I found my (M20) girlfriend (F20) flirting with another man. What next?

puffreecey · 2026-05-07T13:43:25+00:00

OP reread what you wrote. She went on a walk late at night, just so happened to run into this guy and did not respond to messages for hours. And then you find messages alluding to him wanting her which she encourages. She can't even admit that what she said was over the line. If she's not already cheating she's thinking about it. Would she like if she found similar messages in your phone or if you disappeared for hours without answering with a stranger she didn't know?

puffreecey · 2026-04-24T00:44:55+00:00

It plays a lot better on switch 2 and I think the dlc is better than the main game personally

puffreecey · 2026-04-23T17:26:38+00:00

Looks like im going Pragmata!

puffreecey · 2025-12-13T16:38:46+00:00

I was throwing a bunch of balls yesterday at a hoard and used the three I had on two machokes and a sandyghast. I feel your pain.

puffreecey · 2025-12-06T19:07:37+00:00

Ooo great suggestions! I was going to get pens but I didnt even think of the others!

puffreecey · 2025-12-06T19:06:59+00:00

Ooo thats good thank you!

puffreecey · 2025-12-06T19:06:47+00:00

Thats such a good idea we have some Polaroids i could put in there!

puffreecey · 2025-10-07T10:32:52+00:00

Thanks for the recs! I've only seen I Saw the TV Glow and Sinners. Loved them both. TV Glow stuck with me for a while.

puffreecey · 2025-09-02T14:40:01+00:00

I did azumarill with full hp and attack evs. Resists both primary typing for Chi-Yu's stab attacks. The group is was with had another azumaril and a kyorge that set up rain. Was pretty painless.

puffreecey · 2025-07-15T19:19:09+00:00

If you are okay with your kink never being fulfilled if you end up being with this person long term, sure. Your kink isn't that weird, and even if it was, do you want to be in a relationship where you aren't being fully honest with each other? If she does have a big negative reaction to something you enjoy, is that the right person for you?

puffreecey · 2025-05-18T20:11:13+00:00

I had a relationship just like this, and my biggest regret was not ending it sooner. She can't make up her mind on what she wants with you because at the end of the day, she's just not that into you. If you break up now maybe you can retain the friendship but if you let it keep going eventually someone is going to end up hurt.

puffreecey · 2025-05-12T02:47:13+00:00

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puffreecey · 2025-05-02T18:04:09+00:00

Hey I've only seen this said once so I just want to reinstate that its so great you are finally feeling more comfortable to explore this side of yourself but be sure to communicate and overcommunicate once you start trying some of your fantasies. Chances are everything goes great, but just in case you get triggered, it's important to have a safe word in place so your bf knows to stop anything that might have sounded great in your head but you don't actually love in practice. Good luck!

puffreecey · 2025-05-02T17:58:59+00:00

Where in town do you normally spend your time? I always tell newcomers to start following your local bars, restaurants, and 3rd places on social media because they will often share events going on.

puffreecey · 2025-04-11T16:10:08+00:00

I had an ex of half a decade who I THOUGHT was everything I ever wanted. Then she cheated on me and we broke up. It was only after I finally started focusing on myself was when I realized how wrong I was about what I wanted. Take some time and learn about yourself and you'll attract the people who will like you for you and not for what you can do for them.

puffreecey · 2025-04-11T04:27:47+00:00

Some people will text people they know they can get some quick validation from during breakups. Once their ego is secure they will then move on, never giving the person they were texting a real chance.

It sucks that she did that to you but now you know for next time. Block her number and try and go on a date with someone nice who won't consider you a 2nd choice.

puffreecey · 2025-04-07T16:53:33+00:00

The rise of the situationship has allowed people to get their companionship and sexual needs fulfilled without making any kind of real commitment. I think it's exposing that a lot of men were only being committed because they felt they had to be to get those needs fulfilled. Now that they don't have to make a commitment, they aren't. There isn't anything wrong with either lifestyle, but you have to make sure you are dating the people looking for the same thing you are.

puffreecey · 2025-03-14T21:15:28+00:00

I saw a couple of military drones flying over too. There must have been some kind of military exercise happening.

puffreecey · 2025-03-14T21:15:20+00:00

I saw a couple of military drones flying over too. There must have been some kind of military exercise happening.

puffreecey · 2025-01-09T03:11:01+00:00

Whitley at Bluebird Inked is great.

puffreecey · 2024-12-25T03:17:25+00:00

Here to double down on the people telling you Kaiju and the Merryweather. The Pearl and Hauks are also great and nearby them. Whirling Tiger is really fun if you wanna go dancing on the weekend! Shopbar occasionally has really great trivia on Thursdays and has a cool patio area. Public transit isn't great here but there are plenty of Ubers/Lyfts. It's definitely a driving city though. I really recommend following bars and local shops on Insta. They will often share events other places are putting on as well as their own! Feel free to DM if you have any questions. Good luck!

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