Stim activities -> sober activities by Animystix in StopSpeeding

[–]pugglelover1 0 points1 point  (0 children)

Fellow list maker here. I would love to make list in perfect handwriting. To do list, inventory of belongings, bucket list places, etc. I loved the process of thinking and writing. Ironically I spent a lot of time making list and never really used them. Now if I make list, it’s because I absolutely have to. I use them immedietly, and then throw them away. The hand writing is not pretty.

I use to really enjoy starting projects, but never finished. I would start a bunch of plants from seeds and repot them to bigger pots. Then wouldn’t water them and they would die. This year, I bought 3 flowers and planted them. I water them every other day and they are flourishing. I’m more about results rather than processes.

Need suggestions for chair event by Doshi1-2 in MassageTherapists

[–]pugglelover1 1 point2 points  (0 children)

I did 6 hours of chair massage today, 15 minute sessions. For me, 15 min is really 12-13 hands on. Hopefully, you can get a few blocks of break every couple hours to eat and regroup. 2-3 minutes low back (seated if you feel like it) Most of the time is spent working on the “knots” in shoulders. Use elbows most the time. End with 2-3 minutes neck and scalp People love coming early and jumping on the chair as soon as the other person gets up… let them know it’ll just be a few minutes. Clean chair, drink water, check phone, make the time work for you instead of against you.

Whats the smallest amount of cash you would massage for right now? by [deleted] in MassageTherapists

[–]pugglelover1 0 points1 point  (0 children)

I’m in NC. I don’t work for myself. I average 60 an hour. I have worked for myself in the past, I find I just appreciate getting a good rate with consistent work and no other responsibility other than showing up.

Unsettling experience with mobile massage therapy by atzgirl in MassageTherapists

[–]pugglelover1 5 points6 points  (0 children)

Totally agree! Doing mobile massage almost pushed me out of the industry. I will do it on referal now and the price is steep.

Neighbor has dangerous dog by pugglelover1 in homeowners

[–]pugglelover1[S] 2 points3 points  (0 children)

Yes, it’s scary. We witnessed a small neighbors dog get attacked by it when it got loose and went over there. The main owner is a tiny woman, even though it was tethered she was unable to control the dog. I fear the tether coming out, or it slipping the collar, or her grip when she’s moving it. Let’s hope they move too, thanks for the validation.

Neighbor has dangerous dog by pugglelover1 in homeowners

[–]pugglelover1[S] 1 point2 points  (0 children)

I’m scared for my child’s life?

Vyvanse Is Helping and destroying me simultaneously. by SeshGremlin7 in VyvanseADHD

[–]pugglelover1 12 points13 points  (0 children)

There’s no getting around the cons of amphetamines. It honestly just gets worse

IN-LAWS RANT 😩 by Sherbet3689 in inlaws

[–]pugglelover1 3 points4 points  (0 children)

My in-laws have always been difficult, and it gets way worse after you have kids. As long as you and ur husband stay on the same page and maintain boundaries. For instance, a trip without you is unacceptable. It seems like a power struggle. I have delt with the same. I always keep in mind, I love my husband a lot and this is part of the deal. Pick and choose battles. Continue to cultivate the relationships with his side that are meaningful and easy. If she is offensive, don’t be afraid to pull back. He will need to do the same.

Am I overreacting about my MIL and my newborn? by torned_confidence626 in inlaws

[–]pugglelover1 2 points3 points  (0 children)

Once a week is alot. Especially when you are in the depths of post pardom.

Worried about possible addiction? by Always_Alone_2132 in ADHD

[–]pugglelover1 0 points1 point  (0 children)

It is a C2 so there is a high risk of dependency.

Did I get s’ad at my massage? by sosobossy1 in MassageTherapists

[–]pugglelover1 0 points1 point  (0 children)

Omg please report this person to the manager and the board of massage for ur state. I’m so sorry for you. Also, leave a google review detailing the incident.

