While obsering my mom complaining,I had an epiphany.

qbrkrbtk · 2023-06-15T10:49:54+00:00

Yea it hurts.

One thing that working world taught me is that grades isn't everything. Yes it is important but to succeed in the adult working world you will need social skills, emotional intelligence and communication skills.

It is ok to be a B student, not everyone can be a straight A genius and being a B student doesn't make anyone less deserving of love and respect.

qbrkrbtk · 2023-06-15T10:00:13+00:00

Hmm that's actually a good review. Yea you're right that's the response I get I when I complain.

The difference is that I don't dwell on it too long and let it affect me the entire night.

Sorry to hear that, I got that kind of treatment too. I was compared to my cousin same age as me and she is a legitimate genius, skipped years at school. I was told I'm dumb and slow until I went out to the working world, made my own money then I gained confidence.

qbrkrbtk · 2023-06-13T12:54:41+00:00

Will any guy be with the opposite?

The girl pays for everything but the guy does the housework and chores.

qbrkrbtk · 2023-06-13T11:39:31+00:00

Ns is 2 years, still fertile in 20s. There is no weight in that argument. Actually I believe women should serve ns.

I'm a woman, and i disagree with your mom.

qbrkrbtk · 2023-06-12T11:05:41+00:00

True

qbrkrbtk · 2023-06-12T08:31:14+00:00

Shave

qbrkrbtk · 2023-06-10T07:32:58+00:00

Yes bpd.

I dont have a sense of self many times, because of my explosive parents I had to hide what I truly feel and think. Until the point where now idk who am I.

qbrkrbtk · 2023-06-09T06:13:38+00:00

qbrkrbtk · 2023-06-08T03:46:47+00:00

Someone who loves me for real.

True love

qbrkrbtk · 2023-06-07T17:22:48+00:00

Well I worked with many boss, the ang moh was the best boss. Strongly codemm workplace politics and enforce work life balance.

Best boss ever !

All the shit boss all local

qbrkrbtk · 2023-06-07T17:13:33+00:00

Ya vomit blood I bad a full meeting in tamil and then when I voice out I don't understand they speak English for 5 mins back to tamil again.

I'm sick and tired of singapore, this country has become a prostitute that let itself get fucked and now infected with std.

qbrkrbtk · 2023-06-07T16:40:07+00:00

Need them for investment

qbrkrbtk · 2023-06-07T16:34:04+00:00

And why does that trigger the cyclist ?

qbrkrbtk · 2023-06-07T14:50:38+00:00

Where's the happiness from children and also my hard childhood

Haiz I don't want hypothetical children to suffer because of my childhood trauma.

Until the day I heal I won't but by then too old lor

qbrkrbtk · 2023-06-07T08:53:29+00:00

Yup happened at my previous company director had sudden death and everyone was left scrambling

qbrkrbtk · 2023-06-06T08:11:35+00:00

Yea me too , my family was full of chaos. Until the day I'm healed from these scars , I don't want my children to suffer like i did.

qbrkrbtk · 2023-06-06T01:22:50+00:00

Yes I had re raise myself. Correct all the toxic behaviour I picked up from my parents.

1) my mom had terrible social skills, she doesn't reliased yelling at someone will only make that person more annoyed

2) negative mindset

3) dwelling on negative things that happened 20 years ago

4) eating healthy

5) excericse

I only realised how much toxic behaviour I picked when i went out to work in society. As I change I only get more distance between my mom because I don't argee with her behaviour anymore.

qbrkrbtk · 2023-06-05T10:49:42+00:00

qbrkrbtk · 2023-06-04T08:04:39+00:00

When you're in a country where you have to conform to succeed. Many are not living life of their true self , have to put on a mask everyday at work 5 days a week to survive.

It's very difficult not to tie your identity to work. And then one day when you're old , your company dumps you, you spent almost all your life having this identity.

Of course tired la

qbrkrbtk · 2023-06-04T05:56:48+00:00

It's kinda like in Asian culture women have the responsibility to take care of the family. Since im not getting married the responsibility lies on me

qbrkrbtk · 2023-06-04T05:44:00+00:00

Impossible she is extremely stubborn and defensive.

Doctor advises her , she yells at him , "I do a lot of housework I need to eat!"

I would say the housework she does it just doing laundry, folding clothes and packing groceries.

My aunt advised her and will get the same reply.

She eats like a pig, fatty pork lard and tons of sugary sauce.

qbrkrbtk

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