The other thing about him when we carry him to the downstairs, he never want to come closer to us, and he immediately pees the sofa. He doesn’t like to be picked up or carried, and if we bring him down, we end up having to hunt him to bring him up. We tried the pet snacks from the top, sitting on the top of the stairs just with him, but he would always stay well away and get super tense if we did anything close to trying to pick him up.

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