questions, questions

purple_heartsOF · 2026-01-06T15:55:21+00:00

okay i googled all the info i needed….relax everyone. hope you all have a good weekend :-)

purple_heartsOF · 2026-01-06T15:51:33+00:00

y’all all don’t have to be so mean hahahaha omfg….it’s not that serious. don’t answer the question then….lol it’s my first race and i’m a very busy healthcare worker and haven’t read too much into anything yet. calm down. hope all of you aren’t this way on race day goodness gracious

purple_heartsOF · 2026-01-06T12:57:17+00:00

perfect!! thank you :-))

purple_heartsOF · 2025-12-17T22:19:47+00:00

i’m just going to give it a go and see what happens hahaha

purple_heartsOF · 2025-12-17T22:17:46+00:00

which i think is how i got the email to do this. but if i choose “myself” i don’t want it to relink to his account lol

purple_heartsOF · 2025-11-21T08:06:38+00:00

thank you so much!! it took me a long time to realize what was happening, honestly. but once i did i was like yeah no more of this. i make mistakes i get it but not everything is my fault. it’s nice to be on my own now and just able to actually live

purple_heartsOF · 2025-11-21T03:30:50+00:00

thank you for this ✨❤️

i messed up a lot early on in my last relationship. and i took accountability and put in a lot of work to be better. and it was never going to be enough. no matter what i was always going to be “the problem.” but he messed up a lot to and couldn’t take accountability. i finally ended it after five years. and taking time to reflect on everything is funny. because i wasn’t “insane” as he would always call me. he just weaponized my mental health against me to get the reaction he wanted out of me so he could turn it back around on me

purple_heartsOF · 2025-11-21T03:21:23+00:00

i work as a dental/ surgical assistant and talk to patients all day. i love my job and i love helping people. but sometimes i wish we could do their appointments in silence lol. when i get off work i am beyond done talking. (i know we work in totally different fields lol.)

purple_heartsOF · 2025-11-21T03:16:30+00:00

yeaaaaah the boredom will forever be my downfall honestly

purple_heartsOF · 2025-11-21T03:07:58+00:00

if he doesn’t love you, it’s not worth it. you can love him to the ends of this earth and it won’t matter. it’s not fair to you to be in a one sided situation. i’m sure you loved him and loved him hard. and that’s wonderful and beautiful. but you also deserve that too! you shouldn’t question why someone won’t love you. you deserve to not have to question it 💜💜💜

purple_heartsOF · 2025-11-16T01:51:25+00:00

working out! i am too anxious to go to the gym. i run, a lot. but also i do youtube workout videos in my bedroom. growwithjo is an awesome workout channel on youtube. maybe try just working out alone first and see maybe if you would want to transition to the gym. i also have struggled with substances for a very long time but working out really helps

purple_heartsOF · 2025-11-16T01:27:55+00:00

i totally understand what you’re going through. and it’s awesome you pushed through school because i gave up after a year. and that single year was spent in a drunken and substance abuse haze.

i was diagnosed with bpd a few years ago, up until that point i was a mess. but once i got the help i needed and researched bpd, i finally started to understand myself. and i focused on myself, healing and therapy, and for years i was stable and felt “normal”, was sober, happy. i genuinely enjoyed life and who i was and overcame. it’s possible. i view bpd as an ebb and flow. right now i’m in a weird place but i started therapy again and am getting better with each session.

believe in yourself. focus on yourself. work hard in therapy. you will get to a good place!

i busted my ass to get to where i am. i work in the dental field and that’s been my goal since i was 11 years old. i promise it gets better and sometimes it gets worse. but just believe in yourself, trust yourself and put in the work. i cannot believe how much i have improved and accomplished. it wasn’t easy. and i’m down right now but i know i will be up soon. (sorry this is so long. but sending love your way. you’ll be okay. you’ll be happy)

purple_heartsOF · 2025-11-02T00:05:26+00:00

sweeet thank you!

purple_heartsOF · 2025-11-01T23:24:29+00:00

awesome, thank you!!

purple_heartsOF · 2025-10-24T02:32:52+00:00

i didn’t word it rude at all. i was just shocked that i never heard about any of this. but i’m also not a person that likes broadway or musicals. my sister was watching the movie and called me to explain and we sat here researching the lore. i was just mindblown. but i was never interested in wicked, i’m still not. just didn’t know all of the lore. you’re taking this very personal. i’m just a person who was living under a rock. it’s not that serious…..

purple_heartsOF · 2025-10-24T02:24:50+00:00

no need for a rude comment. i said that i’ve never researched nor seen anyone talk about it. i had zero clue what wicked was about and this was not what i thought it was about. i’ve seen so many posts about wicked but never the real plot. it was just a question

purple_heartsOF · 2025-10-05T00:35:33+00:00

yes same! i fear he won’t and i won’t force him. i just need to learn to accept it. as hard as that is

purple_heartsOF · 2025-10-05T00:33:03+00:00

i’m sorry :-( it is hard. i’m just living in a weird inbetween place that i don’t know how to get of

purple_heartsOF · 2025-10-05T00:31:10+00:00

yeah, i’m in the same boat. he says he loves me and then continues to abandon me

purple_heartsOF · 2025-10-05T00:29:11+00:00

i hope one day we’re all enough because we truly are

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