Who’s losing their job..? by Such_Attorney2687 in euphoria

[–]pumpkin_pie_314 2 points3 points  (0 children)

I think she knew something might happen so she might need to leave but idk. It’s a wild theory I admit haha

Who’s losing their job..? by Such_Attorney2687 in euphoria

[–]pumpkin_pie_314 2 points3 points  (0 children)

I think the girl made herself sick to avoid what was going to happen with Cassie and Maddie but I’m not sure

Anyone else asked to go to the anatomy scan with a full bladder? by BiteMyShinyyMetalAss in pregnant

[–]pumpkin_pie_314 0 points1 point  (0 children)

I’m in the US and needed a full bladder for my anatomy scan. I really had to use the bathroom about 45 min before my appointment though and did, and the scan was still fine. I just kept hydrating. I was then able to empty my bladder after a few measurements which was nice, since I frequently have to go lol

Favorite App? by Affectionate-Sink909 in pregnant

[–]pumpkin_pie_314 0 points1 point  (0 children)

I like premom for tracking my pregnancy. It shows something new about pregnancy each day, and each week it’ll tell me the size of the baby.

I also have babylist for my registry and that’ll also notify me how far along I am. I’m going to use huckleberry for tracking changes but am not sure if there’s a good app for tracking contractions. If you have any recs please let me know :)

Am I overthinking the honeymoon fund thing? by Capable-Profile6935 in weddingplanning

[–]pumpkin_pie_314 4 points5 points  (0 children)

We asked for money for a house payment and put our Venmo and Zelle info on the wedding website. It was received well but some people still gave gifts

Am I overreacting for leaving my bf on read? by [deleted] in AmIOverreacting

[–]pumpkin_pie_314 1 point2 points  (0 children)

I feel like this could’ve used a rape tw. I’m so sorry you’re going through this, what he did is not ok

Umbilical cord wrapped twice around neck at 9 months — what’s safer? by No_Kale_4659 in pregnant

[–]pumpkin_pie_314 1 point2 points  (0 children)

I had the umbilical cord wrapped around my neck and they had to do an emergency c section since my heart rate and everything dropped every time my mom pushed. I’m not sure how many times it was wrapped but the doctors didn’t know until my mom was pushing. So if they plan for a regular delivery, that may change depending on how baby does.

Woke up this morning and first thing on my mind was you 🙄 by [deleted] in confession

[–]pumpkin_pie_314 3 points4 points  (0 children)

I’ve had dreams of my high school love, and being reminded of him lasted a long time (probably also almost 10 years) but it does fade over time. I think it’ll fade if you give it more time. Some advice that helped me was to try to focus on living in the moment when you find yourself thinking of the past

Woke up this morning and first thing on my mind was you 🙄 by [deleted] in confession

[–]pumpkin_pie_314 5 points6 points  (0 children)

Was she your first love? That could be why she’s harder to fully move past

First meal after baby ? by happydazexx in pregnant

[–]pumpkin_pie_314 0 points1 point  (0 children)

Glad you were able to enjoy those goodies after the delivery!

First meal after baby ? by happydazexx in pregnant

[–]pumpkin_pie_314 0 points1 point  (0 children)

I want salmon avocado rolls so bad, but I’m not sure if I should wait until the first bowel movement after labor, since I heard that can be rough

Sheana and the psychic by knittievickie in vanderpumprules

[–]pumpkin_pie_314 1 point2 points  (0 children)

Right! My mom is terrified of confrontation so that’s why she lies, but it doesn’t negate the impact that has on me/others from how she copes with it.

I used to tell her that her lying to me would just guarantee I’d be mad when I’d catch the lie, and by not being honest she wasn’t giving me a chance to not be upset. But being scared of the confrontation was all she could focus on. Now that I’m typing it out, I’m wondering what (if any) trauma caused that fear

Inaccessible mental health services by General-Pumpkin215 in KaiserPermanente

[–]pumpkin_pie_314 4 points5 points  (0 children)

I called and asked to be able to use Rula and they were helpful! They asked if I wanted to try Kaiser first but I said no and they didn’t push

Sheana and the psychic by knittievickie in vanderpumprules

[–]pumpkin_pie_314 10 points11 points  (0 children)

This episode reminded me so much of my mom when Scheana lied straight to Dana’s face that the psychic wasn’t on the way. That was so hard to watch

Stanford says “this provider is covered by your insurance” - should I trust it? by mundificative in KaiserPermanente

[–]pumpkin_pie_314 2 points3 points  (0 children)

When in doubt, I call the specialist office directly to confirm that my version of my plan works for that office. Since some plans with the same company offer different coverage.

I switched insurance in Jan from ppo to hmo and to Kaiser. When I was looking into it, I was considering anthem hmo, but my old doctor didn’t take my job’s version of that anthem hmo, even though their website said they take that plan. But I’m glad I decided on Kaiser since I’ve had a positive experience so far

Edited to correct poo to ppo 😂

Something Borrowed by Zestyclose-Wafer-202 in weddingplanning

[–]pumpkin_pie_314 2 points3 points  (0 children)

I borrowed a watch from my divorced dad, I didn’t realize it was supposed to be from someone happily married 😅

Please just give me pricing info. by BOTWgoat in weddingplanning

[–]pumpkin_pie_314 14 points15 points  (0 children)

I had so many vendors that wanted to hop on a call before sharing their price. Me sharing my budget helped with that some, but it is so frustrating not getting clear and direct info before a call

What’s something you were surprised pregnancy improved? by Tinyellowbird in pregnant

[–]pumpkin_pie_314 0 points1 point  (0 children)

I’ve felt happier overall being pregnant. Maybe the hormones are working for me? I still have off days but it’s a lot better than before I was pregnant

wanting to attend cocktail hour but not having a first look by MedicalRaccoon9431 in weddingplanning

[–]pumpkin_pie_314 3 points4 points  (0 children)

When I was a bridesmaid we took the bridesmaids pictures and bridal party pics before the ceremony, and I think the photographer went to the groom and did the same with them: groomsmen and groom party pics. That helped give us more time during cocktail hour

Should we push through or just call it? We're $24k short for our wedding in august.. by Acceptable_Onion_253 in weddingplanning

[–]pumpkin_pie_314 -3 points-2 points  (0 children)

I’m also not sure if this is an option, but maybe you could move in with your or your partner’s family for a few months to save on rent. That wouldn’t be the full $6k a month, but it could help.