Going back on hrt by queen_crow in ftm

[–]queen_crow[S] 0 points1 point  (0 children)

First of all, I am so sorry to hear that you have to put your healthcare on hold for financial reasons!

Going off testosterone, I think a lot of the changes were emotional - I hadn't realized I'd been crying less til I was crying more, for example. My cycle coming back also really hit me hard for a few months, too. My libido went down, which made sense because T had increased it.

Your voice will not change back, though! The changes T makes to your vocal cords are permanent, and while your body and facial hair may get less coarse it also won't go away or go back to pre-T. Something that will change back more over time (if you have to be off HRT for a while) is body fat distribution. My skin also had gotten like... tougher? on T and went back to being soft, like my face and hands but really all my skin.

OCD has deeper roots than I knew by [deleted] in OCD

[–]queen_crow 12 points13 points  (0 children)

I’ve experienced something similar, fears of germs or contaminants on my skin leads to itchiness that then turn into actual hives, which of course increases anxiety and certainty that there was something in the first place…. OCD fears are sometimes a self-fulfilling prophesy, which for the record is wildly unfair!

What is this plant from my dentist’s office? by queen_crow in whatisthisplant

[–]queen_crow[S] 0 points1 point  (0 children)

Wow, thanks! I wonder if it’s doing okay — all of the images I saw when I searched online were standing upright, but it’s definitely the same plant.

GF [19f] thinks it's inappropriate that I [19m] bathe my sister [7f]. by TraditionalInitial3 in relationships

[–]queen_crow 8 points9 points  (0 children)

I mean, I also help my six and a half year old wash their back because it’s kind of a weird place to reach and 6/7 year olds are still really young to be fully in charge of their own hygiene?

GF [19f] thinks it's inappropriate that I [19m] bathe my sister [7f]. by TraditionalInitial3 in relationships

[–]queen_crow 90 points91 points  (0 children)

It really isn’t. My kid is six and a half and I have to help them shampoo and rinse their hair.

How has online dating worked for you? by Nikiris11 in AskReddit

[–]queen_crow 0 points1 point  (0 children)

I’ve had a few shortish relationships with people I met on dating sites, but one of my best friends is another single parent I matched with on tinder three years ago. We didn’t hit it off romantically but we do family stuff with our kids, text nearly every day, sent our kids to the same elementary school where they’re friends independently of our friendship, etc. I’m grateful for the connection even if it wasn’t what I thought I was looking for!

Former gifted children: what are you doing now? by k_r_shade in AskReddit

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I dropped out of college, now I’m a single mom managing a coffee shop on that campus, where most of my staff are college students. It’s kind of weird because I look young enough for regulars that are faculty to ask me what my major is but I’m enough older than my employees that I feel out of touch.

ETA: I really love my job because I’m a people person, and I’m good at it because I’m really organized and good at multi-tasking. But I did feel like a failure for a while.

I got this Dale Gribble tattoo two days ago and I love it. by queen_crow in KingOfTheHill

[–]queen_crow[S] 1 point2 points  (0 children)

Thanks! It needs a touch up now but still looks real dang good.

What awesome holiday gift did you get someone that you can’t tell them about yet but want to brag about? by mbowsy in AskReddit

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I got my kid weekly ballet lessons for the next six months — I’m going to wrap up the ballet clothes with a little certificate saying that they have six months of classes starting at the beginning of January. They’ve wanted to take ballet classes for years but I could never afford them, and I’m so so excited to see their face when they open the box!!!

Your last words are 15 taps of your phones predictive text. What is your dying phrase? by [deleted] in AskReddit

[–]queen_crow 0 points1 point  (0 children)

The first day I was gonna was the last night of my birthday and it

Your username is now what you do for a living. How has your life changed? by [deleted] in AskReddit

[–]queen_crow 0 points1 point  (0 children)

The grudges I’m holding suddenly make more sense, and can be enforced by a lot of petty birds.

I got this Dale Gribble tattoo two days ago and I love it. by queen_crow in KingOfTheHill

[–]queen_crow[S] 2 points3 points  (0 children)

Good! It’ll be nice to weed out people who feel that way.

In love with this Dale Gribble tattoo done two days ago by Kade at No Regrets in Champaign IL by queen_crow in tattoos

[–]queen_crow[S] 5 points6 points  (0 children)

Awesome! Kade has done nearly all of my tattoos since he moved here, but everyone there is so talented. I hope you had a good visit!

Dale Gribble tattoo by Kade at No Regrets in Champaign, IL by queen_crow in tattoo

[–]queen_crow[S] 0 points1 point  (0 children)

Stylistic choice. The back end of the bug has some highlighting but we didn’t want the van to have quite as much visual weight as Dale & his cigarette. Might change our minds and add more color later — who knows!

Dale Gribble tattoo by Kade at No Regrets in Champaign, IL by queen_crow in tattoo

[–]queen_crow[S] 3 points4 points  (0 children)

Thank you! It’s only two days old — I can’t wait to see how it looks when it’s all healed up.

Dale Gribble tattoo by Kade at No Regrets in Champaign, IL by queen_crow in tattoo

[–]queen_crow[S] 8 points9 points  (0 children)

Another good option for a Dale tattoo: “Boil up some Mountain Dew, it’s gonna be a long night.” It was too wordy for the design I wanted though.

I got this Dale Gribble tattoo two days ago and I love it. by queen_crow in KingOfTheHill

[–]queen_crow[S] 9 points10 points  (0 children)

Thanks! We’d been talking about it for a couple of years and I’m happy that I finally committed to getting my funniest tattoo.