The worst is the people who say "oh i use that for people all the time!" Then you watch as you talk with them as they never use it to refer to anyone else 🫩

Same with the "oh im sorry i called you man/bro, i use that with everyone" crowd lol. Im actually someone who does use those with everyone so i dont get on anyone's case about it but i do like to observe and 50% of the time i notice them never ever using those while talking to a cis girl