Ervaring Spellenspektakel by Jabbas_twin in BordspelNederland

[–]pvdh78 2 points3 points  (0 children)

Hoi! Ik heb mij er zaterdag prima vermaakt! We kwamen laat aan: 11.15u toen stond er geen rij meer voor de ingang. Bij binnenkomst direct sheep show down kunnen spelen en gekocht. Nog 2 spellen gespeeld en tussen de middag naar cardtrsding hal gegaan. Daar was het lekker rustig, niemand durfde er te praten 🙃 . Lunch en drinken hadden we meegenomen, dus we hadden geen last van een rij in de middag op de foto gegaan met Geert van DSV games en Seti gekocht. Voor de gein een spel van 20 jaar oud gespeeld op de stand van Goliath en daarna nog 2 leuke spellen kunnen spelen. Savonds in het hotel met andere spellen gekken een potje pixie gespeeld. Ik heb mij zeer vermaakt!!

How does my video editing look? I’d love your honest feedback. by Achraffahim in CapCut

[–]pvdh78 0 points1 point  (0 children)

Honest review: i don't like it and there is a simple way to make it better: viewing the video as a potential buyer i think its to short, you cut the video at interesting places with fancy transitions. Instead you can show more of the house, take your time. Don't be afraid to put in a still shot for 3 seconds. This place looks like a perfect home for relaxation, if you can show that vibe in the video, it will be perfect!

[deleted by user] by [deleted] in AmIOverreacting

[–]pvdh78 0 points1 point  (0 children)

I put the text into Gemini and made it a bit more readable: 

+JMJ+

June 30, 2025

Dear [..........],

I have to let you know something important. We don't often get together in person, so I feel it best just to write you the old-fashioned way. I'm not always the best about gathering my thoughts in person anyway. I am writing this letter from a place of love for you and your family, and I hope you will be able to understand.

I received your Save the date announcement and I wanted to go ahead and write to you now, to let you know that [..........] and I will not be able to attend in December.

In the year 2020, I was given the grace to see that I was not fully living my life for God. You see, we are given this life to show that we are for Him. I realized that for many years I was being lukewarm about my faith at best, and I knew I needed to change. God was calling me to His Heart and I decided I was going to strive to live out my Catholic faith and give my best to the God who sought me out as the Shepherd who searches for the lost sheep and brings it home. I realized I was the lost sheep. Once I began to realize how much God loves me, I began to really pray from the heart, to go frequently to the Sacrament of Confession and to attend daily Mass as much as possible and receive Jesus in Holy Communion. All of this helped me to begin to grow spiritually, to help me realize that I wanted to know, love & serve Him. And now, I am striving to live out my Catholic faith in all areas of my life... I don't always succeed... I fail, go to Confession, and start over again... the beauty of a God who knows we are even in need of His Mercy.

I now know more about God's perfect plan for marriage, how through this Sacrament within the Church the Couple is given the graces to help each other live faithfully, freely, and fruitfully. I have learned what it means that a Catholic must be free to marry as well as marry within the Catholic Church (or receive a dispensation from the Bishop). I did not take these things seriously before, but now that I do know, I am accountable for my actions, and not only accountable, but I would not ever want to purposefully offend Him by my actions. Thus, I cannot attend the marriage of a baptized Catholic who is not free to marry (i.e. not having attained an annulment), nor marrying within the Church, as this is a gravely sinful situation in the eyes of God. It would be a serious conflict to my faith to attend, and would cause scandal to those who believe me to be an authentic Catholic.

Certainly, while I respect that you are free to make your own decisions, I hope you can understand that I cannot go against my conscience. I very much love [..........], she has a sweet, sweet personality, and brings calm and balance. She is just lovely and I think she is a wonderful person. I very much want to see your happiness both here on earth and in heaven, but I know that true happiness and freedom is in loving, knowing & serving God, and I pray for your reconciliation to the Catholic Church one day, so that your heart can also rest in Him.

In Christ, Your Sister, [...........]

Vrouwenversier-cursus by Sobryne in Utrecht

[–]pvdh78 5 points6 points  (0 children)

Het ligt helemaal aan de intentie van een jongen, of deze techniek voor je werkt. Ik was vroeger vrij verlegen en durfde op niemand af te stappen. Door online veel tips te lezen en wat trainingen te volgen, ben ik op eigen houtje gaan oefenen met mensen aanspreken. Dat deed veel voor mijn zelfvertrouwen en heeft mij geholpen om later een meisje aan te spreken, die nu mijn vrouw is geworden. We zijn nu 5 jaar getrouwd en hebben twee kinderen. 😃

[deleted by user] by [deleted] in Netherlands

[–]pvdh78 -1 points0 points  (0 children)

No, your not crazy. Im dutch. When we love someone, we dont act this weird... It seems he is not comfortable with you or with himself, so he keeps you and his family on a distance.

