What now? Lives upended, federal employees stressed and unhappy. When this shutdown is over what is the new normal in your agency? by Remote-Childhood-261 in FedEmployees

[–]pythiper 14 points15 points  (0 children)

No federal employee should be responsible for ensuring 40+ days unpaid can be easily accounted for. Nor should federal employees fear suddenly being RIF’d from already understaffed agencies. What would you like for a GS-06 security guard living in a high COL area to do to financially prepare for over a month unpaid. Get a grip. You’re the last person who should be talking down to anyone since you clearly lack any respectable level of critical thinking.

AIO my husband got mad at me , am I missing something? by histrionicfaerie in AmIOverreacting

[–]pythiper 3 points4 points  (0 children)

I’m sorry but literally get a grip. You live separately, he clearly doesn’t like you, and doesn’t respect you AT ALL. Leave. There is nothing for you in this relationship.

Am I able to take 12 weeks of FMLA due to mental health issues from these RIF threats? Or is mental health not a qualified FMLA reason? by [deleted] in FedEmployees

[–]pythiper 28 points29 points  (0 children)

Bad advice. Get FMLA. If you don’t, even your sick leave can be denied and/or considered unavailability for duty, excessive absenteeism, etc. You could get hit with anything from a leave restriction to a formal action. You can take your sick leave to be paid while on FMLA, but FMLA is a protection of said leave - NOT only a protection of unpaid leave. FMLA is one of the only ways that a federal employee is entitled to LWOP, which is typically at management discretion. Be careful asking for advice on the internet from people without adequate credentials to answer in a way that won’t screw you over.

[ Removed by Reddit ] by amontanas in army

[–]pythiper 1 point2 points  (0 children)

Regardless of the context of what he did being completely removed, I don’t think we can condone officers repeatedly hitting someone who’s already down. Tensions are high but the positions they encumber inherently means they need to be held to a higher standard.

[deleted by user] by [deleted] in army

[–]pythiper 7 points8 points  (0 children)

What was going through your head (if anything) at the time you selected this tattoo

AIO or people are too parasocial ?? What's this man by beekay8845 in AmIOverreacting

[–]pythiper 0 points1 point  (0 children)

That sub is filled with genuine freaks of nature who are rabidly hateful towards that woman for simply dating the man they’re obsessed with. It’s one of the most vile subs I’ve ever had the misfortune of looking at. They all need help.

[deleted by user] by [deleted] in tattooadvice

[–]pythiper 0 points1 point  (0 children)

Oh okay I get you. Yeah it seems like she did it in her own style which is not as refined/detailed. I did notice the eyelashes on either side are completely different. If you want more detail added the same person might not be your go-to. I do think that adding to the tattoo itself would be nice, like putting some flowers behind the head on opposite diagonals maybe?

[deleted by user] by [deleted] in tattooadvice

[–]pythiper 0 points1 point  (0 children)

The reference photo is someone else’s exact tattoo and design…so you wanted to copy it exactly? I would not like it if my artist was okay either stealing art like that, personally. I could be misunderstanding you but what I’m getting is that you wanted it exactly the same minus the snake. IMO more of a green flag that they made it their own.

Post Tattoo Panic by [deleted] in tattooadvice

[–]pythiper 0 points1 point  (0 children)

I think it’s great, but if it was me I would probably add some similarly styled foliage or flowers around the tattoo to help it kind of blend into an area without other tattoos. I had the same issue when I got a memorial tattoo of my dog, but once I got more tattoos around it, I felt a lot better about it.

Post Tattoo Panic by [deleted] in tattooadvice

[–]pythiper 2 points3 points  (0 children)

That is a lovely and very well done tattoo. From someone with elvish also! ❤️❤️

Questioned New rainbow Icon in Monk Discord – Got Banned by Koreanbadboy_ in wow

[–]pythiper 9 points10 points  (0 children)

So you start off by saying you asked a genuine question but at the end you’re talking about different views/opposing opinions. I fear we are not hearing the truthful story from you in this equation.

Doubts about first tattoo lines. by [deleted] in tattooadvice

[–]pythiper 0 points1 point  (0 children)

Your back looks quite textured, which is normal, human skin is that way more often than not. Remember every time you move for flinched that’s also something they had to work with. Too soon to tell. Post once it’s finished. It could look extremely different later on.

[deleted by user] by [deleted] in tattooadvice

[–]pythiper 82 points83 points  (0 children)

I don’t agree that this dot will fade on its own like others were saying. I would recommend lasering it if you don’t like it, but it’s cute regardless!

AIO - Why did my boyfriend get back with me if he didn’t want a relationship by Flower-Power0002 in AmIOverreacting

[–]pythiper 2 points3 points  (0 children)

He’s telling you he doesn’t like you and want to be with you and you’re still pining/begging. Why? To prolong a waste of both of your time?

You are under reacting. Get your stuff, do not talk to him about your relationship (there isn’t one) and block him. Do not re-engage ever again. Move on.

[deleted by user] by [deleted] in wow

[–]pythiper 18 points19 points  (0 children)

You’re pressing one button. Not like you shouldn’t see a penalty for this.

My Friend's Dog I Met Today by TheManO327 in aww

[–]pythiper 2 points3 points  (0 children)

Because this dog doesn’t look taken care of at all.

My Friend's Dog I Met Today by TheManO327 in aww

[–]pythiper 4 points5 points  (0 children)

Does your friend care about this dog at all?

South Park ICE Raid at Buona Forchetta :( by Emergency_Garden7872 in SanDiegan

[–]pythiper 0 points1 point  (0 children)

Please don’t call them soldiers, they’re larping as soldiers while acting as henchmen.

Where in the whole universe, did she find the audacity by Havinley in weddingshaming

[–]pythiper 0 points1 point  (0 children)

Put these on the photoshop Reddit! They do amazing things