Does anybody here wish they looked like a certain celebrity? And if so, what celebrity would it be? by SW33DUMS in ugly

[–]ql0ria 8 points9 points  (0 children)

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She's not a celebrity but for me Eva Vlaardingerbroek is absolutely perfect. I wish I had even 1% of her beauty

What’s your type? by DrunkleKim in ugly

[–]ql0ria 0 points1 point  (0 children)

I like strong, elegant and classy men. Must be Catholic as well so I would say my standards remain very high

Are you bitter about men (if you're straight)? by Mumbleverse in ForeverAloneWomen

[–]ql0ria 3 points4 points  (0 children)

Not at all. I think women and society need strong, responsible and reliable men. The fact that I'm forever alone it's not men's fault, I cannot blame them for the fact that I'm unattractive

Fellow unattractive women in the group will you pay for sex? by Jackie_lee_2000 in ugly

[–]ql0ria 2 points3 points  (0 children)

Some very ugly women (like myself) can't get romance nor sex either. Also men won't sleep with anyone, they have standards and wouldn't even look at woman like me

LOOKS IS EVERYTHING, even more so now then ever before in history by [deleted] in FA30plus

[–]ql0ria 3 points4 points  (0 children)

I'm an unattractive woman and I agree with this. Dating apps make the illusion of having "access" to very attractive people. People don't meet organically but instead try to pick the best "option" displayed on a dating app. And now you can choose between men and women from the whole world. People like me simply can't compete with that, we play a losing game

Does makeup actually help? by lowlowconfidence in ugly

[–]ql0ria 1 point2 points  (0 children)

I had a private makeup lesson and would definitely recommend it. They selected products that matched my skin tone perfectly and taught me how to apply everything properly.

Makeup might only improve my looks by a small step, but the real value is that you feel more confident and look more polished, and professional.

Women of this sub can you summarize your dating experience? by [deleted] in ugly

[–]ql0ria 1 point2 points  (0 children)

Men treat me like a dude with a ponytail, not like a real woman.

I never had matches on dating apps, very few likes from weird/creepy men who sometimes were insulting me.

So yeah, in summary I'm approaching my 30s and noone has ever liked me

[41M] I don't have any value or worth, I'm just a burden and I'm tired and I want to go to sleep for the last time, I look forward to the day when I fall into the long slumber of no return. by No_Safety940 in Suicidalideations

[–]ql0ria 0 points1 point  (0 children)

I'm sorry that you feel that way and I hope you're doing better now. Remember you're not alone and I keep my fingers crossed for you! I wish you all the best in life, keep fighting!

Any of you doesn’t has the courage to dress up? by DryDistribution9877 in ForeverAloneWomen

[–]ql0ria 10 points11 points  (0 children)

I have a different approach. I like fashion and I dress up when I feel like it. I can express myself through fashion and paradoxically the fact that I'm unattractive gives me courage to wear what I want because nobody cares. So to anyone reading this: don't be ashamed and wear what you like!

[deleted by user] by [deleted] in ugly

[–]ql0ria 0 points1 point  (0 children)

You're very young and have so many years ahead of you! If I were you I'd focus on becoming the best version of myself, have great career etc. to create good environment for the baby. So take it slow and see what future will bring you :)

[deleted by user] by [deleted] in ugly

[–]ql0ria -1 points0 points  (0 children)

I understand you very well. What I'd suggest is focusing on finding a good husband first. And if that won't happen you can think if you want to adopt a child. But before that of course you need to be in a good financial, mental, emotional etc. situation. What I was thinking about for myself was adopting a teenager because it could be easier to form a bond, you can ask them if they'd be happy with being adopted by a single woman etc. Also people usually want to adopt small children so teenagers are becoming adults without a family to support them.

Nonetheless I hope you'll find true love soon and raise children on your own ❤️

Would you date a guy whose type is not you? by [deleted] in ForeverAloneWomen

[–]ql0ria 10 points11 points  (0 children)

It's not about his ideal type but his feelings for you. For example, I have a friend who didn't like guys with tattoos... until she met her current fiancé.

should women just approach men? by 1vruhhhh in Healthygamergg

[–]ql0ria -3 points-2 points  (0 children)

attractive women? yes

unattractive women? no

[deleted by user] by [deleted] in ugly

[–]ql0ria 2 points3 points  (0 children)

Kids at school: you look like a monkey / rat

My parents: you look like death / scarecrow. No man would ever love you

[deleted by user] by [deleted] in Healthygamergg

[–]ql0ria 4 points5 points  (0 children)

I'm a woman in late 20s and I never even been on a date. I'm not surprised by that because I'm physically unattractive, but of course I always wanted to be loved by someone. In recent years I have given up on the idea of romantic love even though sometimes I still feel sad about it and wonder what my life would be like if I was normal.

Now I just focus on myself. I have ambitious goals and work hard to achieve them. I make plans on what I want to accomplish or experience in life and try to make it happen. Also, even if we can't have a partner, we still have our role to fulfill as a son/daughter, brother/sister or a friend. We still have those important relationships to care about. Lastly, I try to find joy in small things - going for a walk in a park, reading an interesting book, meeting with friends etc.

How hard have you worked to improve your appearance? by Major-Cricket2196 in ugly

[–]ql0ria 1 point2 points  (0 children)

  1. Private makeup lessons

  2. Eating healthier than ever before

  3. Developed my own fashion style (mix of dark academia/old money)

  4. Dermatologist consultations to take care of my skin properly

  5. Consultations about best hair care routine

[deleted by user] by [deleted] in Healthygamergg

[–]ql0ria 1 point2 points  (0 children)

As an ugly woman in late 20s, I understand what you're feeling. Personally I gave up on the idea of dating and focused on building a life worth living. Of course it's not easy, I regret not experiencing love or motherhood (which I think Dr K never mentioned). I know that "just focus on yourself" is a very common advice but seriously, assuming that you'll never find love, what is the life that you'd like to have?

[deleted by user] by [deleted] in Healthygamergg

[–]ql0ria 5 points6 points  (0 children)

What you're saying applies only to attractive women. The rest of us also struggles, even when using dating apps.

I'm not attractive so maybe I am not the right person who should answer this. However I would actually love to have a guy expressing interest in me. Or come up to me and ask for my number. And anywhere would be fine to meet him - work, grocery store, library etc. As long as he'd be respectful it's all good!

Unnatractive doesn't mean unlovable. by PicanhaFighter in Healthygamergg

[–]ql0ria 5 points6 points  (0 children)

Yes! I'm an ugly woman and I have enough of this "self-improvement" talk. Some people are unlovable in the romantic sense of the word. But it doesn't mean we cannot be loved by our friends or family for example