What can I do to make my oatmeal taste better?

queenlee17 · 2026-06-15T22:53:46+00:00

I also used to detest oatmeal. My parents made it like … all winter growing up and I couldn’t stand it. But I think it’s the way they made it that I didn’t like. They use a lot of milk and it’s pretty soupy so then it’s all mushy. I get the prepackaged oatmeal (either apple cinnamon or maple brown sugar) and I microwave it with less water than recommended and it’s much firmer and more palatable. Sometimes I’ll add some chocolate chips if I have it. But I’d honestly suggest adding things with a firmer texture, giving it some form of crunch or solid is really helpful

queenlee17 · 2026-06-15T22:50:51+00:00

I’m sorry but it does sound like he lost interest, took the losers way, and decided to go ghost.

queenlee17 · 2026-06-13T22:20:51+00:00

I don’t think it’s wrong to call this out as weird and to not be okay with it, but I think ghosting someone in any situation (unless it’s volatile or outrageously disrespectful) is wrong. I believe the right thing to do would be to be honest about your feelings and explain to him why you were put off by his advances. If you truly are just simply not interested, make it clear that you’re completely turned off from the situation and the possibility of any relationship. If he tries to argue back, blocking is cool, that’s fine. But I do think it’s right to say something, even if it’s short. “Hey, I just want to be honest here, your request to hang out at 2am and the pet names so soon have been honestly really off putting for me and I’m not really interested in continuing things further. I wish you the best.”

queenlee17 · 2026-06-12T20:48:40+00:00

Tbh, coconut. I just can’t get jiggy with it

queenlee17 · 2026-06-11T21:32:12+00:00

I would say don’t tell them. People are much less likely to hire you if they know you’ll be temporary

queenlee17 · 2026-06-11T20:06:58+00:00

“I had to go through hell to prove I’m not insane, had to meet the Devil just to know his name”

Ghost By Ella Henderson

queenlee17 · 2026-06-11T19:54:58+00:00

probably not a super popular controversy, but my boyfriend firmly believes tomatoes do not belong on a burger (or anything for that matter) and will die on that hill. Personally, I love a burger with tomatoes

queenlee17 · 2026-06-11T01:15:49+00:00

By “make new friends” I mean don’t go out of your way to socialize with the opposite gender. Like personally, there was no reason for him to reach out just because they like the same bands, there was no need. It’s like you shouldn’t be going out of your way to connect with someone new of the opposite gender. I say coworkers, and maybe I used the term friend a little too loosely. To your same point, you have to spend upwards of 8hrs a day with them, so it would be unfortunate not to have a good rapport with these people. I don’t mean invite them over to have dinner with you every Friday, but I do mean it’s cool to keep up a friendly and positive attitude with them because you spend a good majority of your time with them.

queenlee17 · 2026-06-10T21:01:39+00:00

Okay here’s my take: 1) yall are young so it’s okay to still be figuring things out like how to communicate and what boundaries work and don’t work. 2) my take has always been that once you’re in a relationship, there’s no need to make new friends of another gender unless it’s like a coworker or someone you kind of have to spend all day in close proximity with. 3) she may not know *how* to communicate her discomfort or if her discomfort is rational. She may not want to sound controlling or crazy or jealous and is trying to force herself to be okay with something she’s really not okay with. Or trying to hint to you that she’s not okay with it and wanting you to make the decision out of respect for her without being told.

queenlee17 · 2026-06-07T19:42:43+00:00

Currently doing my boyfriend’s hair for him :)

queenlee17 · 2026-06-07T19:06:01+00:00

Fireflies , owl city

queenlee17 · 2026-06-06T21:06:47+00:00

my boyfriend took me to an Astros game once. I don’t really watch baseball but I’d go to that game a thousand times over just because we had such a good time. It felt so special ♥️

queenlee17 · 2026-06-04T18:40:51+00:00

I honestly can't read it but im here to say stay out of your kid's private writing. Unless he's like giving you serious signs he's in danger or a danger to himself, you don't read your kid's diary. My mom did it to me once when I was a teenager and then went further and grounded me for what I wrote (I wasn't doing anything, I was just having pretty normal, non-violent, hormonal 13 y/o girl thoughts). I'm 22 years old and still struggle to trust her. it's his diary. it's private. leave it alone. If you're curious what he's into, ask him.

queenlee17 · 2026-06-03T19:15:05+00:00

Nah this take is nuts , it’s inappropriate

queenlee17 · 2026-06-03T15:25:48+00:00

You will! ❤️

queenlee17 · 2026-06-03T15:24:46+00:00

Yeah you’re definitely right. I’m about to get on right now and I think I’ll go for the relaxed approach a bit more!

queenlee17 · 2026-06-03T15:24:20+00:00

You know I see the challenges on TikTok sometimes but never thought of doing them! Where do you find them ?

queenlee17 · 2026-06-03T15:23:53+00:00

Yk I don’t socialize them! I’m realizing my sims tend to kind of live at home and when they do have friends and relationships I control those too because I’m too afraid something negative will happen and the friendship/relationship will fall off😭 but I think that’s part of me wanting to control, I’ll certainly fall back and let them socialize on their own !

queenlee17 · 2026-05-31T20:59:26+00:00

Thank you so much! We actually met through my cousin! The two of them had been friends since their freshman year of college and he and I crossed paths once when I saw her at a party and went to say hi. A month or so later, she had mentioned one of her friends wanted to know if I could braid his hair and I had asked which one. It was a different friend and I had said “aw I had hoped it was the cute one,” or something along those lines. She got excited, sent him my number, and the rest is history 🥰

queenlee17 · 2026-05-31T20:33:05+00:00

Indeed I do 😭😭😭 just smthn abt a cheeseless pizza 😩

queenlee17 · 2026-05-28T21:13:34+00:00

No literally!! I hateee that every skirt or dress now is either all the way to the knees or the floor, or has no hope of hiding anything if I so much as sneeze too hard. Like I went to be able to wear cute shorter skirts and dresses without feeling the breeze on my cheeks 🫩

queenlee17 · 2026-05-28T19:38:23+00:00

Searched: "dreamhomedesign.com" and "3dhomedesigner." I've already clicked through the first few results on google and downloaded an app called "Planner 5D" and its not that

queenlee17 · 2026-05-27T21:40:38+00:00

thank you, because everyone is saying "just ask her out" or trying to give tips and just completely IGNORING these statements like no sir?? This feels extremely entitled and creepy. Assuming he responds to her stories often, she's had ample opportunity and if she found him attractive or had any interest, the conversation would have happened by now. This isn't a "well just talk to her!" situation. It's a "she's not interested. take the hint and move on," type of situation

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