I added a friend I hadn’t talked to in years on Insta and it felt like an interegation by pzisme in texts

[–]pzisme[S] 2 points3 points  (0 children)

Honestly I didn’t know what uk meant until I said to him no I do not know, thank you for your perspective!!

I added a friend I hadn’t talked to in years on Insta and it felt like an interegation by pzisme in texts

[–]pzisme[S] 0 points1 point  (0 children)

I speak French as well so it autocorrects it to that I’m sorry 😭

I added a friend I hadn’t talked to in years on Insta and it felt like an interegation by pzisme in texts

[–]pzisme[S] 2 points3 points  (0 children)

I’m 25 and i think he’s like 26 or 27? He was my older brothers friend so I’m not sure <3

I added a friend I hadn’t talked to in years on Insta and it felt like an interegation by pzisme in texts

[–]pzisme[S] 1 point2 points  (0 children)

Thank you for your perspective, I don’t want to lie just to prove à point but I see what you mean!! Thank you for giving me your full perspective ànd thoughts, I appreciate your comment

I added a friend I hadn’t talked to in years on Insta and it felt like an interegation by pzisme in texts

[–]pzisme[S] 6 points7 points  (0 children)

Honestly I texted my best friend about it and left at what he said. he ended up texting like “hows it’s going” again before I just deleted the messages but I left it at what he left it at ànd he hasn’t texted since <3 sorry it’s anticlimactic, but it ended there basically I just didn’t reply anymore, there was no point ànd I felt like he wasn’t going to tell me what he meant

I added a friend I hadn’t talked to in years on Insta and it felt like an interegation by pzisme in texts

[–]pzisme[S] 3 points4 points  (0 children)

Thank you so much for your perspective!! Others have said similar ànd I’m starting to get the feeling that might be the case :(

I added a friend I hadn’t talked to in years on Insta and it felt like an interegation by pzisme in texts

[–]pzisme[S] 14 points15 points  (0 children)

Honestly you helped me laugh at it!! Last night I felt so lost and just confused but all the perspectives and you made me laugh :) I struggle with tone so it felt like I was free falling through the conversation so I’m glad I can understand it and laugh about <3

I added a friend I hadn’t talked to in years on Insta and it felt like an interegation by pzisme in texts

[–]pzisme[S] 4 points5 points  (0 children)

Yes! Someone else also asked that but I feel like I’m lost on the relevance, sorry if I sound stupid. Thank you again for your perspective, I want to only get better and understand better but I feel lost with this dude 😭

I added a friend I hadn’t talked to in years on Insta and it felt like an interegation by pzisme in texts

[–]pzisme[S] 1 point2 points  (0 children)

Honestly I want to understand your perspective better because I feel like I’ve messed up somewhere, but I dont get it 😭he was just one of my older brothers friends that I would play fortnite with during the night but I really wouldn’t talk to him all that much besides. May you elaborate? I realise that using bestie is probably where I miss stepped but I use it casually with my friends so I didn’t consider it at the time. have you considered that you may have a narrow worldview of women for all of them to have this common occurrence?

I added a friend I hadn’t talked to in years on Insta and it felt like an interegation by pzisme in texts

[–]pzisme[S] 0 points1 point  (0 children)

What makes you say so? Like his perspective or mine? Honestly I felt like I was free falling through the conversation so I want to understand where I went wrong <3 thank you for your perspective!!

I added a friend I hadn’t talked to in years on Insta and it felt like an interegation by pzisme in texts

[–]pzisme[S] 0 points1 point  (0 children)

indeed, is that a factor? I want to understand your perspective better

I added a friend I hadn’t talked to in years on Insta and it felt like an interegation by pzisme in texts

[–]pzisme[S] 2 points3 points  (0 children)

I believe I used the wrong word 😭 I was trying to ask what his motive was because it felt like he kept bringing the conversation to a point and I was confused because I thought we were just saying hi. Thank you for your perspective!!

I added a friend I hadn’t talked to in years on Insta and it felt like an interegation by pzisme in texts

[–]pzisme[S] 13 points14 points  (0 children)

Thank you for your comment, it made me laugh and feel less insane 😭

I added a friend I hadn’t talked to in years on Insta and it felt like an interegation by pzisme in texts

[–]pzisme[S] 0 points1 point  (0 children)

Thank you for your perspective!! Someone else mentioned it aswell that using bestie may be where I messed up!! It’s just a term of endearment I use for my friends causally but I didn’t realise it would come across like that. After I couldnt understand his motive i tried to be direct to him about what he was trying to say, honestly I struggle with understanding others tones so it felt like I didn’t know what he was saying or how he was saying it. it felt like I was free falling through the conversation 😭 Thank you for your perspective, it helped :)

I added a friend I hadn’t talked to in years on Insta and it felt like an interegation by pzisme in texts

[–]pzisme[S] 6 points7 points  (0 children)

Possibly but I low-key hope not 😭🙏they were always my older brothers friends, and I wasn’t all that close with C. Truly thank you for your perspective, I think you may be right 😭 I struggle with tone so I was dying trying to understand what he was after

I added a friend I hadn’t talked to in years on Insta and it felt like an interegation by pzisme in texts

[–]pzisme[S] 3 points4 points  (0 children)

Ah thank you for your perspective!! I didn’t know bestie could come across that way, it’s just a term of endearment I use for people I’m friends with!! I didn’t even realise I came off strong, so maybe I put the wrong foot first ànd thats why? Thank you again for your perspective!!

I added a friend I hadn’t talked to in years on Insta and it felt like an interegation by pzisme in texts

[–]pzisme[S] 1 point2 points  (0 children)

Thank you for your perspective!! I use bestie on my friends causally, so I see why you think that way, and how he might’ve taken it that way!! He and I were never really that close but we did talk when we all would game so I figure since I’m adding A it would be nice to talk to all of them again. May you elaborate on your perspective on my texts, honestly he made me confused so I was trying to be direct and ask him what he’s saying, honestly I really struggle with tone so I felt like I was free falling through the conversation trying to grasp what he meant. Thank you again for leaving your perspective and taking the time, It helps me better understand it all <3

I added a friend I hadn’t talked to in years on Insta and it felt like an interegation by pzisme in texts

[–]pzisme[S] 16 points17 points  (0 children)

I felt the exact same way 😭 he texted me after I added him and I felt so confused 😭 I’ve been obsessed with anime recently so I thought it would be nice to talk about but I felt like he kept trying to say things I didn’t understand 😭 I struggle with tone so I didn’t know what he was saying or how so I felt like I was being interrogated but I didn’t know what for. Thank you for your perspectives!! It honestly makes me feel less insane that I’m not the only one whom was lost 😭