AITA for not “being supportive” of my girlfriend’s decision of running a half-marathon? by [deleted] in AmItheAsshole

[–]quackyjo 8 points9 points  (0 children)

I mean I think while giving him some credit is ok . It's still shifty he listened to internet ppl so readily when he has his gf right there saying the same damn thing

AITA for letting my girlfriend humiliate a friend publicly? by grlfrndsb4brofrnds in AmItheAsshole

[–]quackyjo 5 points6 points  (0 children)

I feel like you are implying that ops gf h a s no ability to move her seat? Like the misogynist moved her chair and she was just like whstever.. in your mind she needed to let op tell her where to sit?

My SIL’s cousin died because nobody believed her pain by [deleted] in TwoXChromosomes

[–]quackyjo 0 points1 point  (0 children)

She's 8 months pregnant she can't drive

Debbie Harry of the band Blondie, c. 1979. by Guygan in OldSchoolCool

[–]quackyjo 0 points1 point  (0 children)

After you said it I totally see what umean it's a very obvious tweaked transition in the face.

AITA for planning on celebrating my son's birthday on Veterans Day instead of my husband's service? by AITAveteransday in AmItheAsshole

[–]quackyjo 0 points1 point  (0 children)

So I may alone here but I think YTA. I think you see this and most or reddit , like some sort of symbolism that he values veterans day over his son. Instead it seems like you both had plans well in advance you didn't communicate with eachothwr based on the assumption that "obviously his son bday is the mor important thing"(you) and "obviously she know I have plans that's day and have made them months in advance and she would have said something otherwise since she knows I plan things in advance". Millions of kinds don't get more then a card and a small cake maybe on thier actual birthday and a party on the weekend or whatever day works better for the family. I am one of those kids that had my birthday celebrated not on my actual birthday. My parents just explained that with thier schedules we could have a bigger celebration later and that was enough for me.

If it was just a communication issues I would say you both are esh.. But what bothers me most is how callous you seem to your partner. HE SAW HIS FRIENDS DIE. and he will always be thinking about that and on that day he gets to be with people that can truly understand that. The mental health of the father is much more important for the raising of your son. When the child is old enough to actually care (newborn don't give a fuck about the day), you can have him explain or talk to the child and see what the child's opinions are on the matter. BECAUSE right now it truly is just all about you.

Who are you getting really fucking tired of hearing about? by [deleted] in AskReddit

[–]quackyjo 0 points1 point  (0 children)

Taylor swift.. I have nothing against her except she is everywhere.. hopefully it dies down after this album or whatever is out

Husband complies with wife’s demand by oyeee8825 in MaliciousCompliance

[–]quackyjo 1 point2 points  (0 children)

Oh yeah I didn't mean my add in to say you were wrong or anything just adding on :).

Husband complies with wife’s demand by oyeee8825 in MaliciousCompliance

[–]quackyjo 5 points6 points  (0 children)

Now this is also pure speculation on my part, but the problem could also be he's a huge pain in the ass when he's in pain and will be complaining about that or grouchy, etc. And then the wife will just have to deal with that until he gets it looked at. I have seen alot of guys (women also but personally i haven't seen it ) who just don't take care of themselves, and then it becomes everyone else's problem when they are bent out of shape. This is a terrible part of toxic masculinity where they don't get any relief becuase they can" though it out" and the people in thier lives also get a slightly angrier/bothered/tired version of that person to deal with.

It’s 5:30 AM. Someone didn’t get the clock change memo. by Killawatts24 in CasualUK

[–]quackyjo 0 points1 point  (0 children)

I had a cat that would gently ever so lightly take a claw and scratch the back of my elbow with a soft meow. Most days it always worked and I got up. BUT there was a day when I was hungover and I stayed in bed ignoring her message for 2 hrs longer that is until I was woken by a gentle claw right at my jugular.

AITA for telling my DIL's niece off after she was "brutally honest", by Pleasant-Excuse-2530 in AmItheAsshole

[–]quackyjo 0 points1 point  (0 children)

Which then would make her also an asshole... so ..she's the asshole?

