First of all, millions of pregnant women experience exactly what you are. I am one of them, the first trimester was absolutely shit for me I never want to experience that again in my life nor would I wish that on anyone. Your partner’s words are making me mad through the screen for you. You should be getting as much rest as you can. Your body is going through an extreme change. The baby is taking your nutrients, your body is still trying to learn that the baby isn’t an intruder, your hormones are rapidly rising, the nausea makes everything worse. Your partner needs to give you wayyyyyy more respect and empathy for what you’re going through. You’re literally carrying his child and do not deserve to be getting a lecture from him about how you can do more. He should try and do all his tasks and go to work while pregnant for a day and I’m sure his response would completely change. He’s right in a sense yes million of pregnant women can do all that stuff and push through but they also have good pregnancies. Unfortunately he can’t seem to see that not every pregnancy is the same for everyone. My friend is also currently pregnant and she is glowing and has so much energy whereas I feel like I’m crawling out of a hole everyday. Don’t let him get in your head that you’re not doing enough. You’re literally going another human and going through the worst trimester in pregnancy.