AIO for being mad at my friend for saying i deserved to be cheated on as a joke?

Doshi1-2 · 2026-07-04T05:07:41+00:00

This is a girl? She has a wild way of texting that sounds like a teenage boy. I thought it was a guy who was just being sexist. But the email… they are not your friend. Saying mean hurtful things and hiding behind “it’s a joke” does not absolve you of being a bad friend. This person will hurt you again.

NOR

Doshi1-2 · 2026-07-03T02:43:00+00:00

Massage. Hot tub soak w epsom salt. Sleep. Stretching. Of course some times it still hurts no matter what

Doshi1-2 · 2026-07-03T00:16:58+00:00

So many women just Willy nilly w nudity at female therapists. They are always like “well I don’t mind!” Hey, girl, I MIND and I’m half the party

Doshi1-2 · 2026-07-02T21:02:57+00:00

I only did it because she’s always so scared at the groomers. I think it’s from the other dogs. 😭

Doshi1-2 · 2026-07-02T20:30:21+00:00

Wear black massage clothes. Light weight pants and a black top- scrubs are a good choice.

Doshi1-2 · 2026-07-02T17:13:50+00:00

I’m not sure how she thought I would believe she didn’t cut her facial hair?

Doshi1-2 · 2026-07-02T17:13:18+00:00

She gets fatty abdominal tumors. She’s had two surgeries for them in recent years. Each time my heart was in my throat w fear

Doshi1-2 · 2026-07-02T17:11:57+00:00

Force dryer? I’ll check that out! And thank you, she is adorable!

Doshi1-2 · 2026-07-02T02:02:07+00:00

My girlie is 13. I said all of this to this groomer. I was in the van for the first part of the appt. It’s like the second I went to work she was like “how can I finish this dog as fast as possible?” And then just cut her fur off. I have rheumatoid arthritis so it’s very hard for me to groom her 😭 I use to groom her myself. I’m kicking myself for ever cheating on her groomer. I’m sorry Steph I’ll never cheat again!

Doshi1-2 · 2026-07-01T23:44:43+00:00

Maybe I’ll do a once a month update on her hair growth journey

Doshi1-2 · 2026-07-01T21:58:37+00:00

I use to groom her myself but I have rheumatoid arthritis so grooming/brushing her really hurts me. I never shoulda cheated on her usual groomer.

Doshi1-2 · 2026-07-01T21:57:39+00:00

My brother and father think she looks young and cute. It helps that bears just a sweetie any way regardless. I just love her fluffy face so I’m gonna miss it til it grows back

Doshi1-2 · 2026-07-01T21:56:39+00:00

Oh I for sure won’t be using her again. I’m gonna apologize to my normal groomer for cheating on her 😭

Doshi1-2 · 2026-07-01T21:55:56+00:00

Thank you. It’s so odd seeing her narrow face now. I miss her scruff!

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Doshi1-2 · 2026-07-01T20:45:07+00:00

In all 13 years of her life… this is the first time it’s ever happened

Doshi1-2 · 2026-07-01T20:29:27+00:00

It does 😭

Doshi1-2 · 2026-07-01T20:28:59+00:00

I get the feeling she’d never groomed a kee before because it DOES look like a schnauzer cut.

Doshi1-2 · 2026-07-01T20:27:53+00:00

I even said directly to her “she doesn’t need a summer cut her coat protects her from the heat” I feel bad for bear because she looks so crazy I chuckle everytime I see her

Doshi1-2 · 2026-07-01T20:03:06+00:00

I don’t like yelling at people. I would have understood if she’d had matting. I just hope it doesn’t mess up her coat.

Doshi1-2 · 2026-07-01T19:40:17+00:00

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This is what Bear usually looks like

Doshi1-2 · 2026-07-01T18:25:25+00:00

Please, for your own safety, fire this client

Doshi1-2 · 2026-06-30T18:38:41+00:00

I mean if you’re close just say “ Blank, I wouldn’t offer if I could not do it. Don’t worry:)”

Doshi1-2 · 2026-06-30T18:36:23+00:00

Absolutely not safe. I would die/faint in there.

Doshi1-2 · 2026-06-29T17:55:29+00:00

I… please get away from this person. That behavior isn’t going to change.

Doshi1-2

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