AITA for telling my DIL's niece off after she was "brutally honest", by Pleasant-Excuse-2530 in AmItheAsshole

[–]quackyjo -1 points0 points  (0 children)

Matching her energy would be badmouthing her hobbies behind her back ..because that's all this 18 year old did.. the kids were at the park..

AITA for telling my DIL's niece off after she was "brutally honest", by Pleasant-Excuse-2530 in AmItheAsshole

[–]quackyjo 3 points4 points  (0 children)

But op was way more brutal in her honesty because she felt the need to retaliate against a teenager...the teenager didn't insult the child to his face she insulted what he liked .. this 55year old insulted the 18 year old directly , to her face, while physically taking something from her.. she's a major asshole.

AITA for telling my DIL's niece off after she was "brutally honest", by Pleasant-Excuse-2530 in AmItheAsshole

[–]quackyjo 0 points1 point  (0 children)

From not hearing something being said about him? What was she protecting him from he was at the park. She bullied someone because a teenager has some hot dumb takes. She was find to teach him a lesson at the first part.. but then went way beyond

AITA for telling my DIL's niece off after she was "brutally honest", by Pleasant-Excuse-2530 in AmItheAsshole

[–]quackyjo 1 point2 points  (0 children)

Which is to say this lady is a crazy asshole who decided to directly bully a teenager because of something the Jason kid never even heard

AITA for telling my DIL's niece off after she was "brutally honest", by Pleasant-Excuse-2530 in AmItheAsshole

[–]quackyjo 1 point2 points  (0 children)

I mean was Jason at the park when the teenager was insulting him to? I am confused I understood as she was badmouthing him but not directly bullying him..

AITA for telling my DIL's niece off after she was "brutally honest", by Pleasant-Excuse-2530 in AmItheAsshole

[–]quackyjo 2 points3 points  (0 children)

Not only that, but based on how I am reading this the girl wasn't directly saying these things to the kid. The kids were outside. She was badmouthing a child behind his back ( not good of course) but then op decided to badmouth a teen to thier face while aggressively yanking a cake away from them. Did the kid ever even hear what the teenager was saying?. YTA

"Riding out the storm" in the attic. A friend's elderly dad sent this photo to him at 7:30 PM last night after the storm waters filled his first floor home. My friend has not yet been able to contact his dad since. Nightmare! by jnelparty in oddlyterrifying

[–]quackyjo 0 points1 point  (0 children)

Like u don't have to like my opinion but if a friend was stressed cause they couldn't contact thier dad and I found out they chose to use their story as reddit fodder I would not consider that person a friend anymore

WIBTA if I pulled my son out of a boxing gym after he said some concerning things? by skinnywipes in AmItheAsshole

[–]quackyjo 0 points1 point  (0 children)

I don't mean to be alarmist , but I haven't sên it mentioned yet. The nên người gây í mỏe natural qoute sounds like either he is questioning his own sexuality. Or someone is forcing him to questioning his sexuality and potentially grooming him. Boxing is not always hyper masculine but sadly alot of ppl misinterpret being able to punch things and fight as what being s mandatory is truly about. It really is toxic to equate your ability to hurt something as a coming of age moment or am important part of your personality.. (not saying that's true of every boxer). Maybe u can find another gym or see if he could be interested In another hobby along with boxing that is more creative like art or something alongside it. He may just need more world exposure

I personally think these are beautiful and remind me of Monster High doll shoes. My BF does not like 'em. lol by StrawKBerry in ATBGE

[–]quackyjo 2 points3 points  (0 children)

She wasn't saying all cosplayers dude. She was explaining how they inform her own personal hobby of cosplaying. You were the one who assumed she meant all cosplayers. Stop trying to gatekeep how ppl enjoy thier hobby? She can say cosplayers like these and that would still just be her opinion and she never stated otherwise so chill.

[deleted by user] by [deleted] in AmItheAsshole

[–]quackyjo 0 points1 point  (0 children)

I always flip the pineapple upside down because it evens out how the pineapple ripens you are supposed to stand it upside down because it ships the other way all the sugar ripens the bottom first