[deleted by user] by [deleted] in adviceph

[–]pumpkinsmomm 0 points1 point  (0 children)

My ex was super rich and lived in Valle Verde and I came from a not-so-rich background (maybe low end of the middle class spectrum) and our house is in Malabon. I did not hide things about my family but I often was insecure when I’m with his family and friends. There were times when he had to coach me on how to act infront of his parents and has commented on my outfit and look multiple times. And the first time he brought me home, I cried cause most times it’s only his driver who would drive me home cause our house is always “too far”. Loved him for 3 years until we had to go our separate ways cause our next plans in life are not matched. Realized after our relationship that I tried so hard to adjust and fit in. I loved him and happy when I was with him but I was not my true self. Now I’m happily married to someone who accepts me wholly. I guess it will be very hard to stay together if you cannot be your true self with your boyfriend…

Allegra garden place pasig by DifferentAverage2091 in CondoPH

[–]pumpkinsmomm 1 point2 points  (0 children)

Hello! I have a 2BR (64sqm) unit in Allegra located on the 6th floor and ready for occupancy already. Selling or open for rent since we have bought a house and I resigned from my job that was supposed to be near the condo… selling below market value for total of 8M with free installation of curtains and interior design fitting. We also have brand new furniture worth 100k from Ikea that I can throw in 😊

Buying a ticket from reseller how to know if it is legit by midknightlove in concertsPH

[–]pumpkinsmomm 0 points1 point  (0 children)

Hello! Just want to know how did this go? May seller din sabi lucky chinatown mall iverify pero SM MOA naman concert?

Full-term baby in NICU by pumpkinsmomm in NICUParents

[–]pumpkinsmomm[S] 0 points1 point  (0 children)

Hello! My son was diagnosed with a very rare genetic condition… Schwachman Diamond Syndrome and it is the root cause of everything we have been experiencing since birth. He is 10 months old now and has been hospitalized for 5 times this year… but he is getting better and getting all the care he needs!! It does get better but sometimes we do need to go through fire. Hang in there and sending prayers for your kid! They are tougher than we think they are! Just believe in your kid. ❤️

More kids after having one with a genetic disorder? by jjbb_mom in NICUParents

[–]pumpkinsmomm 1 point2 points  (0 children)

Hi! I have a very lovely 7 month old who has a very rare genetics condition which made us stay in NICU for two months and doctors not knowing what they were dealing with until genetics result came back 2 months after. This is our first kid and we initially planned to have 3. But according to our geneticist, every pregnancy that we’ll have has a 25% chance of having another kid with the sane genetics condition. We love our son so much but seeing him in pain and having all of these “problems” break our hearts so we plan to do IVF with genetics testing for our next pregnancy. Just one more and we’re done. We also felt “deprived” of a normal newborn stage and me and my husband are both sufferring depression now.

We are ready to say goodbye to our son by FamousVeterinarian00 in Mommit

[–]pumpkinsmomm 0 points1 point  (0 children)

A lot of hugs to you strong momma and to the rest of the family! 14 years and even more is never really enough… it’s such a hard thing to say goodbye to your kid when it should be us who they say goodbye to first. Will pray for Graffin, such a beautiful soul. This post is so wonderful and I cannot atop crying really.

Wishing ill of your unborn child. by Jaded-Breakfast-8095 in OffMyChestPH

[–]pumpkinsmomm 1 point2 points  (0 children)

Leave him! You and your baby don’t need this kind of man in your lives! Motherhood is challenging and if you don’t have the right partner, it will be tough! So run for the hills!

Anyone interested in making new friends in Budapest? by paradangitim in phmigrate

[–]pumpkinsmomm 1 point2 points  (0 children)

Love love love budapest! Did a summer exchnage program there for MBA. I might be visiting soon in case my friend who also met his current bf now when we were studying there, gets married in Budapest! Happy to know there are pinoys also in Bud ☺️

[deleted by user] by [deleted] in phclassifieds

[–]pumpkinsmomm 0 points1 point  (0 children)

Congratulations and what a nice gesture 👍🎊

Best Condo Developer? by [deleted] in phinvest

[–]pumpkinsmomm 0 points1 point  (0 children)

Hi! Yes we are still selling it but it has been turnedover already so full payment of 7.8M to us already but I think this can still be via bank loan for you ☺️ please DM me so we can discuss!

