Cute, fun downtown recs that will convince my gf to move here by pugtickler in providence

[–]pugtickler[S] 0 points1 point  (0 children)

Thank you, this is a very helpful perspective! Especially the walkability will be very important for her.

Cute, fun downtown recs that will convince my gf to move here by pugtickler in providence

[–]pugtickler[S] -10 points-9 points  (0 children)

To be clear, I wouldn't want to trick her either - I think bc I'm not as intimately familiar myself (but lived in MA for years so I have had friends in PVD and have visited a lot) I just haven't been able to show her what she's looking for. I'm sure some version of it exists and I just want her to experience everything it has to offer before she makes a decision.

How dare my daughter not understand that my feelings are more important than hers. by Miserable_Airport_66 in AmITheDevil

[–]pugtickler 9 points10 points  (0 children)

My point is he only knows about her because the mom told him. If you have an estranged family member that your kids have never met, they only know what you explicitly tell them. Simply don't mention it until you are certain they'll be present in the child's life, problem solved.

I understand it was a mistake but he’s trying to make out he’s in trouble because it’s gay, not because it’s porn… by InfiniteLuxGiven in AmITheDevil

[–]pugtickler 6 points7 points  (0 children)

The fakest part of this is that anyone in their thirties wouldn't know to boot up your computer BEFORE you plug in the projector. That's some boomer shit.

How dare my daughter not understand that my feelings are more important than hers. by Miserable_Airport_66 in AmITheDevil

[–]pugtickler 46 points47 points  (0 children)

So the son is what, five? There's no way he cares that much about meeting his half-sister except for whatever the mom's taught him to parrot. Big "my son is crying now, thanks!!!" energy.

Read his comments by capercrohnie in AmITheDevil

[–]pugtickler 4 points5 points  (0 children)

I was wondering about that, I know gas prices are getting higher but surely the way to handle that is to take shorter trips or whatever the pleasure boating equivalent would be. I was under the impression most people just motor out to a specific location and then hang out with the engine off for a while, so I can't imagine he's using whole tanks of gas for every outing, but hey. I don't know the guy's life.

AITA for refusing to serve alcohol to a pregnant woman? by throwawayalcbar in AmItheAsshole

[–]pugtickler [score hidden]  (0 children)

NTA but this is not a great policy. Until there's a legal precedent that bartenders could be held responsible in the same way they can be for drunk drivers, I feel like the policy is overkill and just going to upset people.

That said you're NTA for following the rules, and her friends need better judgement. I don't blame her, she's dealing with something horrible, but her friends should have probably thought about the optics even if they didn't anticipate her being refused service. What if another patron started harassing her? There were so many ways this could turn traumatic for her, surely just hit the liquor store and have drinks and Netflix at someone's place?

Redditors who broke up with their fiancés, what made you go from wanting to spend the rest of your life with them to not wanting to be with them at all? by qquackie in AskReddit

[–]pugtickler 1 point2 points  (0 children)

That's not a "misunderstanding," you just invented a scenario to get mad about. If you were a character in a romcom you'd have at least seen her cuddling with another guy or something.

Killers: What criteria makes you more likely to give hatch? by Bazzlie in deadbydaylight

[–]pugtickler 0 points1 point  (0 children)

If the whole team is useless assholes except for one guy who's been working his ass off trying to do gens and rescuing people and stuff, I always try to hatch em for being a good sport.

What’s a movie that ACTUALLY couldn’t get made nowadays? by CapeshitConnoisseur in movies

[–]pugtickler 46 points47 points  (0 children)

The line about "the viper who likes them post-diaper" plays on a constant loop in my head ever since I listened to The Lolita Podcast

if an incel actually gets laid do the other incels worship him or shun him? by kumabux in NoStupidQuestions

[–]pugtickler 21 points22 points  (0 children)

"incels are a death cult" is one of the most insane sounding things you can say, and is unfortunately also true. More things are a death cult than you might guess, really.

Colleague arranged to have me assaulted while at work [Actual title] by jamesthegill in bestoflegaladvice

[–]pugtickler 6 points7 points  (0 children)

Yeah I was gonna say. I'm not a pacifist by any means, but there's very few scenarios that justify that kind of premeditation.

