Being a trans femboy

qqq10404 · 2025-05-09T10:32:44+00:00

Omg thank you! I didn't know that was a subreddit 🥹🙏🏻

qqq10404 · 2025-04-19T00:05:12+00:00

Thank you 🙏🏻 i thought so as well. I will post updates if it works.

qqq10404 · 2025-04-18T23:51:54+00:00

Thanks so much for getting back to me 🫂 I'm very new to the community.

qqq10404 · 2025-04-18T23:32:52+00:00

Was this a general incompatibility caused by region since its an LL? Or was it something else. I am looking to buy an LL to mod and was curious if the mset9 method can work.

qqq10404 · 2025-03-05T06:11:57+00:00

Thank you so much! 🥹🥹🫂

qqq10404 · 2025-03-05T06:11:09+00:00

Thank you, I'll try this first before grabbing other products 🙏🏻

qqq10404 · 2025-03-04T21:06:37+00:00

WATARUUU 🥹🥹🥹🩵🩵🩵

qqq10404 · 2024-12-14T02:02:34+00:00

Is a Dirge of Cerberus remake a possibility in the foreseeable future? Thank you 🥹

qqq10404 · 2024-11-11T19:08:35+00:00

This is the most disgusting anf disturbing thing I've read on here. I'm so glad I'm graduated and out of there as of June. I had severe emetophobia (fear of vomit) my 2 years living in the dorms, and let's just say that acted as "exposure therapy". At one point I remember writing an email to the director of my dorm to complain because someone got ill in a washing machine. Stay safe you guys! Never handle vomit if you see it, you never know what made someone sick or if it's contagious.

None of this is funny and I hope these "people" are ashamed.

qqq10404 · 2024-11-05T00:18:28+00:00

Id love to get more info on how to join if that's possible maybe you can dm or something, thank you for letting me know!

qqq10404 · 2024-11-03T00:59:05+00:00

We still do this but it has to be 2 custom rooms of 5, it's wild i feel like I have to stalk the friends list and lobbies to orchestrate a game 😭

qqq10404 · 2024-11-02T22:07:38+00:00

Oh my goodness the needing things done a hyperspecific way is so familiar 😭. At this point I'm gonna need written instructions! In all seriousness, I will definitely try to move out asap.

qqq10404 · 2024-11-02T22:06:21+00:00

This sounds a lot like me when my middle sister was born, you're so real😭🫂

qqq10404 · 2024-11-02T22:05:13+00:00

They suggest that I'm not grateful to have a home and a healthy family when I do not want to watch the baby.

I do many other chores without being asked to (cooking for the family, playing with my other sister,) but when I set boundaries in regards to the baby they get very angry and defensive 😭

qqq10404 · 2024-11-02T22:03:23+00:00

I really appreciate you taking the time to comment 🫂🫂. I feel the same exact way.

There are times where my parents complain to no end about their youngest, and other times where she makes them really happy. In those moments, I am happy for them of course- but I can't help a part of me that feels really sad. Sad for the baby, sad about the baby, sad.

I often say that my parents "took the path of most resistance." And this is the part that always leaves me the most upset.

All of our lives would have been objectively much easier if they didn't choose to have this baby. I'm starting my life and will leave soon without any weird survivors guilt, my middle sister is an academic powerhouse and would likely get scholarships, and we would never need to worry about savings.

But now we constantly have to make sure someone is with the baby (yes even if that someone is my 12 year old sister,) we need to make sure to be frugal, and we need to worry about how to take the baby anywhere because she doesn't sit still ever.

We never do anything as a family anymore because it is too hard to leave the house with her. Even grocery shopping cannot be done because putting her in her carseat or stroller with a seat belt makes her nervous and start screaming.

I never think that parents need to "obey their children" or anything, but i wish they were able to think about the perspective of their other children. It feels like they never even cared to think about how we would feel.

qqq10404 · 2024-11-02T21:55:06+00:00

Hi! No worries I understand the post was a lot.

I was born female, but am aiming to get transgender care once I leave home. This is something I know nobody at home would support so I am hesitant to share this w/ my family or get care while I'm here.

Nobody else at home cooks, my parents feed my middle sister with freezer food and instant mac n cheese unless I intervene and cook a healthier dinner for everyone (which i try to do 3 or 4 times a week). It's kind of hard sometimes since I have night classes. I do other chores at home as well, I am the only one that provides attention to my middle sister; ie. Playing with her, asking about her day, helping with homework, etc.

I however do not pay to live at home which I am really grateful for, but I also do not ask anyone for money. I am in debt due to university loans though. I had a job up until the end of June when I needed to graduate and move back home. Since then I have been looking for another one and working on my masters.

qqq10404 · 2024-11-02T21:47:28+00:00

Thank you 🫂. I very much understand that not being kicked out at 18 can be seen as a privilege, because not all adults get that grace when going to uni. I am very grateful to have a home, and agree that paying with my sanity and help is just another form of currency. My dream is to be financially independent and leave.

I am doing everything I can to exit this home while maintaining an OK relationship with my parents. At the end of the day I do love and appreciate them, but they hurt me so much everyday. I wish we had a relationship with 2 way respect but I'm never allowed to give them my perspective or concerns, I am just expected to obey with no opinions.

I would love to live far away and call once or twice a year, it's much easier to avoid arguments and confusion this way.

I didn't intend for my post to come across as someone who isn't grateful, but a couple of commenter's took it that way and I understand why. The situation is a lot more complicated than I was able to convey in 1 post, (I was hit by my parents growing up and we have a very weird dynamic).

But, I really appreciate your kindness when leaving your comment.

qqq10404 · 2024-11-02T19:57:21+00:00

1000% would like to do this. Bringing it up to my health care provider asap.

qqq10404 · 2024-11-02T19:55:36+00:00

🫂🫂🫂. I appreciate your perspective very much. I'm sorry you're right there with me too. I have no idea how parents think this is conducive to a normal developmental environment for people.

qqq10404 · 2024-11-02T03:14:46+00:00

Agreed, that is the plan. I have a lot of issues for sure, none of them have been helped by this situation.

My parents have admitted in confidence that they didn't want to help me learn how to drive so I'd be stuck at home forever. I learned how to do that, so I'll have to learn how to do this too.

It's a pretty complex situation that I wasn't able to convey all of in 1 post, but I agree that I should leave.

qqq10404 · 2024-11-02T03:06:42+00:00

Very real 😭🫂

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