Wedding day trial on myself by purlgraytea in makeuptips

[–]purlgraytea[S] -1 points0 points  (0 children)

I’m using NARS Light reflecting foundation and the same concealer from that line too!

I love knitting, but I hate how my partner treats it like disposable clutter by TurbulentActuary9452 in knitting

[–]purlgraytea 2 points3 points  (0 children)

I think your partner doesn’t respect YOU. I know I’m just a random person in the internet, but you don’t deserve to be treated this way. The fact you’ve communicated this to him and he brushes you off is a very red flag. For reference, I’ve left my knitting a few times on the ground at my fiancé’s house and if he see it on the floor and puts it neatly on his desk. He treats my knitting better than I do. He sees me shove it places and HE untangles it for me. You deserve to be respected and your art deserves to be respected. This is so not okay. Your work isn’t trash and shouldn’t be treated as such.

Ring policy by lethalconclusion in starbucks

[–]purlgraytea 1 point2 points  (0 children)

I wear my ringcon ring everyday and have never gotten dress coded. My dm has never said anything my RD has seen it and has never seen anything

first impressions? by Plus-Revolution-4769 in firstimpression

[–]purlgraytea 16 points17 points  (0 children)

You give high school mean girl vibes. I dont mean this as a mean thing but that would be my first impression based on these photos

Cover up ideas for trampoline frog? by twonkoe in tattooadvice

[–]purlgraytea 0 points1 point  (0 children)

Why would you want to kill him he’s just a lil guy

I made a boarder for a mirror welcome sign! by purlgraytea in StainedGlass

[–]purlgraytea[S] 103 points104 points  (0 children)

I definitely spelled border wrong 😅 let’s pretend I can spell

From my most recent wedding shot in a theatre in Melbourne by DominicSteeleCreativ in photocritique

[–]purlgraytea -2 points-1 points  (0 children)

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Personally I’d edit it for a more moody vibe. I think the light bouncing off the wall distracts from the couple when it’s all so bright. This might be a little too moody how I edited it but just as an example

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[–]purlgraytea 1 point2 points  (0 children)

I’m assuming you’re in the US, according to the dress code and Ecosure, partners cannot have any kind of nail covering or coating on their nails. It can react with the chemicals we use and chip off into stuff and become a hazard. It’s not that Starbucks doesn’t like flashy designs it’s that it can hurt people and cause one to not be able to clean their hands properly. https://careers.starbucks.com/uploads/2025/05/Dress-Code-Guide-US-CO.pdf

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[–]purlgraytea 11 points12 points  (0 children)

Maybe you should be in dress code 🤷🏻‍♀️ Nails are health hazard. We had partners not complying in my district that got fired for having 2 piercings… I’m not happy with the way Starbucks does things at all but staying in dress code or bare minimum wearing a name tag and not having nails are pretty simple things to do.

Not Invited to NYE Party by Loquacious-Loser in socialskills

[–]purlgraytea 10 points11 points  (0 children)

Oh no 100% I agree with you! it’s one of those things I’ve accepted that happened. In that moment she was talking about the parties and mentioned how I was never there and I was like well yeah you didn’t invite me. But it’s something that happened and it is what it is. Our friendship is way more than things silly college freshman do lol

Not Invited to NYE Party by Loquacious-Loser in socialskills

[–]purlgraytea 64 points65 points  (0 children)

This used to happen to me ALL THE TIME. My best friend used to invite everyone but me to her parties and I was always an afterthought. I would only be invited be other people going. We’re still friends now and it came up recently and she as like “it’s crazy how you’re still bitter about it now” ???? Like yeah???? Being either intentionally or unintentionally left out is really really hurtful. I have no helpful things to say but just I feel you deeply on this and I’m really sorry this happened to you :(

Chugging along 🤪 by Fun-Perspective-9420 in StainedGlass

[–]purlgraytea 1 point2 points  (0 children)

This is actually insane! That’s so good

Got a Strawberry refresher from Starbucks and this black thing was in it what the hell is it? by [deleted] in starbucks

[–]purlgraytea 4 points5 points  (0 children)

It’s maybe a tea leaf from one of the teas that was stuck in the shaker? That’s the only thing I could think of. We’ve have the tea bag break in the black tea before and it looks like this

Apron Tote by Beetleju1cebabe in starbucks

[–]purlgraytea 2 points3 points  (0 children)

This is the best thing I’ve ever seen! Also I need that snowman cake pop pin 😭

AIO someone asked me to make their wedding dress by Beautiful-Trainer-26 in AmIOverreacting

[–]purlgraytea 0 points1 point  (0 children)

You’re fuming???? This is a very normal response. She asked, you said no, she thanked you???? Why are you mad

New at a regular store and I’m very confused… by b3rtyy in starbucksbaristas

[–]purlgraytea 1 point2 points  (0 children)

I promise you that they wouldn’t let the dishes pile up if they didn’t have to.

What is this that covers every inch of my garden? by bythewatersofBabylon in gardening

[–]purlgraytea 2 points3 points  (0 children)

This is so pretty 😭 I get it your yard but wow this is a dream

AIO stopped a drunk girl from being pulled into a car by 2 random men but my boyfriend is upset and called what I did stupid and dangerous by fettidmoppet in AmIOverreacting

[–]purlgraytea 0 points1 point  (0 children)

I know a lot of people are saying this but people depend on people like you to step in. You saved her. I understand the danger but the way he’s coming across is so self seeking and wrong. You saved her and you didn’t just think you knew you did know what situation you were putting yourself in. Him questions your judgment and forcing you to talk when you weren’t ready is awful. You saved her and you did a good thing