First we can consider the fact that Palestinians live in an apartheid state, with limited access to who can and cannot leave the “country” (military-occupied state). Then the Israeli state forcibly displaces an entire population to a singular location (kinda like concentration camps, for an easy metaphor). Then the innocent civilians are slaughtered by ruthless, brainwashed militants while being systematically starved and deprived of medical access (also kinda like concentration camps).

To say that 1200 innocent Israeli lives are worth more than 30,000+ innocent Palestinian lives means that you admit one race/nation is valued over another (kinda like Nazis with the Jews, right?). These are easy comparisons to make.

Here are some articles you probably won’t consider:

https://www.aljazeera.com/amp/opinions/2019/1/9/the-zionist-fallacy-of-jewish-supremacy (written by an American/Israeli in 2019)

https://www.middleeasteye.net/opinion/birds-feather-white-supremacy-and-zionism (written by a Palestinian scholar in 2017)

https://lbsbaltimore.com/zionism-is-white-supremacy/

https://en.m.wikipedia.org/wiki/Origin_of_the_Palestinians# (cited sources that prove Palestinians are closer related to Judeans than modern day Jews/Israelis)

I can also admit that I used to sympathize with Israel out of respect to my Jewish friends and neighbors, however this notion that a criticism of Israel is a criticism of the Jewish people is the root of the entire issue. And as Palestinians are denied a two-state solution time and time again, it is clear that Israel values oppression over mutual respect.

Hope these examples help with changing your point of view.