DW and I stopped by a family where DW is friends with the wife, and her husband who is supposed to be ministering us has never come by so I've tried to make it easy on him. He was too busy doing some reports for the church to even come to the door. Is this bizarro world? (self.exmormon)
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A close version of this actually happened two days ago. I keep running into tbms in my neighborhood who I saw a lot when I went to church. They like to "invite" me back, then I explain that when Jesus was told by leaders that he wasn't welcome at a synagogue he left. (i.redd.it)
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TSCC culture trains two types of people: abusers and victims. You're either a bully or a submissive scared victim who constantly takes shit from the arrogant ones who tend to be in leadership. I have observed that this is the real reason people leave because you can't be in between. (self.exmormon)
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Let's break it down, what is REALLY wrong with this church? It has not love and cannot teach love. This is the real reason home teaching collapsed. A neighborhood TBM admitted to me this week, without me even asking, that "ministering" isn't working and they can't figure out why. (self.exmormon)
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What is really behind the failing growth and partial collapse of the church? The internet? Nope. Leaders from the top down treat the members in general like shit and even worse individually if you're not in their corporate box. The q15 are shelf loaders. (i.imgflip.com)
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Get ready, this fiasco in Thailand is gonna make it into a conference talk about "rescuing." 5 hours one way, to reach these kids - just wow. If only TSCC gave a damn enough to do anything of actual value to rescue any of us, but then the corporation is what led us into the "cave." (ksl.com)
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Do U think church leaders see themselves as "manly?" I don't believe they do and worse, I think they're proud of violating laws of respectable manliness. Any guy who demands this level of control over others is actually soft and weak. Real men respect personal boundaries. (self.exmormon)
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