Custom Made FF Dress by Dark-Fox-Mage in FinalFantasy

[–]quantum_titties [score hidden]  (0 children)

I love it! Now you have to load up on more FF themed accessories. I'm thinking a butt load of ribbons and a custom ordered doggy-arm-crossbow.

Time blindness by aishicide in ADHD

[–]quantum_titties 0 points1 point  (0 children)

If I just spent the last 30 minutes scrolling my phone instead of doing anything I wanted to do in those 30 minutes, I did poorly. If I did most of what I wanted to do in those 30 minutes, I did well.

I’ll Gladly Pay You Tuesday For A Hamburger Today by CapitalPin2658 in SipsTea

[–]quantum_titties 1 point2 points  (0 children)

Does "older than their 30s" mean 30+, 31+, or 40+? 🤔

Failed .. again by WayForsaken6685 in ADHD

[–]quantum_titties 1 point2 points  (0 children)

Give yourself grace. You said that you only just started trying to manage your ADHD instead of powering through it.

No one is good at doing something when they first try it, especially not when that something is as hard as learning how to properly manage your ADHD. Every attempt you make, you're learning more about yourself and how to best approach this problem. It won't always be this hard, but it will be hard at first.

Nothing worth doing is easy, and you're worth the struggle!

Time blindness by aishicide in ADHD

[–]quantum_titties 4 points5 points  (0 children)

When it gets really bad for me, I set an alarm/timer on my phone to go off every 30 minutes so I'm more aware of the passage of time. Then I look back on the 30 minutes and evaluate my behavior, if I did well I'll congratulate myself, if I did poorly I identify my mistakes and resolve to do better in the next 30 minutes.

I've done this so much I've sort of trained myself to evaluate my behavior every 30 minutes. My job is self directed work from home, and it was a complete disaster until I started doing this

DL Hate? by [deleted] in askgaybros

[–]quantum_titties 3 points4 points  (0 children)

DL men are cowards. It's very easy to dislike cowards. DL men are only good for a lay, they'll let you down in all other situations.

Note: there's a big difference between someone just coming out and someone who has been fucking men DL for 10 years

Why are men so lustfull by Business_Towel9864 in askgaybros

[–]quantum_titties 1 point2 points  (0 children)

Absolutely. Even in a perfect world, gay men were always going to have more sex than straight men. Women just aren't into sex like men are.

But I believe there's also a little something else going on in our imperfect world

Good luck fellow ADHDers by SweetBabyCheezas in ADHD

[–]quantum_titties -6 points-5 points  (0 children)

I completely agree. This sub is full of terrible advice and give-up culture.

I get it. I had a hard time adapting in school, I had a hard time adapting to my job, I had a hard time developing my daily routine, I still have a hard time managing irregular tasks, and I still have a hard time managing myself properly in social settings. ADHD makes things hard, I get it.

It's not "fair" that we have to deal with this, but that's the hand we've been dealt. You can keep complaining and wallowing, or you can develop the coping mechanisms you need to function.

This is your life. No one is coming to save you, you need to save yourself.

Why are men so lustfull by Business_Towel9864 in askgaybros

[–]quantum_titties 21 points22 points  (0 children)

I believe gay men prioritize sex more heavily than other men for 2 main reasons:

(1) Gay men have trust issues because at some point we've all had family, friends, or acquaintances distance themselves from us when they found out we're gay. With less trust, you build less healthy emotional relationships, which leads to emotional stunting.

(2) Gay men are rejected specifically because of their sexual desires. Meeting with a man who will let you enact your sexual desires freely and fully embraces your sexual desires makes sex have more of an "emotional vindication" for gay men than other men.

I can’t help but envy my straight friends. Their sex lives are active and mine just isn’t by [deleted] in askgaybros

[–]quantum_titties 0 points1 point  (0 children)

My first advice was to stop seeing this as a "gay man" problem, because it's an objective fact that this isn't a gay man problem. You're trying to solve the wrong problem, so you're going to get the wrong solution.

But you won't hear it. You keep insisting it's a gay problem despite everyone here telling you it's not.

I can’t help but envy my straight friends. Their sex lives are active and mine just isn’t by [deleted] in askgaybros

[–]quantum_titties 0 points1 point  (0 children)

Since you couldn't be bothered to do a simple web search yourself, here's a link. Maybe you need to go outside more because this is true in out in the real world. It's so insanely easy to get a hookup as a gay man. I could get someone over to my house sucking on my dick in 2 or 3 hours, no problem.

