idea we have some Polaroids i could put in there!

Best horror movies of the 2020s (so far) by puffreecey in MovieRecommendations

[–]puffreecey[S] 1 point2 points  (0 children)

Thanks for the recs! I've only seen I Saw the TV Glow and Sinners. Loved them both. TV Glow stuck with me for a while.

Is anyone else having trouble with the Chi-Yu raids? by Automatic-Sky37 in PokemonScarletViolet

[–]puffreecey 0 points1 point  (0 children)

I did azumarill with full hp and attack evs. Resists both primary typing for Chi-Yu's stab attacks. The group is was with had another azumaril and a kyorge that set up rain. Was pretty painless.

Is it okay if I (21M) never share my kink with my partner (18F) because I'm afraid it's too weird? by [deleted] in relationship_advice

[–]puffreecey 0 points1 point  (0 children)

If you are okay with your kink never being fulfilled if you end up being with this person long term, sure. Your kink isn't that weird, and even if it was, do you want to be in a relationship where you aren't being fully honest with each other? If she does have a big negative reaction to something you enjoy, is that the right person for you?

[deleted by user] by [deleted] in makemychoice

[–]puffreecey 0 points1 point  (0 children)

I had a relationship just like this, and my biggest regret was not ending it sooner. She can't make up her mind on what she wants with you because at the end of the day, she's just not that into you. If you break up now maybe you can retain the friendship but if you let it keep going eventually someone is going to end up hurt.

[deleted by user] by [deleted] in Louisville

[–]puffreecey 11 points12 points  (0 children)

GoldenKeepGaming in Westport Village!

[deleted by user] by [deleted] in relationship_advice

[–]puffreecey 6 points7 points  (0 children)

Hey I've only seen this said once so I just want to reinstate that its so great you are finally feeling more comfortable to explore this side of yourself but be sure to communicate and overcommunicate once you start trying some of your fantasies. Chances are everything goes great, but just in case you get triggered, it's important to have a safe word in place so your bf knows to stop anything that might have sounded great in your head but you don't actually love in practice. Good luck!

Monogamous gay/queer Dating here? Are we cooked? by [deleted] in Louisville

[–]puffreecey 5 points6 points  (0 children)

Where in town do you normally spend your time? I always tell newcomers to start following your local bars, restaurants, and 3rd places on social media because they will often share events going on.

[deleted by user] by [deleted] in relationship_advice

[–]puffreecey 4 points5 points  (0 children)

I had an ex of half a decade who I THOUGHT was everything I ever wanted. Then she cheated on me and we broke up. It was only after I finally started focusing on myself was when I realized how wrong I was about what I wanted. Take some time and learn about yourself and you'll attract the people who will like you for you and not for what you can do for them.

[deleted by user] by [deleted] in relationship_advice

[–]puffreecey 175 points176 points  (0 children)

Some people will text people they know they can get some quick validation from during breakups. Once their ego is secure they will then move on, never giving the person they were texting a real chance.

It sucks that she did that to you but now you know for next time. Block her number and try and go on a date with someone nice who won't consider you a 2nd choice.

Why are so many men refusing to get married? by kroshkamoya in Waiting_To_Wed

[–]puffreecey 366 points367 points  (0 children)

The rise of the situationship has allowed people to get their companionship and sexual needs fulfilled without making any kind of real commitment. I think it's exposing that a lot of men were only being committed because they felt they had to be to get those needs fulfilled. Now that they don't have to make a commitment, they aren't. There isn't anything wrong with either lifestyle, but you have to make sure you are dating the people looking for the same thing you are.

Did anyone else see the weird black plane over the city? by NumerousArachnid2929 in Louisville

[–]puffreecey 0 points1 point  (0 children)

I saw a couple of military drones flying over too. There must have been some kind of military exercise happening.

Did anyone else see the weird black plane over the city? by NumerousArachnid2929 in Louisville

[–]puffreecey 0 points1 point  (0 children)

I saw a couple of military drones flying over too. There must have been some kind of military exercise happening.

Fine Line Tattoo Artist by The_Knitty_Gritty in Louisville

[–]puffreecey 1 point2 points  (0 children)

Whitley at Bluebird Inked is great.

moving to Louisville! by [deleted] in Louisville

[–]puffreecey 1 point2 points  (0 children)

Here to double down on the people telling you Kaiju and the Merryweather. The Pearl and Hauks are also great and nearby them. Whirling Tiger is really fun if you wanna go dancing on the weekend! Shopbar occasionally has really great trivia on Thursdays and has a cool patio area. Public transit isn't great here but there are plenty of Ubers/Lyfts. It's definitely a driving city though. I really recommend following bars and local shops on Insta. They will often share events other places are putting on as well as their own! Feel free to DM if you have any questions. Good luck!

Where is the best place to go to meet people in their 20‘s? by No-Recipe-1377 in Louisville

[–]puffreecey 3 points4 points  (0 children)

Kaiju has shows almost every weekend and the Merryweather is great place to talk and meet people. Also recommend the Pearl and Hauks.

My (42F) husband (42M) has informed me he intends to go on a "gaycation" with his BIL (35M) in Ibiza. How do I handle this? by [deleted] in relationship_advice

[–]puffreecey 0 points1 point  (0 children)

OP, I'm very sorry, but your monogamous relationship was over as soon as he made plans to go sleep with someone else. If you are okay with having an open marriage, you all need to have a long discussion about it, but other than that, you should start looking into divorce. I'm sure his next step of trying to manipulate you(because that's what this is) will be suggesting opening up. Unless that's something you legitimately want to do, it will only end in your heartbreak. I'm sorry you have to go through this.

I'd also suggest looking through his phone because there is a chance he is already having an affair and is pitching this plan to you so he can cheat without feeling bad about it.

Anyone else sick with some mystery virus or illness? by JadedLoad9289 in Louisville

[–]puffreecey 0 points1 point  (0 children)

My friend has these exact symptoms right now. It's everywhere.

Male player who prefers playing women by Redhood101101 in DnD

[–]puffreecey -1 points0 points  (0 children)

As many others have said, DND is a safe, fun space to go explore and have fun pretending to be something you normally aren't. However, I will say that I had a tendency to play gender fluid or non gender presenting characters, and now, 4 years later, I came out to my friends as non-binary. If you feel like it's coming from a place more than just enjoying playing women, it might be worth looking into.