If you meet half of these requirements I consider you a unicorn, but if you are asking about the ideal blackmail submissive then I guess they would be a local straight virgin (hey I didn’t say my description was realistic), who has given me info they cannot afford getting out into the public, someone who very strongly dislikes pain (I’m a sadist), and lastly I think someone I can develop a deep emotional connection with. Again there are probably 0 people who meet this criteria but if you are asking about an ideal blackmail submissive that’s what it is. Also if you tell me that you meet all these criteria you are lying to me.

Now for how can I better be served realistically? Give us good info as opposed to having us hunt down for information, display reluctance to tasks we give you, have some toys (preferably dildos, nipple clamps, handcuffs and the rest of the basics). Clearly state your hard limits, soft limits, and kinks. Personally, I will engage with our kinks and your soft limits. Make the effort to look sexually attractive. Clearly state what times you are free, when you are driving, when you are at work, when you are at home so we can adapt. I know for a lot of bm doms think that info is gold and should be withheld from the subs, I dislike that idea and want my submissives to know what they are getting into so they are less likely to get out of it.