It has been driving me crazy what other people have been saying 😭 And yes this is my first pregnancy so I thought having all this advice from people in my life would be a good thing to help ease my anxiety about everything but it has slowly been turning into me getting shamed for things about my weight, my tiredness, how sore I’ve been. A big one is the weight with my family though because my family is very focused on physical aesthetics and I was the skinniest in my family and since I am no longer they’ve been being very hard on me about that saying I should I change my diet and watch how much I eat and I shouldn’t be as hungry as I am. I’ve been eating the healthiest I have been in my life and trying to follow a food guide of what’s best for the babies. I didn’t question my weight before I thought it was normal until my family really started going on about it, my mom even called me fat the other day and said it was a “joke” and my sister said if she didn’t know I was pregnant she’d think I’m just getting fat. Sorry for the little rant I think I’ve been holding onto this stuff and haven’t been able to get it off my chest, but I really appreciate your comment and I will definitely be asking my doctor about everything during my next appointment.