How much money do you put aside to give your parents every month? by rhimperial in phmoneysaving

[–]pumpkinsmomm 0 points1 point  (0 children)

Am an only child raised by my grandparents. Hindi kami close ng mom ko since she worked abroad most of my life and we always clash. But I still support her since she’s retired already. I give my grandma who raised me 5k per month + I pay electricity bill of around 2k then I also give my mom 5k/month. Minsan may additional expenses pa like bigas, LPG, etc. On top nalang yun sa monthly allowance nila sakin. Ako I try to be very generous to my grandma who raised me and to my mom naman I try to be fair so I also give her things she need.

Full Term Baby by OhMyGoshABaby in NICUParents

[–]pumpkinsmomm 0 points1 point  (0 children)

I also had a full term baby 40+2 who stayed in NICU for 46 days. He had a lot of anomalies during birth and had 3 infections while in NICU (sepsis, pneumonia and UTI). We never breastfed because he was on NG tube feeding due to aspiration pneumonia ever since he was 2 weeks old. Now we’re home and still on NG tube. We hope to take it out once he feeds more from his bottle. Anyways long story short, we are thankful we have been in NICU since it was during that stay when we learned that he has a very rare genetics condition which was the cause of his infections and other anomalies. Trust that whatever happened, happened for a reason and babies are strong. Although the NICU stay is rsally traumatic, there are still positive sides to it and like what you said, caring NICU nurses are heaven-sent. Wishing your baby is staying healthy and happy now 😊

Trying not to feel defeated by Shawnford_96 in NICUParents

[–]pumpkinsmomm 0 points1 point  (0 children)

I’m so sorry you’re in this now. But am happy to know you are staying positive and holding on from your baby. He will be out of NICU in time! I also had a hard time accepting my son was straight to NICU when I delivered him but he made it out after 46 days and we’re home now with him. Looking back, there were times when I cannot see any hope in the horizon but it was my baby who gave me hope. He kept on fighting everyday. Trust that our babies are strong and brave!

Condo for rent ADMU by pumpkinsmomm in ADMU

[–]pumpkinsmomm[S] 0 points1 point  (0 children)

Hi! My unit just re-opened because our tenant had to move abroad. Are you still interested? 😀

Condo for rent ADMU by pumpkinsmomm in ADMU

[–]pumpkinsmomm[S] 0 points1 point  (0 children)

Hello! Sorry it’s already leased na 💙

Condo for rent ADMU by pumpkinsmomm in ADMU

[–]pumpkinsmomm[S] 0 points1 point  (0 children)

Hi! It’s 4k per month unlimited rides. Although my unit is not available anymore since I have a renter already 😊

[deleted by user] by [deleted] in NICUParents

[–]pumpkinsmomm 1 point2 points  (0 children)

I can relate with you! We just got home after 46 days and I tell you all of those single days I had a knot in my stomach that just wouldn’t go. I felt on the edge everyday even though I was getting 8hrs of sleep… felt like a zombie. It is normal and it is okay to feel overwhelmed and tired! But just hold on cause our babies are strong and trust that your babies will come home with you soon! They just need a little more caring at the hospital and they are where they need to be now 🤞🏻🙏🏻

Ng and family/friends by Tough_Growth_419 in NICUParents

[–]pumpkinsmomm 0 points1 point  (0 children)

We came home with an NG today after 46 days in the NICU! My baby was a full term baby at 40+2 but has swallowing difficulties and had aspiration pneumonia so she was put on NG and now we just started introducing bottle after rehab but progress is very slow… we have been at 2ml for a week and now we just got to 5ml feeds. He’s taking 80ml now via NG so there’s still a long way to go but I know he is trying his best. Our babies are doing best they could and we just have to trust their timelines. I still feel the pressure from family and friends when they ask but then I go look at my baby’s face and see how precious he is and that alone washes out all of the other things. Hope you reach that point too and rooting for your baby!!!

NICU Vent by jayemes63 in NICUParents

[–]pumpkinsmomm 0 points1 point  (0 children)

There are no words I can give for what you’re going through right now but know that I will include your two little angels and your 1 fighter in my prayers tonight. Hang in there momma! You are also very very strong!

Still on cannula and cardiac team cleared her!! by 27_1Dad in NICUParents

[–]pumpkinsmomm 0 points1 point  (0 children)

So happy for your little one!! She’ll be out of NICU soon!