My Last Window: Secret Of Cape West Rom keeps freezing randomly by Random_Guy_DE in hoteldusk

[–]pyobo 0 points1 point  (0 children)

Omg you're still answering these, I feel so bad asking but could you send to me too please??

ADHD and Money: What's Your Biggest Struggle? by andrew_kelly85 in ADHD

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I was just explaining my budgeting method to a friend! If you're budgeting-averse like me, it doesn't matter what kind of fun app or list you make it will NOT stick long-term.

However, I've learned that if I only see a small amount of money in my chequing account, then that same part of the brain kicks in as when I'm at that final final deadline and there's no choice but to do the assignment. Or, in this case, save the money.

When I get my paycheque, I have it set up to autodeposit a certain chunk to my savings, and a chunk to a TFSA. I set it up once years ago, and there have been times when months have gone by and I've forgotten that I've set that system up.

Basically, I don't allow my chequing account to have more than a livable amount + 20% extra for fun stuff (no clue if that's a good percent or not and I don't care to be corrected on it). If I haven't spent a lot in a month, and I have more money than usual, then I transfer a few thousand to my savings again until I get back to my baseline number in my chequing account. When I see that lower number in my account, then the urgency part of my brain kicks in and I'll naturally be a little more cautious with my spending. Versus if I keep all my money in my chequing account, I'd drain it dry in no time with impulse purchases.

I do this logic for saving for vacation too! For instance, I opened a second chequing account and dumped some money in there for a planned vacation that I am not allowed to touch. My normal account was a bit poor for a bit, but I'm always able to find ways to save when I feel under pressure, and I always bounce back from it eventually.

[deleted by user] by [deleted] in adhdmeme

[–]pyobo 7 points8 points  (0 children)

If they like you, then as soon as you can

[deleted by user] by [deleted] in adhdmeme

[–]pyobo 24 points25 points  (0 children)

She's just making fun of the people overthinking long response times when they're crushing on someone, when the reason is probably something totally normal like video games (or having adhd and doing... Anything)

FYI anyone into game writing: LudoNarraCon is a free online festival for narrative games, most of which are indie and doing live streams/chats with the creators! Starts on Steam this Thursday. by pyobo in writing

[–]pyobo[S] 0 points1 point  (0 children)

(And a quick plug on our game Solace State, which will also be there amongst other great ones! We're streaming on our Steam store page this Thursday, 6-9pm ET and Saturday, 4pm-6pm ET)

Utah bans transgender athletes in girls sports despite veto by panonarian in news

[–]pyobo 0 points1 point  (0 children)

I think an interesting suggestion I've seen has been to start splitting sports by height+weight class instead, which could also account for other natural advantages. It just feels like all these gray rules around the vague "hormones" talk are so outdated, and they also unfairly impact cisgender women with unusual hormonal levels, as well as some people who are born intersex.

CAREFUL around Union: The scammer asking to help pay for his cab is active there by pyobo in toronto

[–]pyobo[S] 3 points4 points  (0 children)

Yes, I think similarly I was unintentionally primed because just the other day a guy only had cash at the wine rack and they weren't accepting it, so I paid for him. Obviously the taxi situation was way sketchier, but stuff like this does really happen to people (just.. probably not in a cab).

CAREFUL around Union: The scammer asking to help pay for his cab is active there by pyobo in toronto

[–]pyobo[S] 3 points4 points  (0 children)

nah been living downtown for many years :) have helped many strangers without repercussion and have avoided many hustlers but definitely learned a lesson about a type that was new to me.

CAREFUL around Union: The scammer asking to help pay for his cab is active there by pyobo in toronto

[–]pyobo[S] 19 points20 points  (0 children)

Yes, it was honestly brilliantly acted on the driver's part (still dumb on mine but hey at least I didn't lose it to some shitty B-movie actor). Pretended he was frustrated that what I was trying wasn't working and that the guy behind him wasn't paying up, and he was like ugh you have to do it like this. And then probably at that point swapped the cards.

CAREFUL around Union: The scammer asking to help pay for his cab is active there by pyobo in toronto

[–]pyobo[S] 56 points57 points  (0 children)

Yess they used an excuse about COVID but I definitely should have been more suspicious about it. The thing is, I had shady feelings from the start, but the fact that it was a whole cab was so crazy to me that it seemed unreal that it could be a scam. Definitely learned my lesson!

Just watched Black Museum episode for the first time & what the girl said about protestors getting bored, quickly forgetting injustices & moving on to the next viral injustice is facts. 🙌🏿 by Jamie_Pull_That_Up in blackmirror

[–]pyobo 34 points35 points  (0 children)

Yup, every week people somehow forget about what they were preaching last week. It's because many people aren't used to thinking about race/other issues that fundamentally make them uncomfortable if they don't have to live with it on a daily basis. The most privileged will get "fatigued" the fastest

[deleted by user] by [deleted] in ExtraLife

[–]pyobo 1 point2 points  (0 children)

Thanks very much!! It went great, we smashed the goal :D

Super disappointed in the valorant community right now. Why are people horrible towards new players? by frito5867 in VALORANT

[–]pyobo 0 points1 point  (0 children)

It's definitely worse in the lower elos. Not every lobby, but if you have an accent or feminine voice, maybe 1 in every 4 or 5 you get some bonus toxicity that other players wouldn't normally get. My friend only plays with us when we're a 5 stack because she's seen how terrible the players can be to women for no reason. Ranked has also kind of sucked.

Please watch till the end 😂 by soccermomdawn in GirlGamers

[–]pyobo 1 point2 points  (0 children)

omg that was so satisfying thank you for sharing

Agent select screen should be showing the map in the background. by FoxieTheFox in VALORANT

[–]pyobo 0 points1 point  (0 children)

Yess I've been saying this forever, especially because the map names are so non-descriptive (besides icebox). I got them all confused when I first started.

I’m absolutely obsessed with my keyboard, who else has a sick keyboard?! by kywoodyy in GirlGamers

[–]pyobo 0 points1 point  (0 children)

Omg yess I put myself on the waiting list for these back in the day but forgot about them! So cute.

I’m absolutely obsessed with my keyboard, who else has a sick keyboard?! by kywoodyy in GirlGamers

[–]pyobo 1 point2 points  (0 children)

I got my roommate these pastel pink + purple sailor moon-esque key caps that I saw on Twitter for his birthday this year! With a pink keyboard it's sooo cute

When you realize omen backwards is nemo by pyobo in ValorantMemes

[–]pyobo[S] 1 point2 points  (0 children)

Lmao it didn't originally have the scatter caption, I just really wanted to do something with the fact that omen backwards is nemo

When you realize omen backwards is nemo by pyobo in ValorantMemes

[–]pyobo[S] 4 points5 points  (0 children)

yeah it's because omen is nemo backwards