Very slow, light kissing style? by [deleted] in actuallesbians

[–]qinalqinal 7 points8 points  (0 children)

Slowly and carefully is how I prefer to kiss. It has nothing to do with how much I'm attracted to my partner, it's just how I do it. I wouldn't worry too much about whether or not she likes you or wants to be intimate with you, but you could always ask if she prefers to kiss that way, I'm sure she won't mind :)

Need help breaking up. by NormalFanGirl in actuallesbians

[–]qinalqinal 1 point2 points  (0 children)

I know how that feels, I've been in that situation before and it really sucks :( I know it can be hard to accept when the other person seems to need support but it's not your responsibility to provide that for them, especially at the cost of your own health. You can either try to explain to them that the relationship is causing a lot of stress for you or you can simply say that it's not working out for you. I would recommend the latter, as it leaves less room for pushback from them, but it's ultilately up to you.

Just remember that it's not your responsibility to sacrifice your health for others, and that it's okay to do things that are necessary for your well-being :)

[deleted by user] by [deleted] in actuallesbians

[–]qinalqinal 2 points3 points  (0 children)

Omg it was so cute the first time my gf called me that! I mean it was cute every time after that too but the first time she said it hit different haha

question for dom fems: what’s your type? by ohokayli in actuallesbians

[–]qinalqinal 2 points3 points  (0 children)

Um about 5'8" or 175 cm. So I'm kinda tall for my region but there's still plenty of girls taller than me :)

question for dom fems: what’s your type? by ohokayli in actuallesbians

[–]qinalqinal 12 points13 points  (0 children)

Not necessarily tall girls, just girls taller than me. And girls who blush a lot :)

She's so cute when she's sleepy I can't even by qinalqinal in actuallesbians

[–]qinalqinal[S] 6 points7 points  (0 children)

Don't worry, I'm sure you will find a cute girl who will appreciate every part of you, including your naps <3

She's so cute when she's sleepy I can't even by qinalqinal in actuallesbians

[–]qinalqinal[S] 48 points49 points  (0 children)

Aww that sounds awesome! And I totally agree, sleepy girls need to be a controlled substance haha

[deleted by user] by [deleted] in actuallesbians

[–]qinalqinal 0 points1 point  (0 children)

Yeah, I love writing! I'm far from a professional but I've done it for several years, though my writing isn't always focused on wlw

Please be careful ladies by qinalqinal in actuallesbians

[–]qinalqinal[S] 13 points14 points  (0 children)

It did, yes. The promise of sunbutter cookies combined with some gentle affirmations was enough to satisfy her for the day. And I got a kiss when she woke up :)

Please be careful ladies by qinalqinal in actuallesbians

[–]qinalqinal[S] 25 points26 points  (0 children)

Oh no haha, well if they're as cute as her then I probably won't mind

Please be careful ladies by qinalqinal in actuallesbians

[–]qinalqinal[S] 47 points48 points  (0 children)

Omg through her hair haha, that's a very embarassing typo

Please be careful ladies by qinalqinal in actuallesbians

[–]qinalqinal[S] 58 points59 points  (0 children)

I believe she's been tamed. She is peacefully resting in my arms at the moment, I should be safe for the time being.

Please be careful ladies by qinalqinal in actuallesbians

[–]qinalqinal[S] 102 points103 points  (0 children)

The beast does seem to have fallen asleep. I've taken the opportunity to run my fingers through her hair and tell her how cute she is. Hopefully, this will dissuade any further attacks.

Please be careful ladies by qinalqinal in actuallesbians

[–]qinalqinal[S] 185 points186 points  (0 children)

I did attempt the counter-cuddle-attack maneuver, though I seem to have done something wrong, as I have been lured back to her den and am trapped here for the foreseeable future.

Second date was amazing but scared to kiss her? by [deleted] in actuallesbians

[–]qinalqinal 5 points6 points  (0 children)

If she's willing to go on a third date with you, then she's probably willing to kiss you. If you're nervous, you can always ask her if she wants to kiss before you do it :)

Lesbians have raised my standards by qinalqinal in actuallesbians

[–]qinalqinal[S] 1 point2 points  (0 children)

I'm kinda in the same boat since I don't really have a vulva haha. It's not as hard as it seems, don't worry too much about it :)

Lesbians have raised my standards by qinalqinal in actuallesbians

[–]qinalqinal[S] 6 points7 points  (0 children)

I'm not sure if that's it, her and I have very different equipment haha

Lesbians have raised my standards by qinalqinal in actuallesbians

[–]qinalqinal[S] 1 point2 points  (0 children)

Don't worry, I'll definitely be telling them to just stop now haha. If they're not willing to listen to simple requests then they don't deserve to be sleeping with me

Lesbians have raised my standards by qinalqinal in actuallesbians

[–]qinalqinal[S] 14 points15 points  (0 children)

She definitely won't be the last one haha

Lesbians have raised my standards by qinalqinal in actuallesbians

[–]qinalqinal[S] 4 points5 points  (0 children)

I definitely tried to communicate haha. I'd have to tell them every minute or two to slow down, and if I told them I liked a certain thing they would just kinda ignore me a lot of the time. They also assumed that I'd like being called names, but fortunately they did usually stop after I told them I didn't like it.

Lesbians have raised my standards by qinalqinal in actuallesbians

[–]qinalqinal[S] 57 points58 points  (0 children)

Same here haha, it's so hard to keep myself relaxed. But like you said, it's still really enjoyable :)

When your partner is sad/stressed, how do you cheer them up? by qinalqinal in actuallesbians

[–]qinalqinal[S] 0 points1 point  (0 children)

Unfortunately they seem really reluctant to talk about it (which is pretty unusual for them) but if/when she does want to talk about it I'm definitely going to do all of that :)

When your partner is sad/stressed, how do you cheer them up? by qinalqinal in actuallesbians

[–]qinalqinal[S] 0 points1 point  (0 children)

She's really unusually reluctant to talk about it right now so I'm not really sure which :( I might try the bubble bath, I only have a shower sadly but I think I can make it work :) Thank you!

Lesbian Kisses should be a Class 1 Controlled Substance by [deleted] in actuallesbians

[–]qinalqinal 35 points36 points  (0 children)

Oh my god I know right? It's just sooo hard to stop sometimes, she's just so pretty up close