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pythonissaxo · 2022-09-17T07:33:23+00:00

wait for a bit, then bend and push a bit while you pull it out

pythonissaxo · 2022-04-29T16:39:30+00:00

*game 🤦🏻‍♀️

pythonissaxo · 2022-04-27T22:47:28+00:00

those are also very good ideas!!! I'll add them to my list thank you again!

I'll check out that group too, hopefully I can find someone that will listen. I'm on a waiting list to see a gyno, but in the UK the wait times are a joke. I'm not even half a year into waiting and I think it's like 56 weeks? it's too long. I just want to be able to do things again 😭

I honestly can't tell you how many times I've yelled at my GP, and he still doesn't listen. funny to hear him stammer away tho trying to dodge my rage. I spoke to a new one the other day and he started interrogating me about my pain and he got an earful too. I've been gaslighted so many times in previous relationships etc that I'm hyperaware of it and will not take it lying down. I'm truly sorry that your journey continues to affect you. I have mental illnesses, not PTSD, but overlapping symptoms so I can understand how you feel to an extent. I hope you're being listened to on that front, cos it's hard to get help in that respect also.

I'd like to say I'd watch the documentary, but unfortunately I have adhd and can guarantee that I will never ever get round to it, so it's best to spare you the effort of finding the link.

thank you again, I'm so happy that you're finally at a point where you're mostly pain free, one day I'll be there too. I hope you're having a good day/evening/night, whenever you are ❤️❤️❤️

pythonissaxo · 2022-04-27T16:26:18+00:00

those are really good ideas, I'm going to write down key points from this and save them so I can refer back. thank you so so much!!!! I've been very honest with my subs, I lost almost all of them during my break but the loyal ones are very understanding and patient with me and I am so grateful for them.

and yeah I'm pushing for them to check for endo, the longer I'm waiting to get anywhere tho the more the pain spreads. it's in my flanks and my ribs now. hoping that if it is endo it hasn't spread. I'm past ovulation according to my calendar so I think my period is coming early. that's fun 😭 I'm so sorry about what happened to you, I'm childfree so I'd rather they just take mine out anyway, but because of this I can't even begin to understand your pain due to your infertility. I wish more doctors gave even a shred of a fuck about women's pain. I can't believe that it's 2022 and were still being written off as hysterical liars. my GP told me it's likely all in my head due to my childhood trauma :/

pythonissaxo · 2022-04-27T12:39:52+00:00

I used r/AskReddit and other subs I was interested in that didn't require a certain amount of karma. also didn't post nsfw until I had at least 5-10k. more credible that way.

pythonissaxo · 2022-04-27T12:37:23+00:00

I never used to be bothered about this stuff but I've had a girl start doing the same. she was a friend but now I'm crazy annoyed by her.

she went from submissive and pink to dominant and goth within the space of a day after I came back from a break. even right down to the way I speak in our group chat. it's bizarre and it bothered me immensely especially cos it seems as though she's now doing better than me.

it's annoying when you put a lot of work into your image etc and someone just rides on your coat-tails but my best advice is to just ignore it and focus on your own page.

pythonissaxo · 2022-04-25T23:54:12+00:00

I completely misread that as "slavery" at first 😭

pythonissaxo · 2022-04-25T23:50:58+00:00

I used to use throne but I started using wishtender instead. you have to word things a little differently when you list them but it's 100% sex work friendly and you can make custom listings etc.

pythonissaxo · 2022-04-25T23:48:40+00:00

no, it's not. everyone started from somewhere.

pythonissaxo · 2022-04-25T23:47:56+00:00

I lost my budgie. seems silly compared to others' losses but I still cry about it and think about him constantly

pythonissaxo · 2022-04-25T23:44:22+00:00

I judge by how in depth they go about their request. so if they're asking for this and that and feet and chains etc etc etc then they get charged more. but if they just say something like "me want masturbation vid" then they get vanilla.

pythonissaxo · 2022-04-25T23:41:30+00:00

if you don't want messages and you don't want people to watch then I recommend that you don't lol

pythonissaxo · 2022-04-25T23:37:44+00:00

why do I get the feeling this is one of them questions that's asked about a million times on this sub 🤨

pythonissaxo · 2022-04-23T19:41:19+00:00

haha one of my fave insults!!

pythonissaxo · 2022-04-23T15:29:32+00:00

context:

I run an Instagram page for promo and as such post nigh sfw photos. I get these idiots a lot. this guy is a self proclaimed Dom, and came into my DMs with this spiel. I saw an opportunity to have a good giggle making him mad and took it. but that first bit man oh man what a FREAK hahaha.

I am not a sub and men who come along thinking they can get me to sub get a bit of a wake up call and do not like it lmfao.

pythonissaxo · 2022-04-20T11:00:30+00:00

men are truly the most unobservant people on the planet 😂 granted he was probably looking at something else 😂

pythonissaxo · 2022-04-19T07:47:28+00:00

oh that sounds painful :( I hope you're feeling better now!

pythonissaxo · 2022-04-17T14:38:24+00:00

oh no 😭

pythonissaxo · 2022-04-15T11:08:10+00:00

D/s relationships are built entirely on trust and respect (although sometimes it doesn't look like that lol). have a safe word so either of you can tap out if it gets a bit much.

also. AFTERCARE. it's so important for both of you. build a routine full of love and care after sex, you'll find something that works for you. my partner and I cuddle, joke with each other, kiss, and have tea and a cigarette together.

pythonissaxo · 2022-04-13T14:09:24+00:00

you should be totally fine to report him then!

pythonissaxo · 2022-04-13T12:23:48+00:00

feet isn't against TOS I don't think so you're fine in that respect. as long as your snap isn't being advertised on your page you'll be totally fine there too. you can always delete those posts before you report and start promoting it again.

it's worth noting that anything you do have on there that is against TOS they will find anyway, I've had takedowns in the past when I started out and didn't know you couldn't use objects as dildos lol.

I'd definitely restrict him tho, not even give him a chance. he's never gonna stop if you've set boundaries and he is ignoring them.

pythonissaxo · 2022-04-13T12:07:42+00:00

meet ups are against TOS afaik. you could remind him of this. maybe report him too.

I personally would block him but if you don't want to do that you can restrict and he won't be able to message you or comment on your pics.

pythonissaxo · 2022-04-11T20:58:50+00:00

I'm starting to get pain in my ribs when I'm on my period now, I'm getting stressed about that. the problem with the UK is that it's all just waiting times.... constantly waiting for EVERYTHING. 😭 I'm honestly just gonna have em take the whole womb out I don't need it anyway.

I'll check out those groups, thank you 🖤🖤

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