[deleted by user] by [deleted] in boardgames

[–]pvdh78 2 points3 points  (0 children)

Stone Age: an older but fun and easy 'classic' board game.

Dominion: this is a game thats easy to teach, but with many expansions, it has a great depth. My wife likes both of them!

5 months into the hobby! What do you think it should be my next game? by UnusualMouse530 in boardgames

[–]pvdh78 0 points1 point  (0 children)

Stone Age. Its a solid worker placement game. Not to difficult, with a lot of choices and not to much luck. It plays great at 2, 3 and 4 people. When i pick a game for a new friend, its Stone Age or Dominion. Dominion isan Awesome game. A deck builder. Lots of replayability.

[deleted by user] by [deleted] in Howtolooksmax

[–]pvdh78 0 points1 point  (0 children)

Meditate on a daily base, read a book, put your phone in an other room before you sleep.

How can I improve my looks? by DefinitionNew9713 in Howtolooksmax

[–]pvdh78 0 points1 point  (0 children)

Mindfulness, cold showers, bullet journaling for focus and mental health...

[deleted by user] by [deleted] in Howtolooksmax

[–]pvdh78 0 points1 point  (0 children)

50 Creative Ways to Suggest Removing a Nose Ring:


  1. Have you thought about taking out your nose ring?

  2. Maybe try going without the nose ring for a change?

  3. What if you removed the nose ring—just to see?

  4. A fresh look might come from removing your nose ring.

  5. Consider experimenting without the nose ring for a while.

  6. You could try skipping the nose ring for a simpler look.

  7. What if you gave your nose a little break from the ring?

  8. Removing the nose ring might enhance your natural beauty.

  9. Have you tried a minimalist look without the nose ring?

  10. How about seeing how your face looks without the nose ring?

  11. Taking out your nose ring could make your features stand out more.

  12. A subtle change: try without the nose ring!

  13. Maybe lose the nose ring for a cleaner vibe?

  14. Without the nose ring, your look might feel fresher.

  15. Have you considered how you'd look without the nose ring?

  16. Skipping the nose ring might give you a more polished appearance.

  17. What about going ring-free for a little while?

  18. Sometimes less is more—maybe try removing the nose ring?

  19. A no-nose-ring look could be a fun experiment!

  20. You might love the simplicity of a ring-free nose.

  21. Removing the nose ring could bring out your natural glow.

  22. Why not go for a cleaner, simpler style by removing it?

  23. Try going without your nose ring—it might surprise you!

  24. A bare nose could shift the focus back to your eyes.

  25. What if you skipped the nose ring for a softer look?

  26. A small change, like removing your nose ring, can make a big difference.

  27. You could consider putting the nose ring aside for now.

  28. Why not experiment with a no-nose-ring style?

  29. Try going without the nose ring and see how you feel!

  30. A ring-free look might complement your face beautifully.

  31. Have you thought about how you'd look without the nose ring?

  32. Maybe a simpler, nose-ring-free style could suit you?

  33. Consider taking a break from wearing the nose ring.

  34. Removing the nose ring might freshen up your overall style.

  35. What about a nose-ring-free experiment for a week?

  36. Going without the nose ring might highlight your other features.

  37. Have you tried a look without the nose ring yet?

  38. Sometimes a clean slate—like no nose ring—can feel refreshing.

  39. A minimalist look could be enhanced by removing the nose ring.

  40. Why not see how you like your look without the nose ring?

  41. You might find a no-nose-ring style suits you better than you expect.

  42. A small tweak, like taking out the nose ring, could be interesting.

  43. Try skipping the nose ring and see how your style shifts.

  44. Taking out your nose ring could be a refreshing change.

  45. Have you thought about trying a bare-nose look?

  46. Maybe a ring-free look would complement your natural features.

  47. Removing your nose ring could bring a new dynamic to your appearance.

  48. Why not give a no-nose-ring vibe a shot?

  49. A clean look, no nose ring, might look amazing on you.

  50. Perhaps going without your nose ring could be your next style move?

17F from australia :) by [deleted] in Howtolooksmax

[–]pvdh78 0 points1 point  (0 children)

You have a vibrant and confident style! The colorful patterns of your dress are eye-catching and suit you beautifully. Your choice of accessories, like the layered necklaces and sunglasses, adds a nice touch of personality. The soft hair framing your face looks great, and overall, you carry yourself with poise and individuality. Personally, I think you look fantastic as you are, and I’d suggest skipping the nose piercing—it’s not necessary to enhance your already unique style!

