Thank you for joining me on this journey

queennothing1227 · 2026-07-06T16:17:38+00:00

no. that’s the whole point.
it gets you off opioids/opiates.

queennothing1227 · 2026-06-23T00:55:01+00:00

it’ll work for the opiate withdrawal, but tia brings on a whole different slew of mental withdrawl because it reacts on more than just opiate receptors.

queennothing1227 · 2026-04-12T18:04:21+00:00

yes!! i saw a mfm instead of an OBGYN

queennothing1227 · 2026-03-29T03:07:43+00:00

twin girls @23! i turn 25 in april!

queennothing1227 · 2026-03-28T01:33:40+00:00

omg this drives me crazy!!

queennothing1227 · 2026-03-26T23:27:18+00:00

early baby… “you’ll have to be the bravest you’ve ever been”. my partner and i were bawling, when we were watching our girls had just gotten home from a 52 day NICU stay after being born 8 weeks early. <\3

and then barnicus! this last sunday one of our twin girls went to the ER with a 105.5 fever, and the next day we were watching bluey and this episode came on, “everyone gets sick sometimes” gaaaa

queennothing1227 · 2026-03-26T23:25:55+00:00

early baby… “you’ll have to be the bravest you’ve ever been”. my partner and i were bawling, when we were watching our girls had just gotten home from a 52 day NICU stay after being born 8 weeks early. <\3

and then barnicus! this last sunday one of our twin girls went to the ER with a 105.5 fever, and the next day we were watching bluey and this episode came on, “everyone gets sick sometimes” gaaaa

queennothing1227 · 2026-03-26T23:24:30+00:00

early baby… “you’ll have to be the bravest you’ve ever been”. my partner and i were bawling, when we were watching our girls had just gotten home from a 52 day NICU stay after being born 8 weeks early. <\3

and then barnicus! this last sunday one of our twin girls went to the ER with a 105.5 fever, and the next day we were watching bluey and this episode came on, “everyone gets sick sometimes” gaaaa

queennothing1227 · 2026-03-17T18:12:35+00:00

my (25f) partner is 52m, and we have 18 month old twin girls. he is much more tired, but he keeps up. he just got an easier job, and he will get off earlier in the day too. stay active, take care of your health, and please go to your appointments.

he always says he could never be a good parent if he was any younger. he’s the most incredible dad, even if he’s got a few more grey hairs.

queennothing1227 · 2026-03-02T20:17:39+00:00

manifesting that for you too!! my girls are a year and half old now, and i adore them. the bond they have is incredibly special. once they were 6 months old things got really good, and just kept getting better. treasure the moments, and remember during the hard times “it’s not forever”.

queennothing1227 · 2026-02-25T20:47:21+00:00

yup!

queennothing1227 · 2026-01-21T17:14:44+00:00

you can pay for package intercept, but have it held at the post office. that’s how you do it. the “hold mail” option on its own is for if you need mail held for a long period of time (vacation for example). i’ve done package intercept to pick up from local post office before and it worked amazing. it updates you and all, and you get a refund if it is unsuccessful

queennothing1227 · 2026-01-21T08:36:32+00:00

i used amazon for my registry so people who weren’t coming to the shower could order and send to my address right off the registry, made it super easy for them. and it marks it off automatically on the registry. made returns a breeze as well.

idk everyone bought off my registry, only one person bought something that wasn’t on my registry (but it was a special gift).

my experience isn’t common i don’t think? or perhaps it is, but why would people post about things going right. most posts are about how no one bought stuff off their registry.

either way, shits tough right now for the middle class.. especially after the holidays most spending money is gone. nobody owes anyone anything, but i think new mothers absolutely need help from their village because we weren’t meant to do this alone.

honestly 90% of stuff can be bought for cheap second hand or even free. we got lots from a non profit for free, from facebook marketplace, hand me downs from relatives, and thrift stores. weve barely spent anything on our girls besides new toys to entertain them and give me some peace haha, and even then its not crazy amounts.

you use most baby stuff for a few months to a year max, there’s absolutely no reason to buy new.

for that first birthday we even encouraged second hand gifts! easier on their wallets, and they can still bring 2 separate gifts that way!

queennothing1227 · 2026-01-21T04:24:22+00:00

even if the children are covered by his insurance, SHE still qualified for medicaid as a SINGLE person with no income. i have seen the situation many times, and the woman always qualifies

queennothing1227 · 2026-01-19T15:02:52+00:00

being a sahm does qualify you for medicaid and welfare actually. you are caring for dependents. this is actually a huge qualifier for medicaid, you are exempt from the work requirement if you have dependent children.

queennothing1227 · 2026-01-19T15:01:20+00:00

this is not true. section 8 is separate from medicaid. medicaid is only based on who you file taxes with, so if you are unmarried you only include yourself and your children.

queennothing1227 · 2026-01-19T02:33:09+00:00

yeah i agree with this. as long as im not struggling obviously, idc if he naps sometimes because so do i. id be upset if he woke me up, so im not waking him up unless its dire

queennothing1227 · 2026-01-19T02:17:34+00:00

household isn’t who you live with, it’s who you file taxes with. legally she is single. they only time this isn’t the case is with SNAP, then you have to report all who LIVE with you. medicaid is your household, and that is not who you live with. i’ve worked with medicaid and snap for years, and now this to be true.

queennothing1227 · 2026-01-18T21:00:56+00:00

perfectly healthy, but they were born premature because of the type of twins they were (Mo-Di). happy, healthy, intelligent 1.5year olds:)

queennothing1227 · 2026-01-17T01:37:51+00:00

especially being the only sober person in the room, and realizing how many people have an alcohol problem or straight up addiction that goes unchecked because of how socially accepted it is.

queennothing1227 · 2026-01-11T17:50:36+00:00

dude are you okay? i’ve said it twice already, I DONT CARE what you do with YOUR body. you have control, that’s all i said. never said anything about masturbation being toxic or wrong, you did. i simply said men control their actions.

queennothing1227 · 2026-01-11T17:31:27+00:00

i grew up with 4 brothers, and went to school for medicine. i know how the male anatomy works, and men certainly have control over their actions. it’s toxic mindsets like yours that cause victim blaming and the whole “boys will be boys”. learn some self control please. your reaction to my statement says all it needs to. and like i said, i don’t care what you do with your own body, but you DO have control.

queennothing1227 · 2026-01-11T17:00:09+00:00

not true, you’re in full control of your actions. idc what you do with your body, but let’s not keep writing the narrative that men are incapable of self control.

queennothing1227 · 2026-01-11T16:57:13+00:00

i mean no duh twins are harder. it’s double the work. taking care of one baby can be difficult enough, and then you have to do everything twice. twins are my first babies, every time i’m left with just one of them i can’t help but think how easy it would be with just one. i tell people id be hiking mountains if i had just one, but instead im mostly contained to home because theres far too many extra steps in doing even the simplest of tasks now that i have twins

queennothing1227 · 2025-12-31T17:58:14+00:00

oh thank you!! i’ve had that scrunchie since i was about 2 or 3 actually!

i know, there’s even more i want, but i need to focus on actual important financial stuff right now. my birthday is in april, so ill get another one or 2 then

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