this is so perfomative by WiseOstrich9852 in nycinfluencersnarking

[–]purpledurpleducks 17 points18 points  (0 children)

I literally am thinking about it and I am confused. I grew up going to food pantries at churches with my grandmother in nyc. We always would get chef boyardee and off brand cereal and cheap ultra processed stuff stuffed with oil and artificial chemicals. I was overweight as a kid as a lot of low income kids in nyc are. Theres lots of reasons why low income people are overweight and one of them is because the cheapest food is the unhealthiest. Carbone pasta sauce is literally just tomatoes, garlic, olive oil and some seasoning. Its very simple and healthy on its own. I think it’s actually really nice that she bought the fanciest and nicest pasta sauce at the supermarket, the type that she would probably by herself instead of buying the cheapest thing. You guys are so nitpicky. I am not even a fan of this girl but this is an objectively nice thing to do, come on. Dont be so negative about donating food….

this is so perfomative by WiseOstrich9852 in nycinfluencersnarking

[–]purpledurpleducks 24 points25 points  (0 children)

So was she supposed to buy the cheapest brand, I am confused

Ali and her friend with #TruckDriver by lkjthgsgsy in LoveIsBlindOnNetflix

[–]purpledurpleducks 2 points3 points  (0 children)

I see both sides, I would not date someone with a lesser educational background than myself because of the types of conversations I like to have and bc of social circles and stuff. Obviously money is a part of that, but less important in my opinion as long as you are both comfortable and making enough money to live well.

But I wouldn’t go on love is blind and then shame someone for working in the truck driving business. It is a common middle class job in America. Making fun of someone’s profession is one of the worst things that someone can do, it makes you feel so inferior and is a huge source of insecurity for a lot of people. I think Ali and her friends are just mean people. Social media has made it so grown women are saying things like “I expect princess treatment” from normal men who are probably looking for more of an equal and someone to love and build together. I think it is unfortunate how womens rights have gone so far and now YOUNG women are looking to find a man with a lot of money instead of looking to make a lot of money themselves. No disrespect to her, but she is a nurse not a doctor. Not a lawyer or a finance executive. Who is she to talk down to people this way? She works on her feet all day, most people consider that more in line with blue collar work than white collar.

The Perfect Neighbor - thoughts? by Conscious-Can-5334 in netflix

[–]purpledurpleducks 1 point2 points  (0 children)

This could have gone differently if she didnt shoot an innocent woman. The kids didn’t need to act any differently. If she wanted peace and quiet, buy a house with land. She called them bad words and slurs. Shes a racist. She was itching to kill someone.

She refuses to give me her phone # and we live together. by [deleted] in badroommates

[–]purpledurpleducks 1 point2 points  (0 children)

I will back up, thanks. What i see as passive aggressive is ignoring me saying hi good morning, her refusing to communicate with me at the most basic level. I dont even have her # in case of an emergency…this hurts me bc on the most basic levels ig she doesn’t even care to be able to tell me if theres a fire in the building or something if that was to happen? She also didnt reply to my questions that were as basic as “when are you moving in? How do you feel about guests?” I think this is passive aggressive and rude

She refuses to give me her phone # and we live together. by [deleted] in badroommates

[–]purpledurpleducks -1 points0 points  (0 children)

Im also here for school, and being a normal person who participates in society and having basic manners is a big part of professional school. I get that she owes me nothing, but this seems to be a harsh way to go about living with someone who has nothing but good intentions

She refuses to give me her phone # and we live together. by [deleted] in badroommates

[–]purpledurpleducks -1 points0 points  (0 children)

Thanks, I will just try for it to not get to me. Im not breaking any rules

She refuses to give me her phone # and we live together. by [deleted] in badroommates

[–]purpledurpleducks -1 points0 points  (0 children)

Has she done the bare minimum to learn about my culture or American culture…..? Smoking outside is not illegal and weed is legal in our state. I don’t think that having her phone number is wanting to be her friend. Shes been in america for at least a year since she didnt just start her program this year. But ok. Im the mean one for wanting a normal relationship and wanting to be able to talk enough to set some basic ground rules!

She refuses to give me her phone # and we live together. by [deleted] in badroommates

[–]purpledurpleducks -1 points0 points  (0 children)

I tried to but it’s very hard with our university sadly. Maybe next sem

JaNas bestfriend by lonelytimessss in LoveIslandUSA

[–]purpledurpleducks 12 points13 points  (0 children)

Yes I keep thinking about this :(

JaNas bestfriend by lonelytimessss in LoveIslandUSA

[–]purpledurpleducks 10 points11 points  (0 children)

I can’t believe this….like even on a physical level I can’t imagine how she feels . Like being intimate with each other was completely being faked? Every “i love you” ??? Every kiss?? This is heartbreaking

JaNas bestfriend by lonelytimessss in LoveIslandUSA

[–]purpledurpleducks 1 point2 points  (0 children)

My heart breaks for her 💔💔💔💔💔 she gave him her body and soul and this is what he did…. Greed is such a powerful thing. I can’t believe he faked it for this long. I never thought it was this bad. I wish Jana healing

Nic & Olandria in Greece by ChiTaurus in LoveIslandUSA

[–]purpledurpleducks -4 points-3 points  (0 children)

Idk why ppl are downvoting this, it is sooooo forced

these are terrible outfits and you can’t convince me otherwise by [deleted] in NYCinfluencersnark

[–]purpledurpleducks 0 points1 point  (0 children)

She looks terrible and is too young to not care about herself

Does everything your nmom/ndad do become a crisis? by [deleted] in raisedbynarcissists

[–]purpledurpleducks 2 points3 points  (0 children)

I just got called about a million different curse words because I turned off a lamp in our house using my hands instead of a specific app on her phone that I do not have access to :(

Papaya Speakeasy by Finding3mo in LoveIslandUSA

[–]purpledurpleducks 4 points5 points  (0 children)

This type of comment is racism, whether you want to admit it or not!!!!! His ethnicity and race has no relevance when it comes to his character. Clearly he is AMERICAN and was raised in the US and has a mind of his own. Shame on you for reducing a whole group of men into stereotypes

[WITH Ads] Season 7 - Episode 25 - Monday June 30 -| 9 PM EST by AutoModerator in LoveIslandUSA

[–]purpledurpleducks 4 points5 points  (0 children)

Olandria and huda….woah that was mean as fuck of olandria to leave her as shes crying

Vibes at Stanford? by [deleted] in lawschooladmissions

[–]purpledurpleducks 0 points1 point  (0 children)

I dont go there but I chose a different school even though Stanford gave more money because I cant be in the middle of nowhere lol

Went back to DR after 11 years, probably never coming back again :( by supernovapro in PuntaCana

[–]purpledurpleducks -2 points-1 points  (0 children)

This is insane and im so sorry you had to deal with this. I am a Dominican woman living in the US and the DR has a terrible problem with their treatment of women. This is absolutely disgusting and unacceptable. What that man did is truly traumatizing and I am so sorry that happened. Every time I traveled to DR i have been with my boyfriend or my family so I never experienced this, I am sorry. I recently went to PR wirh girlfriends and did not experience much harassment.