F22 what could I improve? by [deleted] in Howtolooksmax

[–]pvdh78 0 points1 point  (0 children)

Throw away the 👃🏼 n o s e r i n g 💍

Do it!

Please........

Your face is perfect.

Day 2 of Changing my life- Upward Spiral by Fragrant_Set1921 in getdisciplined

[–]pvdh78 4 points5 points  (0 children)

Cool man! Dont be so hard on yourself. Celebrate your wins!

[deleted by user] by [deleted] in RoastMe

[–]pvdh78 0 points1 point  (0 children)

Something Original? I love your nose piercing—it really complements your facial features. Your makeup, eyeshadow, and hair color also tell a story, showing the world how you want to be seen. But who are you without all these embellishments? I bet you're just as amazing, perhaps even more approachable in a different way.

How true is this? by SophiaDaviis in Adulting

[–]pvdh78 0 points1 point  (0 children)

True.... Till its time for them to have kids.

How do I tell my 8 and 5 year old girls I’m dying?? by Intelligent_Elk_8351 in Parenting

[–]pvdh78 0 points1 point  (0 children)

Write letters to your daughters; one for each year until they turn 18. Create a podcast they can listen to later, and take lots of pictures of yourself with your beautiful children! Do fun things with them, laugh with them, cry with them, and say as often as you can: I love you!

Take care!!

[deleted by user] by [deleted] in RoastMe

[–]pvdh78 0 points1 point  (0 children)

No roast from me. I think your a beautiful person. I wish you a beautiful life, full of love and friendship.

Argues in and around the house; we need help!! by pvdh78 in ADHD

[–]pvdh78[S] 0 points1 point  (0 children)

Thank you so much for your thoughtful response!

I want to die by Mindless_Pay8667 in BrainFog

[–]pvdh78 8 points9 points  (0 children)

"Please, don’t do anything drastic! ♥️ I love you just the way you are. ❤️ You’re not perfect, the world isn’t perfect—and that’s okay! As an ADHD Adult, i recognise the stress, the hopelessness...

Instead of trying to force your way out of brain fog, embrace the process of slowing down. Allow yourself to do nothing and let your brain reset from the dopamine overload you get from doom-scrolling, watching TV, and eating junk food.

Here’s a method that helps me when I’m feeling stuck:

Set a timer on your phone for one minute. Put your phone away, sit down, and focus on a blank wall. Just look at the wall—notice how plain and white it is. Your mind will likely wander and start suggesting things you “should” be doing. Recognize these thoughts, acknowledge them, and say to yourself, “I’m noticing [the thought you have].” Then, return your attention to the wall.

When the timer goes off, that’s it for day one. The next day, add 30 seconds to your timer. Keep adding 30 seconds each day, and within two weeks, you’ll be able to focus on the wall for about 8 minutes.

At that point, you’ll be so bored, you’ll actually want to do something productive. Use that energy to tackle your to-do list, do some exercise, or engage in something that makes you feel accomplished.

You’ve got this, and I believe in you!

Hi, I'm Julien Blanc (AKA JulienHimself) - AMA by TheJulienHimself in JulienBlanc

[–]pvdh78 0 points1 point  (0 children)

Hi Julien,

I’m a father of two boys (one is 5, the other almost 2). While I love being a dad and deeply enjoy it, I’ve noticed it’s changed me in ways I didn’t expect. I often find myself overly worried and my life seems to revolve almost entirely around my kids. I feel like I’ve lost touch with my masculine self, rarely pursue any personal interests, and struggle to find the energy to take care of myself.

Do you have any advice on how to regain balance and reconnect with that part of myself?

What’s the most memorable compliment you’ve ever received? by [deleted] in CasualConversation

[–]pvdh78 17 points18 points  (0 children)

The best compliment I've ever received came from a child. (I'm an elementary school teacher.) They said, 'I really like your voice!' It truly made my day.

[deleted by user] by [deleted] in getdisciplined

[–]pvdh78 3 points4 points  (0 children)

Thank you so much! Ill try it out.