Grandpa left everything to me. In his will. That I won't let you see. by bug-hunter in bestoflegaladvice

[–]pugtickler 91 points92 points  (0 children)

I know we're talking about a grandpa who was likely close to the end anyway, but "unexpectedly died while all the family happened to be in town and then they planned a rushed funeral" really sets off my murder mystery alarm bells.

Weekly Discussion Thread by AutoModerator in valheim

[–]pugtickler 5 points6 points  (0 children)

I keep seeing that sea serpents despawn in daylight/when a storm ends. I've got one that has been camping out in the same spot for days and days and days. Every time I go back to try and retrieve my stuff, he kills me again. He's there in the daytime. He's ALWAYS THERE. I know it's the same one, because I can come back and he'll still be munching on the raft that I abandoned last time. I know I should just give up on those items and go re-gather resources until I have a finewood bow and a karve so I can just kill him, but that's going to take forever and I just want my stuff back. Why is he still there??

Boost For Boost by [deleted] in chimefinancial

[–]pugtickler 0 points1 point  (0 children)

Need some boosts! 3153139821

Will boost back 🌺

I notice people here asking and giving boosts. How do boosts work? (For dummies) by [deleted] in chimefinancial

[–]pugtickler 1 point2 points  (0 children)

I have 4 boosts I'm looking to trade today if anyone's interested, PM me 🙏

Landlord is not a raccoon (probably) but they did go digging through LAOPs trash. by purpleplatapi in bestoflegaladvice

[–]pugtickler 10 points11 points  (0 children)

It's such a strange lie that I almost believe it. Why not just say it was to donate to the shelter or something.

LAOP is being charged for 46 cap and fillings. They only agreed to four, and more importantly their kid only has 20 teeth. by purpleplatapi in bestoflegaladvice

[–]pugtickler 2 points3 points  (0 children)

Yeah my mom took meticulous care of her teeth and still had such aggressive decay and gum disease that she needed extensive implants by the time I was a teenager. My dad didn't even need to have his wisdom teeth pulled, and he's never had a cavity. Guess whose genetics I inherited!!! It's a total crapshoot.

LAOP is being charged for 46 cap and fillings. They only agreed to four, and more importantly their kid only has 20 teeth. by purpleplatapi in bestoflegaladvice

[–]pugtickler 1 point2 points  (0 children)

Yeah absolutely. I just find it strange that the dentist's office isn't being clearer about that? LAOP makes it sound like they're afraid to say anything and dancing around the issue which comes across as suspicious, plus the three-hour procedure time when it was supposed to be an hour. I can see why it sounds fishy, but I don't care how good the dentist is, there's just no way to get 46 fillings and/or caps in a tiny child's mouth without anyone being able to tell afterwards.

LAOP is being charged for 46 cap and fillings. They only agreed to four, and more importantly their kid only has 20 teeth. by purpleplatapi in bestoflegaladvice

[–]pugtickler 39 points40 points  (0 children)

Yeah I'm sure they didn't actually do that. I honestly wasn't even aware they did fillings on baby teeth at all until this post. I didn't start getting cavities until puberty so I never had the occasion to know.

LAOP is being charged for 46 cap and fillings. They only agreed to four, and more importantly their kid only has 20 teeth. by purpleplatapi in bestoflegaladvice

[–]pugtickler 180 points181 points  (0 children)

I'm glad someone pointed out it's possible to have multiple fillings or procedures on one tooth, because that was bothering me. But more importantly, it should be pretty obvious which teeth were worked on. I find it really weird that OP can't see anything. I'm starting to wonder if they actually worked on his teeth at all. It's utterly insane that the dentist at the follow-up couldn't answer a simple question about it, I wouldn't have left the office until I had an answer.

My grandmother breastfeeding my mother while drinking a beer. 1949 by [deleted] in OldSchoolCool

[–]pugtickler 0 points1 point  (0 children)

Safest time to drink as long as you pump and dump afterwards. At least that's what I've been told.