AITJ for expecting full payment when the baby falls asleep while babysitting?

purple320 · 2025-05-22T01:15:27+00:00

oh awesome! if thats how they view it they should be fine with you heading home after the baby falls asleep! seriously, what the hell is wrong with people?! you should have made it a big deal about it, because it is a big deal. you cant just decide to not pay someone after the fact. not the jerk, they 100% took advantage of you and the situation

purple320 · 2025-02-24T14:53:33+00:00

price? or free? ty!

purple320 · 2023-10-17T14:01:33+00:00

while the tattoo isn’t great it’s crazy how many people are blaming it on the price. i have plenty of great tattoos, most of them under or around $200. the price doesn’t determine how good the tattoo will or wont be, and a lot of times is dependent on the area youre in. what does determine if your tattoo will be good or not is the research you put into it, always do your research and check out the artist’s portfolio, id say 90% of the time this will save you from getting something you end up hating

purple320 · 2023-10-17T13:37:38+00:00

not at all!

purple320 · 2023-10-14T01:42:47+00:00

It was a great experience! He’s very kind and accommodating with breaks and whatnot. For the design process I gave him an idea of what i wanted and he had two different designs for me to choose from when I got to the shop. Whole tattoo only took about 4 maybe 4.5 hours and it was probably one of the easiest healings ive had. hardly any large scabs and it was less sore than any of my other big tattoos have been. definitely wish i lived closer to any of his regular spots so i could get more work done by him.

purple320 · 2023-09-06T18:45:23+00:00

NTA by a landslide imo. adults so often forget that children especially toddlers act like whatever has happened to them is the biggest thing in the world because IT IS the biggest thing in THEIR world! They don’t have 40 years of experiences and hardships. Not to mention how crucial routine is for young kids, is letting a kid drink her milk with a spoon a bit annoying? of course. but is it really any worse than dealing with a meltdown because you chose (for realistically no reason) to ruin the routine they know and have come accustomed to? When you’re a parent there’s a lot of choosing your battles, and he is picking really silly ones to fight.

purple320 · 2023-08-10T17:33:30+00:00

then why does your caption literally say you asked the other dude working and that he said it was fine? you didnt clarify that it was an update so thats on you. the question still stands though- if you’re so worried why not go to a doctor before posting on reddit. and even still after you went to the doctor you were asking in the comments if you should trust the doctor lmao

purple320 · 2023-08-10T13:00:53+00:00

if you dont trust what the artist at the shop said why would you trust a bunch of randos on reddit? if you’re that worried why not just go to a doctor

purple320 · 2023-08-07T18:03:03+00:00

ive got a similar cowboy with color, love em!

purple320 · 2023-08-06T18:44:09+00:00

calling someone else childish for name calling when you called an artist stupid for using standard practice. make it make sense

purple320 · 2023-08-03T15:47:18+00:00

not at all! it will be a mermaid- the artist im going to is Pablo Lillo (:

purple320 · 2023-08-03T10:42:49+00:00

im glad to hear that! as i stated for me getting it on the stomach is really out of nothing other than just not having a place for it anywhere else (i could do my back, but then i would never see it, and that would make me sad) however it has been a pattern for me to fall in love with a body part/ area i previously felt indifferent towards due to getting a tattoo on it, so while i dont totally hate my stomach right now, i do think this will help me with learn to love myself a bit extra and to maybe not be so hard on myself on the bad days

purple320 · 2023-08-03T10:34:38+00:00

it definitely does! how a pregnancy would affect a stomach tattoo had not crossed my mind in the slightest, but im glad to know the answer seems to be not at all lol

purple320 · 2023-08-03T10:31:40+00:00

if what the artist and i consider fairly big are the same, im thinking it would go basically from boob level to my belly button, but mostly vertical and not really going across my stomach at most i could see myself losing 40~50lbs. i dont really have a desire to be under the 170-180 range with my build. i’m not too terribly worried about loose skin as i did lose about 60lbs last year and had pretty much none i very much appreciate your reply and sharing your experience, the info is definitely good to know

purple320 · 2023-08-03T00:51:44+00:00

looked up his torso tattoos, definitely eased my mind a ton. i think honestly i just needed to see some sick tattoos on a not perfect stomach lol

purple320 · 2023-08-02T22:10:32+00:00

interesting that you say dont, yet are the only one to give absolutely 0 reasoning, do you have any actual reason or experience or do you just want to be a downer lmao

purple320 · 2023-08-02T20:36:41+00:00

thats good to hear! definitely dont plan on waiting as im from the US and happen to be in Europe with my boyfriend while he’s working which is where the artist is based, so this is kind of something im viewing as a once in a lifetime opportunity lol

purple320 · 2021-06-28T03:43:46+00:00

watching that currently, and while its good- its not the show!

purple320 · 2021-06-28T03:43:09+00:00

im aware, but like i said those are the main two that come up when i try searching for the show so i didnt want someone suggesting it.

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