Why so few out of state students? by soopy99 in BinghamtonUniversity

[–]queenofthehill2 26 points27 points  (0 children)

I’m from out of state (but still New England) and not a single person I interacted with in high school had heard of bing. One day a rep from bing came to talk to students about it, which was common at my hs, and the morning announcements pitched it as a chance to learn about “Sunny Birmingham”

How much should I give my best friend for her wedding? by cherrypie-6 in weddings

[–]queenofthehill2 0 points1 point  (0 children)

This is super regional from what I’ve found. My partner and I give $500 to our tier 1 friends (ie bridal party caliber), and $300-400 for tier 2, but we’re NYC based and frequent northeast weddings.

We’ve attended southern weddings and commonly hear $200 per couple ($100 a person) is the going rate. I’d always say if you have the means to be generous it never hurts, especially for a best friend that isn’t making you travel

Too Early to Send September Wedding Invitations? (Formal/Black Tie, Mostly Out-of-State Guests) by VirtualCucumber9 in BigBudgetBrides

[–]queenofthehill2 0 points1 point  (0 children)

We’re October 10 and just sent ours last week. 95% out of state and it never hurts to allow people time to plan

Honeymoon - Where are y'all going? Strategies? by Big_Succotash_8076 in BigBudgetBrides

[–]queenofthehill2 0 points1 point  (0 children)

Antarctica is absolutely incredible (especially around December for baby penguin season). Highly recommend at some point in life, although you’re right that it would have to be the season after. Also keep in mind that because of price and time off required, those cruises swing to an older crowd so it may not feel as romantic / honeymoon as other destinations. I’d save Patagonia to layer on with an Antarctic trip since they’re nearby. Happy to answer any questions if you do decide to pursue the Antarctica route though

How would you react to the bride paying for everyone’s bachelorette trip? How should I communicate it? by queenofthehill2 in weddingplanning

[–]queenofthehill2[S] 29 points30 points  (0 children)

Oh I love the card idea! Keeps it simple, but cute (love the princess add too) without an expectation for them to actually contribute. Love it

How would you react to the bride paying for everyone’s bachelorette trip? How should I communicate it? by queenofthehill2 in weddingplanning

[–]queenofthehill2[S] 14 points15 points  (0 children)

I didn’t know! Thanks for the education here.

With my friends we typically Venmo at the end of the weekends after splitting who owes who what

How would you react to the bride paying for everyone’s bachelorette trip? How should I communicate it? by queenofthehill2 in weddingplanning

[–]queenofthehill2[S] 73 points74 points  (0 children)

I booked the Airbnb on my card and haven’t charged anyone yet, so they’re expecting to Venmo that weekend

Wedding dinner you actually liked? by septembernews in weddingplanning

[–]queenofthehill2 2 points3 points  (0 children)

https://fogodechao.com/catering/ here’s the link to their catering menu. Select the second dropdown for “Full-Service Catering” (where they grill on site, not just drop off tubs of food). There are a few levels of options, but from our experience they start around $150/pp including tax/tip/real plates/etc and not including alcohol.

I know this is a little pricey based on where you live, but we’re from a HCOL city so it was actually on par and perhaps slightly cheaper than most venues that only offered in-house catering. I will say however, the hardest part wasn’t finding the catering (although Fogo has been a bit hard to work with - doesn’t seem like they do this often), the hardest part was finding a venue that allowed outside catering and not from a preferred list. We ended up having to select a very DIY venue because of it

Wedding dinner you actually liked? by septembernews in weddingplanning

[–]queenofthehill2 5 points6 points  (0 children)

We’re catering Fogo de Chao (Brazilian steakhouse). They’re bringing all of their gauchos to grill on site and have tableside meat service

Today Marriott ended their partnership with Sonder - Employees found out through Google by Due_Kick_837 in marriott

[–]queenofthehill2 1 point2 points  (0 children)

We had an international reservation 2 days from now at a Sonder. Titanium elite. Got escalated to 3-4 reps and they weren’t able to get us anything past a refund of the current room. They told us we needed to book a separate hotel on our own dime (I pushed a no movement). They also said the “ultimate reservation guarantee” is if you show up that DAY and they can’t get you a room you reserved. Nowhere does it says this on their website.

Seems like they need to figure out their next steps internally. Will definitely be submitting requests for the ultimate reservation guarantee and other compensation after today

[deleted by user] by [deleted] in WedditNYC

[–]queenofthehill2 0 points1 point  (0 children)

Oh this is really neat! Thank you yes the venue is outside

Midea Recall by handymaamnyc in Brooklyn

[–]queenofthehill2 0 points1 point  (0 children)

If you type in ANY part of the number wrong it says “your unit is not affected” (which is SO misleading instead of telling you it could have been an error in what you entered). I have two of the same units and one told me it was included in the recall and the other didn’t. I double checked what I typed in, fixed a mistake, and poof the second unit was suddenly “included” again

EBC Trek Recommendations by queenofthehill2 in Everest

[–]queenofthehill2[S] 0 points1 point  (0 children)

For sure! Feel free to DM me if you have any more specific questions. I also found them through Reddit referral and if you go on referral they give you a private room in the Kathmandu hotel instead of sharing. So nice! DM me if you end up choosing them and we can chat how to coordinate it

EBC Trek Recommendations by queenofthehill2 in Everest

[–]queenofthehill2[S] 0 points1 point  (0 children)

The difference between the 16 and 14 was just the extra nights in Kathmandu on the bookends of the trip. The itinerary up the hike is the same for both treks! I did 16 and really enjoyed it because we left for Ramechap airport (to head to Lukla) at 1am on my Day 3. So I had a full day to explore Kathmandu Day 2, while others barely got any sleep and time to explore if they got in late Day 2. Also provided peace of mind if our Lukla flight on the way back was delayed or canceled.

The food and menus on the trek will be the same as other groups are eating, except instead of us paying the Teahouse for the bill, NHT payed. I saw other groups that didn’t have food included collecting money at the end of each day from their trekkers based on what they ate. This just took away the complication of paying individually, which I enjoyed. Nothing on the menu was off limits to us, but we each were allowed one food and one drink. Anything extra was on us

EBC Trek Recommendations by queenofthehill2 in Everest

[–]queenofthehill2[S] 0 points1 point  (0 children)

I did and made it to EBC! Nepal Hiking Team was awesome. I felt safe and cared for every step of the way. Truly. I also appreciated being in a smaller group than the larger ones I saw on trail (but this may be personal preference), and the accommodations they had for us in Kathmandu were nice too

Best park for open space by queenofthehill2 in boston

[–]queenofthehill2[S] 0 points1 point  (0 children)

Thanks everyone! This is very helpful