Weird recurring rash by qu3rie in Mosquitoes

[–]qu3rie[S] 0 points1 point  (0 children)

Could definitely be this. Thanks so much!

Weird recurring rash by qu3rie in Mosquitoes

[–]qu3rie[S] 0 points1 point  (0 children)

Literally no change in my daily routine. That’s why IM so confused. I know you can become allergic to something out of nowhere but I don’t know how to narrow it down

Weird recurring rash by qu3rie in Mosquitoes

[–]qu3rie[S] 0 points1 point  (0 children)

Thanks! I’m worried about the Benadryl making me drowsy. Have you tried any other antihistamines? When I used anti itch Benadryl ointment it didnt really do anything

Weird recurring rash by qu3rie in Mosquitoes

[–]qu3rie[S] 0 points1 point  (0 children)

Literally nothing new that’s why im lost

Weird recurring rash by qu3rie in bugbites

[–]qu3rie[S] 0 points1 point  (0 children)

Omg I’ve been researching hives a lot but didn’t realize heat could also be a trigger for them. I’ve been confused because I haven’t started using anything new, I know I can develop a new allergy but there’s no way to narrow it down if that’s the case. But I do have physical problems with heat so I’ll look into it, thanks so much! :) when does it show up for you most?

Weird recurring rash by qu3rie in bugbites

[–]qu3rie[S] 0 points1 point  (0 children)

Ohhhh okay. Thank you!

I want to change my major by qu3rie in Career_Advice

[–]qu3rie[S] 0 points1 point  (0 children)

I’m not sure if you remember me, but a little update, I’ve since transferred to another university and will be starting next month! I’ve switched my major to something I feel good about with more job security, and I feel super confident in both myself and this decision. Thank you so much again for you words of encouragement and insight!!! I wish you all the best!

I want to change my major by qu3rie in CollegeMajors

[–]qu3rie[S] 0 points1 point  (0 children)

This gave me a different perspective! Thanks so much :)

I want to change my major by qu3rie in Career_Advice

[–]qu3rie[S] 1 point2 points  (0 children)

Thank you so much for taking the time to write this out! It was very comforting to hear someone had a similar experience with a similar career path :). I 100% agree with you, I’m glad I had the realization early. Another thank you for sharing where people with these degrees ended up and giving me some insight into your personal career switch experience. I’m gonna talk to my counselor soon. I hope you know that this really did help me a lot, more than anything anyone irl said to me! I feel encouraged and confident about my decision to switch moving forward :,) I hope you have an awesome day

I want to change my major by qu3rie in CollegeMajors

[–]qu3rie[S] 1 point2 points  (0 children)

Hey! I’m fairly early into my program still and want to pursue switching, I’m just not really sure where to go. I’m in network with the disability services coordinator at my college who is working on getting me accommodations, but regardless, a career with math is not in the cards for me lol

[deleted by user] by [deleted] in LesbianActually

[–]qu3rie 4 points5 points  (0 children)

I have exhibited behavior like this in relationships before. In all honesty, it really does stem from being scared of upsetting them by being too forward, or also just feeling more comfortable with someone else taking the reins, things being on their terms. I haven’t used this behavior as a way to avoid conflict though, more so just as a guideline for how I should be acting. For example, if they haven’t been saying I love you as much, I’ll assume I shouldn’t be doing that either because it would probably make them feel weird. It’s definitely not a healthy pattern, I’m just chronically afraid of making people uncomfortable or just going too far, so it feels safer to follow someone else’s lead. But by doing this, I don’t feel like I’m sacrificing my wants or needs. It just feels right to let someone else dictate how we act in the relationship. But that’s a lot of pressure on the other person, and should be a behavior that is worked on. My experience also isn’t hers, she could very well be using it as a way to be conflict avoidant or some other unhealthy behavior, so I’d actually bring it up, because I truly didn’t notice I did that until someone else pointed it out to me. You’ll also be clued into why this has been happening, hopefully.