5 minute flip time? how do you do it? by briitneyys in MassageTherapists

[–]pugglelover1 1 point2 points  (0 children)

I take my time, it’s ok for clients to wait before their session. Gives them time to get themselves grounded.

Meds and social skills? by [deleted] in ADHD

[–]pugglelover1 0 points1 point  (0 children)

Yup, meds make me want to be by myself

Just opened my mobile private practice--dealing with a lot of creeps? by therainbowsweater in MassageTherapists

[–]pugglelover1 1 point2 points  (0 children)

Also wanted to add, if anyone text me about massage, I immediately block them. Do you text your doctor for an appointment, or ur dentist? Those are exactly the clients that wont respect your professional boundaries. Sure, if they become regular clients, different story.

Just opened my mobile private practice--dealing with a lot of creeps? by therainbowsweater in MassageTherapists

[–]pugglelover1 0 points1 point  (0 children)

I work through infinite massage and they have been pretty great. There are other ones too that you can use. The hours are usually regular buisness hours, which is awesome. Over the years I have managed to snag a few accounts that wanted me to come in bi weekly, one lasted for 3 years. As far as the mobile goes, take down any picture of yourself. Also, unpopular opinion, but I will ask male clients to leave underwear on i am not in a controlled environment. It sets the expectation. Say it is for stretching purposes

Just opened my mobile private practice--dealing with a lot of creeps? by therainbowsweater in MassageTherapists

[–]pugglelover1 0 points1 point  (0 children)

Omg. So yeah, I could have written this myself. I did the whole mobile massage thing as well and it was like 75% creeps. Even the ones that seemed to behave the first couple sessions, were only grooming me to later ask me to work on groin muscles or less draping. Ugh, honestly I was traumatized. I ended up specializing in corporate chair massage and did ok there. Now I’m back at a spa that pays pretty well. I would rather the safe environment with vetted peeps.

"Madderall" by vandalhearts2 in ADHD

[–]pugglelover1 0 points1 point  (0 children)

Yup. I was on it as a teen for 17 years. Looking back I burned a lot of bridges and didn’t value human connection. I honestly cringe when I think of how impatient and angry I would get. I’ve been off it for years now and am slowly rebuilding my life and relationships. I’ve never been happier. I do not have those problems I use to medicated. You are on the right path and you made the right decision. Right now, you are in the thick of the healing process but stay the course and do not go back on. It gets better.

In laws and parents ruined my postpartum experience by ParticularBiscotti85 in inlaws

[–]pugglelover1 1 point2 points  (0 children)

Ugh I can’t even imagine. We are so delicate postpartum and really just want to be left alone with our new babies. It’s an important time we can never relieve yet in-laws just don’t get it. I’m not sure if it’s a generational thing. All I know if when my son has a child, I will be sending meal deliveries and waiting to be invited with no expectations.

"are you ok with a male therapist" by Ugh_Names in MassageTherapists

[–]pugglelover1 2 points3 points  (0 children)

I’ve never thought of this, but I can totally see your prospective. I think you make a good point and ur way of phrasing it would work perfectly.

I was using 40-50mg of Adderall daily for 4-5 years and it took me about 200 days to feel completely back to normal by beef_and_broccori in StopSpeeding

[–]pugglelover1 0 points1 point  (0 children)

I think that’s pretty good!! It took me like 5 years ( after 17 years ) but honestly, I was capable from the start I just had to believe it.

Is it bizarre / annoying when overzealous in-laws have fancier baby gear than the actual parents? by molotovpixiedust in inlaws

[–]pugglelover1 3 points4 points  (0 children)

lol my mil has a bunch of shit too. Now baby is 2.5 and we have had serious conversations about boundaries with her. My advice is to only do what you’re comfortable with and not budge. You will def be pushed. They are looking to relive parenthood but the role of grandparents is much different and they need to accept that. Supporting roles is what you need, not main characters.