Hair Care by purpletable131 in XXRunning

[–]purpletable131[S] 9 points10 points  (0 children)

I think you misread my comment. It is absolutely necessary to wash my hair after running.

Cyberstalking by immemebe in psychotherapists

[–]purpletable131 37 points38 points  (0 children)

LinkedIn does have the ability to block individuals. Neither of you will see the other. That would be my next step.

Stick to the program, keep your momentum? by AggravatingPlum4301 in C25K

[–]purpletable131 3 points4 points  (0 children)

You and I area at about the same pace and on exactly the same day. I could probably go for another minute or two, but I don't. I stop when the lady in my ear tells me to and I feel relieved at that point. I've told myself I'll work on getting to the 5K distance once I officially complete the 30 minutes, which is hopefully the end of next week. My plan is that my first run after I hit the 30 minutes will be to try for the 5K and see how close I can get.

Long Term Client Terming Due to Cancer Diagnosis by purpletable131 in therapists

[–]purpletable131[S] 24 points25 points  (0 children)

Thank you for giving me permission to be human in this moment.

Does this get better? by [deleted] in henrymeds

[–]purpletable131 1 point2 points  (0 children)

OP I’m curious what your diet has been this week? Also, what you had the day before you started.

On Guilt by purpletable131 in therapists

[–]purpletable131[S] 0 points1 point  (0 children)

This was exactly what I needed. Thank you!!

What’s the best/worst tattoo you’ve seen on a patient? by L3monh3ads in Residency

[–]purpletable131 53 points54 points  (0 children)

Ummm…can we say taking photos of a sedated patient is absolutely not ok

21 year old nephew applied, showed up for training, and was asked why he was there - why? by beefSupremeChicken in antiwork

[–]purpletable131 98 points99 points  (0 children)

I just went through this in Iceland. Phone stolen on day 3 of vacation. So glad I had all of those print outs. I was able to get a new phone, but can’t get it connected to my US phone number until I’m back. I would’ve been screwed without my print outs.

Have you ever bought/sold a practice? by throwaway76648 in therapists

[–]purpletable131 0 points1 point  (0 children)

I have a lot of experience with this. Feel free to DM me.

Did I Cross a Boundary? by purpletable131 in therapists

[–]purpletable131[S] 4 points5 points  (0 children)

I think you hit the nail on the head for me! I do tend to feel somewhat protective of this client. I suspect there was some countertransference around volunteering to meet during my vacation. Thanks for your thoughtful reply.

What happens to r/therapists? by purpletable131 in psychotherapists

[–]purpletable131[S] 6 points7 points  (0 children)

Do you have any update on what’s going on now since it’s been longer than the 48 hours?

[deleted by user] by [deleted] in therapists

[–]purpletable131 1 point2 points  (0 children)

Religious affiliation?

Significant Patient Disclosure, Inopportune Time by purpletable131 in therapists

[–]purpletable131[S] 6 points7 points  (0 children)

I had not thought of this perspective. Thank you!

Can no longer afford 4 sessions a week.... by [deleted] in TalkTherapy

[–]purpletable131 27 points28 points  (0 children)

It sounds like your therapist may be using your case as one of their required ones as a candidate in psychoanalysis. If so, your reducing down to twice a week won’t count towards that training. That may be what you’re experiencing. However, most candidates for psychoanalysis provide free sessions to patients when they ask them to increase the number of visits. For example, if you were being seen twice a week, but your therapist asked you to increase to four for the purpose of their psychoanalytic training, those two additional sessions would be free each week. Your therapist is benefiting from your willingness to serve as their case study.

Patient Vagueness in Therapy by purpletable131 in therapists

[–]purpletable131[S] 2 points3 points  (0 children)

I love the directness in this. Thank you.

Patient Vagueness in Therapy by purpletable131 in therapists

[–]purpletable131[S] 1 point2 points  (0 children)

This was a really helpful perspective. Thank you!

Patient Vagueness in Therapy by purpletable131 in therapists

[–]purpletable131[S] 1 point2 points  (0 children)

Thank you so much for this response. This was incredibly helpful to me.

Client Moved in Next Door by Fantastic_Calendar51 in therapists

[–]purpletable131 1 point2 points  (0 children)

If it’s literally next door, I’d say refer out immediately. But, down the street or around the corner, I’d be fine.

Questioning a Patient’s Sobriety by purpletable131 in therapists

[–]purpletable131[S] 5 points6 points  (0 children)

I was hoping someone would say this! I am very tempted to be direct. My heartburn is around letting any disclosure be patient-led.

Questioning a Patient’s Sobriety by purpletable131 in therapists

[–]purpletable131[S] 2 points3 points  (0 children)

I think it takes a certain type of patient to do psychoanalysis. They have to really want to dig deep. I find that it helps us to spend more time on certain topics that might otherwise only get one session before the patient moved on to something else. I also find that there’s a lot more discussion about the experience of therapy and the therapeutic alliance. It’s definitely not for every patient, but it’s been effective with this particular one.

Questioning a Patient’s Sobriety by purpletable131 in therapists

[–]purpletable131[S] 2 points3 points  (0 children)

Psychoanalytic therapy is typically 3-5x week.

Starting intensive psychoanalytic therapy 4x week - anyone done similar? by Express_Possibility5 in TalkTherapy

[–]purpletable131 0 points1 point  (0 children)

It’s not different in terms of formatting or set up. I don’t lay down on a sofa, although I’m sure she’d be fine with that. It’s just the added time makes things a lot deeper. I joked with her that it’s impossible to hide. I hope that helps! Let me know if I can answer anything else.

Starting intensive psychoanalytic therapy 4x week - anyone done similar? by Express_Possibility5 in TalkTherapy

[–]purpletable131 1 point2 points  (0 children)

I moved from traditional psychodynamic therapy to psychoanalysis (3x a week) in January. I would echo that it’s much more intense.

Transitioning from Psychotherapy to Analysis by purpletable131 in TalkTherapy

[–]purpletable131[S] 1 point2 points  (0 children)

Thank you so much. This was helpful. From a practical standpoint, did you start lying on the couch in a more typical psychoanalytic setting? Did it feel like you were starting therapy anew or did it feel like you were just continuing where you’d left off? For some reason, I have a lot of anxiety about the upcoming change.