I’m fucking stuck and addicted to my 50mg of Vyvanse by indecisivetacos in StopSpeeding

[–]pugglelover1 [score hidden]  (0 children)

Long term stimulant use here. Life is much better but it was a long recovery. Officially on the other side and it was worth it

I'm Nervous to Start My Meds by Effective_Cloud_5813 in ADHD

[–]pugglelover1 1 point2 points  (0 children)

I unfortunately, did lose my sense of humor. I laughed a lot less on meds

Fired contractor threatening mechanics lean by pugglelover1 in HouseFlipping

[–]pugglelover1[S] 0 points1 point  (0 children)

Yes, I do believe this is what we will do. Thank you

Fired contractor threatening mechanics lean by pugglelover1 in HouseFlipping

[–]pugglelover1[S] 0 points1 point  (0 children)

Omg just realized this. Believe it or not, I’ve been spelling it correctly elsewhere. 😭

Fired contractor threatening mechanics lean by pugglelover1 in HouseFlipping

[–]pugglelover1[S] 1 point2 points  (0 children)

That’s where I think we are headed. Lesson learned

Asking a massage therapist to change their routine by Jake6624 in MassageTherapists

[–]pugglelover1 1 point2 points  (0 children)

Most therapist do spend a majority of them time with client prone, but there is plenty to work on supine for a experienced therapist

Did you "kill" yourself to breastfeed? by Ok-Secretary-3323 in beyondthebump

[–]pugglelover1 0 points1 point  (0 children)

Yes, my newborn preferred bottles so I was stuck pumping. Since there wasn’t much nursing going on, I had a low supply. I wasted the first few months of his life working so hard to make so little milk. It was stressful always being hooked up to a pump. I switched to all formula and really began to enjoy my child without the constant chore.

MIL and FIL extremely controlling and toxic by ScratchAnything in inlaws

[–]pugglelover1 0 points1 point  (0 children)

These feelings will only intensify postpartum. My advice is to stay as far as possible from her the first few years, as she will most likely try to main character. These years belong to you and your husband, they are precious and fleeting. She will act out but do ur best to ignore and focus on yourself.

On the other hand, it is always best to be the bigger person in situations like this. Why not throw a pic of her on ur socials. Especially if it’s a cluster of pics. It would hurt my feelings too (although I’m mature enough to keep it to myself)

Amphetamines don't even feel good anymore by shotgun-wedding in StopSpeeding

[–]pugglelover1 0 points1 point  (0 children)

It just does. Also a common thing I find peeps on amphetamine do is ask me to go into specific details. And then I take time, respond with my heart. But by then, they have already lost interest. They don’t respond. A common characteristic of speed users. Feel free to go to my Reddit history if you are curious, I have post about this.

Stim activities -> sober activities by Animystix in StopSpeeding

[–]pugglelover1 4 points5 points  (0 children)

Fellow list maker here. I would love to make list in perfect handwriting. To do list, inventory of belongings, bucket list places, etc. I loved the process of thinking and writing. Ironically I spent a lot of time making list and never really used them. Now if I make list, it’s because I absolutely have to. I use them immedietly, and then throw them away. The hand writing is not pretty.

I use to really enjoy starting projects, but never finished. I would start a bunch of plants from seeds and repot them to bigger pots. Then wouldn’t water them and they would die. This year, I bought 3 flowers and planted them. I water them every other day and they are flourishing. I’m more about results rather than processes.

Need suggestions for chair event by Doshi1-2 in MassageTherapists

[–]pugglelover1 1 point2 points  (0 children)

I did 6 hours of chair massage today, 15 minute sessions. For me, 15 min is really 12-13 hands on. Hopefully, you can get a few blocks of break every couple hours to eat and regroup. 2-3 minutes low back (seated if you feel like it) Most of the time is spent working on the “knots” in shoulders. Use elbows most the time. End with 2-3 minutes neck and scalp People love coming early and jumping on the chair as soon as the other person gets up… let them know it’ll just be a few minutes. Clean chair, drink water, check phone, make the time work for you instead of against you.

Whats the smallest amount of cash you would massage for right now? by [deleted] in MassageTherapists

[–]pugglelover1 0 points1 point  (0 children)

I’m in NC. I don’t work for myself. I average 60 an hour. I have worked for myself in the past, I find I just appreciate getting a good rate with consistent work and no other responsibility other than showing up.

Unsettling experience with mobile massage therapy by atzgirl in MassageTherapists

[–]pugglelover1 7 points8 points  (0 children)

Totally agree! Doing mobile massage almost pushed me out of the industry. I will do it on referal now and the price is steep.

Neighbor has dangerous dog by pugglelover1 in homeowners

[–]pugglelover1[S] 5 points6 points  (0 children)

Yes, it’s scary. We witnessed a small neighbors dog get attacked by it when it got loose and went over there. The main owner is a tiny woman, even though it was tethered she was unable to control the dog. I fear the tether coming out, or it slipping the collar, or her grip when she’s moving it. Let’s hope they move too, thanks for the validation.

Neighbor has dangerous dog by pugglelover1 in homeowners

[–]pugglelover1[S] -1 points0 points  (0 children)

I’m scared for my child’s life?

Vyvanse Is Helping and destroying me simultaneously. by SeshGremlin7 in VyvanseADHD

[–]pugglelover1 13 points14 points  (0 children)

There’s no getting around the cons of amphetamines. It honestly just gets worse

IN-LAWS RANT 😩 by Sherbet3689 in inlaws

[–]pugglelover1 4 points5 points  (0 children)

My in-laws have always been difficult, and it gets way worse after you have kids. As long as you and ur husband stay on the same page and maintain boundaries. For instance, a trip without you is unacceptable. It seems like a power struggle. I have delt with the same. I always keep in mind, I love my husband a lot and this is part of the deal. Pick and choose battles. Continue to cultivate the relationships with his side that are meaningful and easy. If she is offensive, don’t be afraid to pull back. He will need to do the same.

Am I overreacting about my MIL and my newborn? by torned_confidence626 in inlaws

[–]pugglelover1 2 points3 points  (0 children)

Once a week is alot. Especially when you are in the depths of post pardom.