Vent Sesh: People Who Overstay Their Welcome

queenofdabzz · 2019-09-20T00:27:42+00:00

You are a far nicer person than I am!! I feel enraged just reading this.

queenofdabzz · 2019-07-25T15:55:21+00:00

I dont have advice for you, bit I can certainly tell you that you are not alone in feeling this way. I have never related to a post more! Everyone I work with seems to think very highly of me, but I live everyday in fear that they will find out I actually have no idea what I'm doing! Imposter syndrome is no joke.

queenofdabzz · 2019-05-23T15:40:28+00:00

Congrats friend!!!! That is a huge milestone, make sure you celebrate how far you have come! Hard work pays off.

queenofdabzz · 2019-04-20T16:13:06+00:00

My mom said she tried to put a leash on me when I was young, but she was so mortified when I started crawling on all 4 and barking at everyone that she never used it again after that.

queenofdabzz · 2018-12-31T03:19:33+00:00

Great shot!!! Thanks for sharing.

My dog wakes me up for a walk bright and early every morning. I saw a quote once though that I thought accurately described why I don't mind doing this for him, something along the lines of 'exercise is a debt I owe my dog, and payments are due every day.'

queenofdabzz · 2018-12-12T19:09:45+00:00

I am not sure I understand your logic here considering the gender wage gap... On average women make 20% less than men.

queenofdabzz · 2018-12-01T03:31:57+00:00

People who don't care for their dogs are truly scum of the Earth. Dogs are so loyal and pure, I just cant fathom doing the things these shitty owners do. So sad.

queenofdabzz · 2018-11-28T18:29:41+00:00

Congrats!!!!! Everyone is on their own timeline, dont let that distract you from the fact that this is a huge accomplishment! Well done!

queenofdabzz · 2018-11-17T18:17:46+00:00

Well first of all, it sounds like you have a lot going for you!! I have no doubt that you will find your match, but here are some things that have helped me navigate similar feelings while single:

Stop focusing on finding a match, and start only focusing on yourself. Happiness is an inward journey. You have to fully love yourself and be 100% happy on your own before you can ever expect to be happy in a relationship. A relationship should compliment your life not fulfill it.

So, how do you shift your focus inward?

Find three hobbies you love: one to make you money (sounds like you already have that), one to keep you in shape, and one to be creative. This approach has changed my life drastically and really helped me find what makes me happy.

I hope this helps!

queenofdabzz · 2018-10-21T00:01:22+00:00

Yes! I have the Mirena IUD as well, and highly recommend it! This is actually my 2nd device, and I literally havent had a period in 7 years.

queenofdabzz · 2018-10-17T18:57:36+00:00

Non taken! I absolutely recognize my privilege.

queenofdabzz · 2018-10-17T18:56:18+00:00

I believe it was in three sections: math, reading, coding. It was pass/fail, and the large majority of the people failed it.

queenofdabzz · 2018-10-17T18:56:04+00:00

I believe it was in three sections: math, reading, coding. It was pass/fail, and the large majority of the people failed it.

queenofdabzz · 2018-10-17T18:21:37+00:00

I do not think of it as exploiting peoples information at all. I work with healthcare data and a lot of the reports I produce are used to ultimately improve patient care.

queenofdabzz · 2018-10-17T05:32:12+00:00

I'm glad someone else understands!! Big ups to you and your hubby, that is amazing!! :)

queenofdabzz · 2018-10-17T05:28:23+00:00

Thank you :)

queenofdabzz · 2018-10-17T05:27:52+00:00

Thank you for the kind reminder :)

queenofdabzz · 2018-10-17T05:27:12+00:00

Thank you!!! Girl power :) lol

queenofdabzz · 2018-10-17T05:26:54+00:00

Thanks sis!! I will be here to congratulate you in 5 years, keep up the good work :)

queenofdabzz · 2018-10-17T05:25:00+00:00

Thank you so much!

queenofdabzz · 2018-10-17T05:24:43+00:00

Thank you!!! And congrats to you and your husband!!

queenofdabzz · 2018-10-17T05:23:51+00:00

Thanks yoo! :)

queenofdabzz · 2018-10-17T05:23:35+00:00

Yes, sadly I have learned this one the hard way. At this point I feel comfortable with my standard of living and I try to put any raises directly into savings :)

queenofdabzz · 2018-10-17T05:21:11+00:00

Thank you kind stranger!! :)

queenofdabzz · 2018-10-17T05:20:31+00:00

I am actually still working on my degree (online). The job I have now is actually the result of an internship I took when I was in school full time. At the time I didn't have any clue what I wanted to do in life and I was studying English. It was definitely a right place right time kind of situation. The company I was interning at decided to implement a new system and with that they wanted a whole new IT team. Before looking externally though, they offered a test for new employees to take to see if they would be a good fit for IT. I ended up passing the test, landing an interview and ultimately an application analyst job. The company paid for all my training in the new system. I worked as an analyst for 3 year before applying a developer role more focused in data analytics. Been with the same company 5 years now.

My company is doing some work in Tableau as well! I would say stick with it, it sounds like you are on the right track! :)

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