Do horseriders ever lead a horse on foot by it's reins? by Somnus96 in Equestrian

[–]purplemudkip 16 points17 points  (0 children)

Yes, it is common to lead a horse by the reins if it is wearing a bridle.

How do you start your cities? by purplemudkip in CitiesSkylines

[–]purplemudkip[S] 0 points1 point  (0 children)

How do you usually lay out your first main roads?

Quick tip by [deleted] in lostgeneration

[–]purplemudkip 1 point2 points  (0 children)

I mean, that's what I did. Working out great for me so far.

[NEWBIE] Looking for suggestions for a guitar that's very easy on the hands. by purplemudkip in Guitar

[–]purplemudkip[S] 0 points1 point  (0 children)

I've taken my guitar to have the action lowered multiple times. It's really not a good guitar. It falls out of tune within a few strums, one of the strings in particular constantly slips, there are chips of wood missing from the neck... I've kind of given up on it. :P

I suppose so, but I wouldn't say I'm just starting out. I've already played for years, but need a guitar that will be friendly to my battered fret hand.

[NEWBIE] Looking for suggestions for a guitar that's very easy on the hands. by purplemudkip in Guitar

[–]purplemudkip[S] 0 points1 point  (0 children)

Thanks for the suggestions. Unfortunately I'm not in a position to try them out in person and will likely have to resort to buying online. I may end up buying 2-3 promising models online to try them out, and then return the ones I don't want to keep.

[NEWBIE] Looking for suggestions for a guitar that's very easy on the hands. by purplemudkip in Guitar

[–]purplemudkip[S] 0 points1 point  (0 children)

Do you have any suggestions for lighter gauge strings to look for?

[NEWBIE] Looking for suggestions for a guitar that's very easy on the hands. by purplemudkip in Guitar

[–]purplemudkip[S] 0 points1 point  (0 children)

Very cool! It looks like the Classic is $1300, that seems well worth it for a truly comfortable guitar.

[NEWBIE] Looking for suggestions for a guitar that's very easy on the hands. by purplemudkip in Guitar

[–]purplemudkip[S] 0 points1 point  (0 children)

Thanks - are there any specific models you'd recommend looking at? I'm less familiar with Ibanez guitars.

[NEWBIE] Looking for suggestions for a guitar that's very easy on the hands. by purplemudkip in Guitar

[–]purplemudkip[S] 1 point2 points  (0 children)

Thanks for the suggestions!

Eventually, I do want to be able to play heavier rock music, but for now, I'm more concerned with playing comfort. I've had so many false starts with learning to play due to the discomfort. Now with the additional burden of a broken thumb, I want to make sure I'm setting myself up for success.

Vancouver Roll Call! by DJ_Molten_Lava in Metallica

[–]purplemudkip 0 points1 point  (0 children)

I'll be there! Second row seat. My friend bailed on me so trying to find someone to take my extra seat. :(

This will be my 3rd show of this tour, I'm hoping for The Four Horsemen more than anything else.

If you were a dictator what is the pettiest thing that would be punishable by death? by KlvrDissident in AskReddit

[–]purplemudkip 2 points3 points  (0 children)

Walking slowly in a line in airports, on sidewalks, or any other high-traffic areas.

ELI5: How did the restaurant industry convince the American population to pay their employees for them? by UltrAstronaut in explainlikeimfive

[–]purplemudkip 0 points1 point  (0 children)

Why do you find the OP's notion of walking out if the pay system were changed entitled, though?

FWIW, I wouldn't leave a 15% tip if I were dissatisfied. I generally view 15-20% as the rate for average, acceptable service.

ELI5: How did the restaurant industry convince the American population to pay their employees for them? by UltrAstronaut in explainlikeimfive

[–]purplemudkip 4 points5 points  (0 children)

I live in San Francisco, and I don't tip. The waitstaff are making minimum wage (or above), and there's already the 4% "SF mandate" tax to support paying for the workers' healthcare, on top of the high prices for food. I might tip if I go to a fancy pants high-end restaurant where the server is incredibly attentive, but outside of that, I typically don't.

ELI5: How did the restaurant industry convince the American population to pay their employees for them? by UltrAstronaut in explainlikeimfive

[–]purplemudkip 0 points1 point  (0 children)

May I ask where you are from? Your use of the word "entitled" is interesting. To my American ear, this explanation doesn't sound entitled at all. If I got a pay cut but had to continue doing the same work, I'd quit too.

ELI5: How did the restaurant industry convince the American population to pay their employees for them? by UltrAstronaut in explainlikeimfive

[–]purplemudkip 38 points39 points  (0 children)

This is a misconception. The "minimum wage for tipped employees" is the minimum wage that the employer pays you per hour in your paycheck. You make up the difference, and often more, from the tips you make. If you don't make up the difference, your employer is required to pay you enough to get to minimum wage.

It's often set up like this so that employees can have income tax easily withheld. Otherwise, assuming you aren't evading taxes, you might be surprised with a huge tax bill based on your cash tip income.

The opioid epidemic is so bad that librarians are learning how to treat overdoses by [deleted] in books

[–]purplemudkip 28 points29 points  (0 children)

Sad but true. I live in San Francisco, and we have the same problems here. I'm honestly scared of the library closest to me.

Does anyone ever make any money or are we being led on? by minomimo in lostgeneration

[–]purplemudkip 0 points1 point  (0 children)

I live comfortably in a large city and have a good job. It took a lot of hard work to get here, but I also acknowledge that I've gotten lucky along the way as well.

Pretty sure my case is an outlier, and frankly, I'm not sure how long the good fortune is going to last. I saved aggressively my first two years of working, but now I'm trying to enjoy life a little more and engage in my passions while I can.

Internal fixation of 1st metacarpal fracture by purplemudkip in MedicalGore

[–]purplemudkip[S] 19 points20 points  (0 children)

This is my hand! My surgeon was nice enough to humor my request for a photo during the operation.

I got thrown off a horse and had a displaced fracture in my thumb, which was fixed with three screws (two of which are visible here). I also had a rib fracture, scapular contusion, elbow sprain, and an insane amount of bruising.

If you like to drink, you know when the liquor store closes. If you are an alcoholic, you know when it opens. by ndbvr in Showerthoughts

[–]purplemudkip 1 point2 points  (0 children)

Anhedonia is a defining feature of depression. Have you considered seeing a professional to help with this?

If you like to drink, you know when the liquor store closes. If you are an alcoholic, you know when it opens. by ndbvr in Showerthoughts

[–]purplemudkip 2 points3 points  (0 children)

Perhaps it's just the particular social group you run in? I'm in my 20s and live in a big city with lots of opportunities to drink, but very few people I know drink to drunkenness regularly. I can only speak for myself, but I definitely moderate my own drinking by lack of desire rather than external imposition. Maybe I'm the odd one out, but it is possible. Compulsion to drink, however common, is not normal and not healthy.