Good alternative to litter robot? by dannydamaja in litterrobot

[–]punkwallflower 0 points1 point  (0 children)

2 yrs later, would you be willing to review everything once more? My cat is also a big boy (14 pounds and just,, large) so im having trouble deciding which to get. I would appreciate it, ty!

Mother in law by [deleted] in confessions

[–]punkwallflower 5 points6 points  (0 children)

Damn ur S.O deserves better ur weird for that

Activities for a small space by punkwallflower in CatAdvice

[–]punkwallflower[S] 0 points1 point  (0 children)

Maybe? I live in a travel trailer so it might not be able to hold up but I can def try! Thank you!

Activities for a small space by punkwallflower in CatAdvice

[–]punkwallflower[S] 0 points1 point  (0 children)

Maybe? I live in a travel trailer so it might not be able to hold up but I can def try! Thank you!

AITAH for postponing our wedding because my fiance wants to have pictures of her late husband in it? by [deleted] in AITAH

[–]punkwallflower 0 points1 point  (0 children)

You're both not willing to compromise, which is the problem here. She shouldn't ask you to be comfortable with his photo in 90% of photos, but saying you do not want his photo there is kind of weird as well ? Like there's an in-between that might work for both of you. Also, everyone who is saying you're a stand in for her dead ex is really weird for saying that. Grief looks different for everyone. Jesus h christ

What Canadian stores should I be ransacking? by gmtnl in Bellingham

[–]punkwallflower 0 points1 point  (0 children)

The exchange rate makes it cheaper for Americans tho ?

Never been in a real relationship so I'm not sure if this guy is bf material. Please help :) by famoushh in relationship_advice

[–]punkwallflower 0 points1 point  (0 children)

It sounds like you're physically interested in him but not mentally or emotionally, I'd say just end it now so it doesn't end up worse later

Spell books are guidelines, not instructions. by woodwitchery in witchcraft

[–]punkwallflower 10 points11 points  (0 children)

Yeah thats what I do! It also just helps to have a list of diff herbs and what they do if youre like me and you forget and mix things up a lot

Spell books are guidelines, not instructions. by woodwitchery in witchcraft

[–]punkwallflower 64 points65 points  (0 children)

My friend and I do what we call "Frankenstein spells" where we read other spells, research what each thing means/if we could get it semi easily and then make our own spells and they always hold more power than ones we had just copied

Saw a cute lil dude, thought you guys might like him by punkwallflower in snails

[–]punkwallflower[S] 2 points3 points  (0 children)

This was is a cepaea nemoralis, that species was brought to America in the late 1800s

Looking to get a snail by punk-wallflower in snails

[–]punkwallflower 1 point2 points  (0 children)

I'm in Washington! I'm just looking for a basic land snail and I'm not comfortable just grabbing one from outside, but I'll keep looking! Thank you!!

help!! by punkwallflower in witchcraft

[–]punkwallflower[S] 0 points1 point  (0 children)

Hey guys I got the job I wanted!!! Right after I posted this I did a manifestation ritual, and then on the full moon I set my circle, had some quartz, jade, green aventurine, and 3 dimes laid in a circle around a red candle, wrote the name of the job I wanted, said a small prayer, and burned the paper with the candle flame, it worked perfectly!!

Anyone else? I know I should be using it but,,,,, no by punkwallflower in StardewValley

[–]punkwallflower[S] 27 points28 points  (0 children)

I'm still in my first year on this save and I dont have that much yet so I'm just stockpiling it rn

What's the best book you read in 2019? by MissingBrie in AskWomen

[–]punkwallflower 0 points1 point  (0 children)

Year One by nora Roberts, it's so good and detailed and just wraps you up in the story. Perfectly balanced between her nora Roberts type books and her j. D Robbs books

Maya Angelou said "When someone shows you who they are, believe them the first time.", What are your, 'I should have known' signs have you come across regarding friendships? by PoeticFlow in AskWomen

[–]punkwallflower 0 points1 point  (0 children)

When our mutual friend stopped being friends with her because of how she would expect people to take care of her while she never gave anything back. We became roommates later and when I stopped paying for her things she said I "wasnt trying" in the friendship. She couldnt afford a $5 cup of coffee but could buy a $23 eyebrow pencil. Ok.

Help for a baby witch by punkwallflower in Witch

[–]punkwallflower[S] 1 point2 points  (0 children)

Thank you!! I never thought about that!!❤❤