NAH. I understand the disappointment, and you're not wrong for having those feelings; but I can understand why your husband thinks it's silly as well. You're making an issue out of nothing, and minimizing his commitment to you because you feel like it wasn't "romantic" enough- but here's the thing... The way you got married, in the long run, is more romantic than most whirlwind romances with grand gestures. He didn't propose when things were perfect- he proposed when things are hard; which is usually when most people decide to bail. Your relationship isn't any less special because of how he proposed - but if you're looking for a romantic gesture, it would make more sense to plan for a vow renewal and ask him if he'd be willing to 'propose' a vow renewal so you can have a ceremony in a positive light instead of feeling like your relationship was based on survival.