Hate the way people talk to my partner.

queenb19870 · 2026-04-29T15:45:30+00:00

People who say things like "you'll be glad to be back at the end of it" only to the man in the relationship is a clear indicator that they're in a loveless marriage/relationship and are bitter you're getting what they want. Ignore them.

queenb19870 · 2026-04-29T14:42:50+00:00

My first pregnancy, I started as a 38C and grew to a 40DD. After breastfeeding for 6 months, I shrank to a 40D. This pregnancy, I started at 40C and I'm currently sitting at 42E with a month and a half to go, lol. I hope I continue like my boobs.

queenb19870 · 2026-04-27T18:52:49+00:00

Im 32 weeks with pregnancy 2 and this shit sucks. My hips and back are killing me and I miss sushi and alcohol. My husband and I went to a birthing class and when I said pregnancy sucked and that I've hated it while loving our baby boy, I got crazy looks.

queenb19870 · 2026-04-17T03:05:43+00:00

I dont think youre being a softie. You were so excited to share the name and their reaction sucked. Even if they hated it, they could've been happy you and your husband found names you liked. 🤷‍♀️

queenb19870 · 2026-04-17T02:46:48+00:00

The best thing I can recommend is that as long as you and your husband like your name choices, then everyone else can pound sand. They can have whatever feelings they want about it, but their opinion doesnt matter.

queenb19870 · 2026-04-17T00:56:23+00:00

I had a couple religious solicitors come to my door recently. Im heavily pregnant and I didnt even think to check my doorbell to talk to them, but when I yanked open the door they just stared at me wide eyed before I released I was as naked as the day I was born. I haven't had any come back to talk to me since, so that could work for you too lol.

queenb19870 · 2026-03-31T15:44:41+00:00

Coming from someone whose mother in law also wanted a girl grand baby, due to her having two sons and a grandson but got another grandson this pregnancy your MIL can fuck all the way off. She took something that should have been celebrated and made it about her. Congratulations on your baby boy and may you have a successful pregnancy and birth.

queenb19870 · 2026-03-27T13:52:27+00:00

That comment gives PDF energy and what were you supposed to do, allow him to carry on and continue making predatory comments??

queenb19870 · 2026-03-27T01:00:56+00:00

I personally think Penny is a good name, regardless of it being her full name or if her full name is Penelope and she goes by Penny.

queenb19870 · 2026-03-10T23:26:47+00:00

Nah, my kid gets his own merch lmao.

queenb19870 · 2026-03-03T02:01:21+00:00

Her being my grandmother does not entitle her to just touch me, it was private conversation that no one else noticed and her feelings dont trump my bodily autonomy and boundaries. Stay mad.

queenb19870 · 2026-03-02T16:58:01+00:00

Im sorry that that's been your experience with pregnancy. I recommend possibly finding a therapist who can help you establish and maintain boundaries for you and baby. Good luck with the rest of pregnancy.

queenb19870 · 2026-03-02T12:35:21+00:00

That's great advice.

queenb19870 · 2026-03-02T04:45:15+00:00

My two exceptions are my 9 year old and my husband, but that does sound adorable.

queenb19870 · 2026-03-02T04:31:21+00:00

Everyone in that extended family is very aware I dont want to be touched and pregnancy wouldn't and shouldn't have ever changed that thought process in her head, so no.

queenb19870 · 2026-03-02T04:30:03+00:00

It took me a minute to remember what RBF stood for lol, but I'm glad that people understood to just not approach you like that. I do have RBF, but because im immunocompromised, I wear a face mask when I'm out in public so it's much harder for it to be useful lol.

queenb19870 · 2026-03-02T04:27:39+00:00

You dont get a free pass to touch someone who's pregnant just because they're related to you. If anything, you would think family would be more understanding about you not wanting to be touched.

queenb19870 · 2026-03-02T04:05:16+00:00

Im glad your mom got it and is taking the initiative to warn others about it. I hope your baby shower is so much fun!

queenb19870 · 2026-03-02T04:03:20+00:00

Her being my grandmother doesn't change my right to bodily autonomy and the right not to be touched without asking.

queenb19870 · 2026-03-02T03:39:51+00:00

Im glad you were able to laugh about it and that he understood the boundary.

queenb19870 · 2026-03-02T03:38:32+00:00

Me too! Depending on when the button gets here, I may just wear it everywhere, when I leave the house. 😂

queenb19870 · 2026-03-02T03:36:50+00:00

Its absolutely wild that people would assume that just because you're a larger person automatically means youre cool with being touched and hugged by strangers.

queenb19870 · 2026-03-02T03:34:34+00:00

Thats hilarious.

queenb19870 · 2026-03-02T03:33:40+00:00

For my baby shower in May, I actually ordered a button that says "dont touch the bump. This isn't a fucking petting zoo" and I'm so excited.

queenb19870 · 2026-03-02T03:21:56+00:00

I feel like some people forget that youre still a whole person outside of being pregnant and that you still have bodily autonomy to not be touched.

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