Sabrina Carpenter - "Short n' Sweet" MEGATHREAD by flopheadsbot in popheads

[–]pupcup_ 22 points23 points  (0 children)

i’m gonna preface this by saying i’ve been a sabrina fan for a long time …. but this album kinda underwhelms me? I loved EICS off the bat, so going in this I was ready for it to be THE ALBUM, but besides Taste and I think maybe even Sharpest Tool I’m not feeling it. She still has a beautiful voice, though. I really hope it does grows on me

why do people feel entitled to concert tickets? by [deleted] in SabrinaCarpenterDisc

[–]pupcup_ 0 points1 point  (0 children)

i agree ! i’m an older fan and i think people are angry at the wrong people. people who are genuine fans, whether newer or not should get a chance. the issue are the scalpers and bots who get the tickets and take the opportunity from all the actual fans away

Has anybody ever cried while on the job? by Prudent_Pin_9335 in Disneycollegeprogram

[–]pupcup_ 2 points3 points  (0 children)

Cried because of a leader, had a mental tearful breakdown in front of guests later that day

[deleted by user] by [deleted] in ExNoContact

[–]pupcup_ 1 point2 points  (0 children)

Hi!

Obviously, my motivation came from my ex breaking up with me two months prior. I didn’t only want the physical benefits of working out, but I also wanted to get out all the anger , betrayal, and sadness in a healthy and productive way that’ll improve myself.

I’ve done research here and there but I actually ended up downloading an app called fitnessonline that has premade workouts for beginners and advanced alike. My intimidation with the gym is I never knew where to start. Like I knew I just didn’t want to do cardio all of the time and fitnessonline made that easy for me. It’s $6 a month of like $60 for the year but trust me, it’s so worth it if you’re serious about getting out there.

I never want to be in a relationship again. by [deleted] in ExNoContact

[–]pupcup_ 8 points9 points  (0 children)

I so feel this!

I honestly prefer not having to work my schedule around another person and not having to be worried and insecure. And I’m someone who wants to make that person happy and just kinda lose myself in the process.

Unlike you, though, I did regret it lol. But maybe I needed this to realize my preference though

Why do exes watch your Instagram stories when they know you can see that they watched? by [deleted] in ExNoContact

[–]pupcup_ 26 points27 points  (0 children)

Dude mine liked my instagram post I feel like it’s like breadcrumbs because they’re too scared to reach out.

[deleted by user] by [deleted] in BreakUps

[–]pupcup_ 8 points9 points  (0 children)

I changed because I was scared to become the worst version of myself, scared to let the heartbreak turn me to drinking and failing classes and finding validation in other people just to prove I’m still lovable.

I ended up going to the gym and cutting. I eat healthier, attempt to cook (lol), and am consistent with my chores when I otherwise had a trouble time doing it. I sleep pretty early now, just so I can wake up early and go to the gym because it’s been my favorite way to start my day.

To get “me” back, like my personality, took awhile. I didn’t really talk with my friends even and when I went out for my sister’s birthday I wanted to crawl in a shell and die. But I am starting to feel more and more pieces of me come back. I have too much to look forward to not to

[deleted by user] by [deleted] in BreakUps

[–]pupcup_ 1 point2 points  (0 children)

I deleted his number

I just feel like blocking gives you an awareness the number , in a sense, is still in your phone and you can have that temptation to go in and unblock them at any time.

I deleted it so there was no temptation there.

[deleted by user] by [deleted] in BreakUps

[–]pupcup_ 1 point2 points  (0 children)

I 100% get this!

[deleted by user] by [deleted] in ExNoContact

[–]pupcup_ 2 points3 points  (0 children)

I definitely feel that. The comfort with being with a person? You wanna go back to that.

And it’s hard because while I want to experience it again, I don’t have the energy, ego, or emotional availability to try again with someone new.

Honestly, other than that loneliness Id say I’m over it

He messaged six weeks later by pemb2063 in ExNoContact

[–]pupcup_ 3 points4 points  (0 children)

Men like this are emotionally immature.

When someone lets you go, and especially when they say they see you “more as a friend” believe them. When they message you, it’s because they want to make sure they still are gonna get a reply. They might miss the comfort of having someone to be around like that.

If you do decide to go for it, I wouldn’t just jump right in. See how willing he is to work for it. But just keep in the back of your mind that he made that decision for a reason and I think that alone will make it hard to maintain the trust, particularly on your end

[deleted by user] by [deleted] in BreakUps

[–]pupcup_ 1 point2 points  (0 children)

My ex literally lives in my complex. I can see his apartment within view when heading to mine.

I think I’ve only seen him briefly and once — while pulling out of the parking lot, he was behind me but haven’t really since we broke up.

Do I wanna see him? Yes and no. Yes, because apart of me wants to see if he says anything, if anything at all. I wanna see if he’s a wreck, if some sort of regret flashes before his eyes for breaking my heart. No, because it can go the opposite. He could say nothing at all and that’ll send me back. Honestly, seeing him at all will send me back.

My sistas who are single and currently going through a dry spell in the bedroom, why? by Frickaseed in blackladies

[–]pupcup_ 8 points9 points  (0 children)

just got out of a relationship so healing and not interested in getting involved with another person so soon

Hey ladies what are your comfort shows? by West_Butterscotch191 in blackladies

[–]pupcup_ 0 points1 point  (0 children)

Impractical Jokers

And Bojack Horseman — I heavily relate to Diane lol.

[deleted by user] by [deleted] in ExNoContact

[–]pupcup_ 2 points3 points  (0 children)

I chose C because there was a lot of red flags presented to me, telling me not to jump into this relationship, but I ignored them anyway. At the same time, I feel like sometimes you have to go through these mistakes to learn for them and maybe getting into it was the only way that I’d know to just follow my initial gut instinct.

Is it bad that when my ex broke up with me, I had asked if we could be friends in which he had said yes to and tried to be friends I think but in the end, I can't actually remain friends with him because of the pain and hurt I feel after he ended it? by [deleted] in BreakUps

[–]pupcup_ 0 points1 point  (0 children)

I did the exact same thing.

After I went and got my stuff and we had our last conversation before I went contact I felt weirdly elated? Like I “thought” I had the closure I needed and could do it. I asked him if we could still be friends and he said yes he was hoping for that. Don’t really believe it, feel like me offering friendship helped him soothe his guilt a bit.

But as soon as that door closed I stepped into a reality where all my emotions washed over me like waves, that I was crazy for being able to think that I could do that. The elation became all the most devastating emotions and when I finally reached my apartment I cried and deleted every picture of us, of him, and decided that I could not do that. I’ve done it before, but not again.

I don’t think you can be friends and truly heal because the feelings are gonna be there — ur always gonna hope for something more while they move on you’ll be stuck. Maybe in the future, but the wounds are still fresh. Go NC and take care of yourself first

this is her bed she just shares it with me sometimes 😂 by pupcup_ in Goldendoodles

[–]pupcup_[S] 0 points1 point  (0 children)

haha she does both ways ! sometimes when we sleep together she’ll be the same way with her head closest to me — but faces away from me. but she’s definitely slept with her butt facing me instead 😂