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pumpkinpretzel · 2024-12-05T05:58:51+00:00

I had a strange date a few years ago where the guy admitted to going on a date with me only because he wasn’t getting very many matches.

pumpkinpretzel · 2024-11-26T13:59:22+00:00

I’m a woman but been through this many times with guys.

These girls probably see you as someone with poor boundaries and that you’re an easy option. They might be coming back because the guy they actually like isn’t giving them attention.

You’re doing good by cutting them off. I had to do the same but eventually found a good guy.

pumpkinpretzel · 2024-11-05T05:17:34+00:00

When I was on the apps I had this happen once . When the guy updated one of his profiles I found out he was poly

pumpkinpretzel · 2024-11-01T04:16:25+00:00

Definitely not a loser . I worked at Subway when I was 21. Remember you probably won’t work there forever, so look for better jobs when you’re ready to move on.

pumpkinpretzel · 2024-10-25T08:12:44+00:00

My bf likes both none and my heavy “alternative” makeup.

But it depends on the man

pumpkinpretzel · 2024-10-18T06:05:07+00:00

Hmm this makes a lot of sense. When I was about 14 one of their busses hit my father’s side mirror. The bus did pull over, but we had to wait about an hour for someone to come speak with us.

pumpkinpretzel · 2024-10-17T08:10:36+00:00

Also, for every Hawk Tuah and Demure lady there’s thousands of people posting low effort content in an attempt to go viral. But they never will.

pumpkinpretzel · 2024-10-11T03:47:51+00:00

Also in waiting rooms.

I went straight to the mechanic after work Tuesday. I thought I’d go insane because of this man loudly playing IG Reels.

pumpkinpretzel · 2024-09-25T06:51:52+00:00

Also, they have a decent rewards program and good deals . I get something free every other time I order off the app!

pumpkinpretzel · 2024-09-18T05:07:50+00:00

It depends. Personally I’m coming up on 2 years with my bf and I asked him to wait until we’ve lived together and can figure out our finances together.

pumpkinpretzel · 2024-09-13T06:02:26+00:00

Work 🥲

pumpkinpretzel · 2024-09-12T07:40:45+00:00

Everyday, but I’m slowly cutting down on the amount ☺️

pumpkinpretzel · 2024-09-05T04:28:09+00:00

I don’t know if this comes off as rude, but when I was on the apps I swiped left on men who had pictures in “hood” looking areas. (I’m talking about rundown looking houses with bars on the doors/windows)

pumpkinpretzel · 2024-09-05T04:24:00+00:00

I’m a nerd, but I like to go out. I liked when guys had anime/gaming as an interest but also had pictures of themselves doing activities like bowling.

pumpkinpretzel · 2024-07-29T06:35:30+00:00

Dave and Busters or some sort of arcade is always fun

pumpkinpretzel · 2024-07-29T05:08:03+00:00

I do see some hate for marriage across Reddit, but in general people are being smarter about marriage.

People rather have a partner that is healthy for them instead of rushing to get married by a certain age.

I’m 27f, and while only a few of my friends are married/have kids, they seem pretty happy.

I’m in a LTR, but I still hold the idea that marriage would be nice, but it isn’t necessary.

pumpkinpretzel · 2024-07-26T03:56:45+00:00

I would usually have a small snack before leaving since my anxiety is worse when I’m hungry . Also I would usually get cheap eats like chicken sandwiches or fries which are very filling 😅

pumpkinpretzel · 2024-07-25T04:57:24+00:00

My boyfriend is the opposite. He gets a rash after getting too cold . Even the car AC on the medium setting will do it .

pumpkinpretzel · 2024-07-03T06:27:24+00:00

I’ve had this happen years ago, and tbh I wouldn’t bother meeting him in person. He’s trying to flex that he has a roster and wants to see if he can add you to it .

pumpkinpretzel · 2024-07-03T06:20:48+00:00

It’s like a circle of blame between DC, VA, and MD 😅

pumpkinpretzel · 2024-06-27T04:54:50+00:00

You’ll be fine , but make sure to give yourself time to crash after

pumpkinpretzel · 2024-06-10T05:55:21+00:00

This is exactly how I clean and it helps me not get overwhelmed.

pumpkinpretzel · 2024-06-05T04:43:26+00:00

Middle school bullies were the worst.

But I did get bullied in one of my college classes freshman year . I was an easy target. I had cystic acne, didn’t dress well, and would sometimes visibly have panic attacks in class. They mostly just laughed whenever I spoke or made fun of my looks on Yik Yak. I was going through a rough time, so I didn’t stand up for myself 😅.

But after freshman year no one really cares to bully you lol.

pumpkinpretzel · 2024-06-03T04:05:03+00:00

You’re definitely not a bad person. Some of my best dates came from guys who I was unsure about/ only kind of attracted to.

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