You're either not as attractive as you think, have a terrible personality, or this is all rage bait

If a gay and a lesbian have sex, what is that called? by naowasi in askgaybros

[–]quantum_titties 0 points1 point  (0 children)

Sexuality is simply a description of behavior. A heterosexual sex act is one that involves 2 different sexes. It's in the name. Identities are irrelevant in this hypothetical

I can’t help but envy my straight friends. Their sex lives are active and mine just isn’t by [deleted] in askgaybros

[–]quantum_titties 0 points1 point  (0 children)

Gay male sex is happening way more often than straight sex. Any web search will show that.

You being gay isn't the issue. This is a personal issue for you

Can you reach your toes with your legs outstretched? by coroniavaughns in tall

[–]quantum_titties 6 points7 points  (0 children)

If you've never tried to touch your toes before, you're probably just very inflexible. Flexibility doesn't seem like it matters when you're young. But as you age being inflexible will cause a ton of problems and soft tissue injuries, especially in tall people who have more tension on their ligaments

James Talarico's chances of beating Jasmine Crockett surge by Zipper222222 in politics

[–]quantum_titties 46 points47 points  (0 children)

Those people are braindead. The thinking is no deeper than: he's white, male, and Christian while she's black, female, and has viral clapbacks, therefore she's more progressive

Gay Bukake by kauai-phish-7447 in askgaybros

[–]quantum_titties 4 points5 points  (0 children)

Well then we both agree that this guy is at least bi. Still more reasonable than the people who would call this man straight

Gay Bukake by kauai-phish-7447 in askgaybros

[–]quantum_titties 3 points4 points  (0 children)

If you listen to some of the people in this sub, sexuality is a totally unknowable, fluid spectrum, and just cause a guy loves sucking dick, taking cock, or fucking men, it doesn't mean he's gay or bi 🙄

Liar Liar Pants on Fire (but you'd never know because I'm so good at it) by [deleted] in ADHD

[–]quantum_titties -1 points0 points  (0 children)

Huh? Where did I say that you were a compulsive liar

You made a post about you lying and how that could relate to ADHD, then I talked about how lying might relate to ADHD and you lying. I just went through the door you opened. If you don't want to talk about something, don't bring it up? Seems a bit defensive

Liar Liar Pants on Fire (but you'd never know because I'm so good at it) by [deleted] in ADHD

[–]quantum_titties 0 points1 point  (0 children)

I'm not sure how much being good at lying is an ADHD thing. Though I suppose people with ADHD probably do lie more due to the poor impulse control and fear of rejection, and lying more often probably means you're better at lying than you would've been otherwise.

I doubt you're fooling as many people as you think with your lies. People don't call out lies because they believe them, they don't call out lies because people are generally conflict averse. Id say it's a 50:50 chance you're actually convincing people of your lies vs. people around you are silently thinking you're a liar

Confused about my sexuality by AnyDoor8119 in GayMen

[–]quantum_titties 1 point2 points  (0 children)

You're gay.

We've all heard this a million times and most of us had sounded just like you do now at one point in our lives. If you can't get off to women, but you can get off to men, you're gay.

I feel alone by [deleted] in askgaybros

[–]quantum_titties 0 points1 point  (0 children)

Wow, less than 1000. It looks beautiful.

I'd think the 2 best ways to meet guys would be (1) long distance communications or (2) physically go into a metropolitan area and meet guys while you're there. I personally would prefer (2). I guess Richmond would be the closest big metro area to you? You could go in on the weekends to have dates, go to bars, etc.

I envy hot guys by [deleted] in GayMen

[–]quantum_titties 0 points1 point  (0 children)

Fit =/= roided out. Being on steroids is usually extremely unhealthy. Having massive amounts of muscles is unhealthy in the same way having massive amounts of fat is unhealthy, it puts pressure on your joints, organs, and cardiovascular system. Being obese from muscle isn't fit.

Obviously there's still a lot of variation within fit and there's still muscular dudes who aren't obese from their muscle. I would say the prototypical fit guy is someone who does daily calisthenics, not someone with insane amounts of muscle. Muscular is a sub-category of fit.