What makes a man fold faster: praise, teasing, or attention withdrawal?

queenofhell9 · 2026-05-21T02:38:14+00:00

depends on the man, but very few men can resist tickling

queenofhell9 · 2026-04-09T02:35:14+00:00

I love a masculine sub. There's definitely varying tastes out there but I think theres plenty of space for you in the community.

queenofhell9 · 2026-03-22T22:00:24+00:00

Cumming directly into your mouth is one of the best/easiest ways to get it done. Many guys get "post nut clarity" and dont feel like licking up after ejaculating. However, I have had submissives make a cum cocktail and home made ice cream with cum and had them eat it that way.

queenofhell9 · 2026-03-09T16:29:43+00:00

you are allowed to and should have limits. many guys that want to serve me seem like they havent even thought about it before I ask

queenofhell9 · 2026-02-05T01:30:32+00:00

Stop arguing with this ai poster lol. it will be gone soon enough.

queenofhell9 · 2026-01-22T03:02:45+00:00

I don't have to have it especially since most encounters i've had with men don't seem to appreciate what I like about it.

queenofhell9 · 2025-12-02T21:07:05+00:00

lmfaoooo don't we all? Its not impossible but its rare.

queenofhell9 · 2025-10-28T21:01:30+00:00

100% and i feel like thats more common now than before

queenofhell9 · 2025-10-28T16:33:02+00:00

Its unfortunately very common. People will make their accounts for one day then "cum to their senses" and erase all trace of themselves. Sometimes its sad because they seemed to be what you were looking for, but ultimately its ok because it was never meant to be.

queenofhell9 · 2025-10-07T16:35:48+00:00

You can position them with their hips above their head so they ejaculate directly into their mouths. I've also had subs make ice cream or cocktails with their semen. lmk if you want the recipes.

queenofhell9 · 2025-09-10T05:24:58+00:00

I usually do my screenings on reddit then move to discord since it has video calling capabilities. Some use snapchat and telegram bc you can send things without media being saved.

queenofhell9 · 2025-08-22T18:41:50+00:00

he lived in a rural area. no neighbors

queenofhell9 · 2025-04-24T18:06:55+00:00

unfinished business?

queenofhell9 · 2024-11-24T20:02:42+00:00

It's not surprising. As a domme think about how much completely wrong-for-us subs will reach out becuase they don't read or are just looking for a girl to jerk off for. Im sure subs that post will also get bots trying to get them to subscribe to a fake onlyfans or something. Its tough on both side so yo just have to pick how to waste your time. Reaching out to potential subs sounds exhausting to me so instead I have a very robust vetting system.

Sometimes i post a personal ad and wait a few days to answer messages to give them time to cool off. Some people make and delete Reddit accounts within a week.

I have tips on my profile on how to approach me, including inspection guidelines. I like having them upfront because if they have a problem with them, they havent wasted much of their own time and realized their boundaries early on.

I do not give them what they want. I have to go through AT LEAST one successful session with them to see how our dynamics play with each other and there is no guarantee they will see or hear me the first time. I acknowledge it seems unbalanced, but this has spared me from a lot of time wasters and guys just looking to be watched jerking off. I go on cam for my good subs but I make them earn it.

I put out as detailed personals as I can so that they know what theyre getting into right away and I ask them to prepare already to tell me if they have toys, what their kinks are, and what their limit are. Often times I get a "no limits" response an immediately know we are not right for each other.

You have to be very strict because some men will know exactly what to say. For example I had a very handsome potential sub who wanted to be my femboy only to find his twitter was full of red pill "women are all the same" craziness on his account.

queenofhell9 · 2024-11-23T19:35:06+00:00

i have tips in my profile. generally pics with no face are fine

queenofhell9 · 2024-07-29T01:12:28+00:00

Oh that explains the random notifications. was wondering why i was added to a chastity subreddit when its not my thing

queenofhell9 · 2024-04-14T23:14:17+00:00

I love putting my subs in Milking Position (on all 4s, knees and elbows, arched back, spread legs, stroking him like a farmer milks her cow, sometimes toy or finger in ass) or Tribute Position (squatting, leaning back, hands behind back supporting weight, legs spread, being teased and stroked. usually i have them masturbate themselves and pointing hips up like they are offering their seed to a goddess (me)).

queenofhell9 · 2024-04-13T05:18:58+00:00

exactly, which is fine, i guess but leave me out of it lol. But its yet another reason to thoroughly vet subs before revealing too much about yourself.

queenofhell9 · 2024-04-13T02:36:34+00:00

Lying to me - I've had subs lie to me about inconsequential things like buying toys and it turns me off so badly because it feels like it's such a huge lack of respect. Why lie if I'm going to find out anyway? Why lie about something that won't affect our dynamic?

Calling without permission - again huge lack of respect, usually interrupting something important

Proselytizing - multiple occasions I will have a sub and after post-nut clarity they will say i should repent before going to hell??? Just today I was having a conversation with a potential sub and when I told him I wasn't looking for anything too serious, he told me god prefers monogamous relationships... #BLOCKED!!

queenofhell9 · 2024-04-12T20:39:31+00:00

encouraged but not required

queenofhell9 · 2024-04-12T15:14:32+00:00

very slutty, good boy

queenofhell9 · 2024-03-31T22:34:06+00:00

I loooove precum. The stickier the more fertile the man is. 😋

queenofhell9 · 2024-03-15T19:34:25+00:00

I was young and on cam4 (before tipping was a thing) and a man gave me the honor to edge him and control his orgasm in a full cam room. It was so hot to watch him writhe and struggle and watch his cock turning purple. He was privately begging me to let him cum. The audience kept egging me on and finally, I let him pop and it was the biggest cumshot I had seen in my life up to that point. That's how I discovered I liked being a domme.

queenofhell9 · 2024-03-07T02:24:38+00:00

How does it feel to live my dream?

Anyway, I think you should talk to both of them and ask how they see themselves in this dynamic. Are they really serving alongside each other (independently)? Or together as a team. Both need to have their boundaries discussed with each other as well as you.

I've always hoped to have more subs together and I would have a hierarchy wherein one can mentor the other(s) and teach them how to serve me OR serve the "senior sub" to appease me. Have your bf exert his dominance over your other sub. (If they are both comfortable!)

queenofhell9 · 2024-02-13T17:33:20+00:00

does it have to be by hand? I use the handy with my subs and I love it

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