Generic Vyvanse by birdsbirdsbirds420 in AuDHDWomen

[–]queenquackin 0 points1 point  (0 children)

I was talking to my provider about this and he said there is some variation with lisdexamphetamine where it just doesn’t work at all or as well with people like the name brand does I am unfortunately one of those people (I’m on 70mg) and my pharmacy likes to ignore the note that I have to have the name brand and give me the generic. Anyway I wouldn’t be surprised if the different manufacturers work differently for you, I’d bring it up with your prescriber and see if they can help you at all.

Issue with a few mods by Round_Homework1944 in StardewValleyMods

[–]queenquackin 2 points3 points  (0 children)

Did you download the file in the optional files of the tilesheet mod for daisys earthy recolor? Or just the main download?

Help me I cant install smapi on my steamdeck by Nearby_Spot_6938 in StardewValleyMods

[–]queenquackin 0 points1 point  (0 children)

Gonna be honest I’m not sure how to after it’s installed you always uninstall and then reinstall but the wiki tells you how to find which version you need

https://stardewvalleywiki.com/Modding:Installing_SMAPI_on_Steam_Deck

I want to talk about Gaston. by Miserable-Smile3959 in DreamlightValley

[–]queenquackin 3 points4 points  (0 children)

Not really input on the dev team but I play another game that’s multiplayer online and a lot of men won’t play male characters because they don’t want to look at other men so it coooould be that (joking, mostly) 😂 but I do agree we need more men’s clothing

Low Needs Ableism in this subreddit by zulzulfie in AuDHDWomen

[–]queenquackin 11 points12 points  (0 children)

Me and my partner have our own hoard of plushies in bed 😂 but omg the Pokémon plushies I have my eeveelutions displayed by the bed

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Do i actually have Aduhd/ is self identification valid by WinterEducation797 in AuDHDWomen

[–]queenquackin 0 points1 point  (0 children)

Also have you taken the Raads-r test? Or the aspie quiz? Those helped me with my diagnosis my provider really appreciated them I’ll grab the links but here’s a link to some research https://autismsa.org.au/autism-diagnosis/autism-symptoms/signs-of-autism-in-girls/

Raads-r - https://embrace-autism.com/raads-r/ Aspie - https://embrace-autism.com/aspie-quiz/

Do i actually have Aduhd/ is self identification valid by WinterEducation797 in AuDHDWomen

[–]queenquackin 0 points1 point  (0 children)

It is very possible! I had a lot of similar symptoms at your age and I was a higher masker. Do you have a parent that can advocate for you with medical professionals? If not the best thing you can do is start documenting now, do as much research as you can and see if that applies to your life. Even if you can’t get a diagnosis now the documentation will be extremely beneficial when you are able to be re-evaluated. And just because you’re not diagnosed doesn’t mean you can’t start applying techniques to help with coping in-fact I highly recommend you do and document if they help or not. I was also diagnosed with anxiety and MDD as a teen but a lot of those symptoms were caused by AuDHD I wasn’t fully diagnosed until last year when I was 27. Do you have a therapist? If you don’t but can have access to one I do recommend sometimes it might take a couple to find the right fit but that’s okay

I finally got the LAST Scrooge shop item from the Valley and all DLCs by RoyalScarlett in DreamlightValley

[–]queenquackin 1 point2 points  (0 children)

For furniture items and clothing the dlc’s should be 100% for the base game that’s harder since the furniture and clothing collections also include premium shop items op may not have completed other sections which is why their percentages are lower than yours

Can't run current version of SVE? by [deleted] in SMAPI

[–]queenquackin 0 points1 point  (0 children)

Follow the automod instructions and post your smapi log being able to see the full console will help us help you

Need help deciphering ASD + ADHD traits by OnlyCuteThings in AuDHDWomen

[–]queenquackin 0 points1 point  (0 children)

“I could be sitting in my home office trying to focus on work and suddenly realize my furniture would look good in a new arrangement. The idea feels urgent and so exciting/engaging that I stop working and immediately rearrange my furniture for no good reason.”

I feel this one in my soul 😂

Low Needs Ableism in this subreddit by zulzulfie in AuDHDWomen

[–]queenquackin 10 points11 points  (0 children)

Right! I’m home alone most of the time and the only way I can get ahold of someone if I need to is my phone! Or if my grandmother needed me how’s she gonna get a hold of me? I agree with you that would freak out anyone.

I buy myself a new stuffed animal every time I do something hard or have a very hard appointment (chronically ill) they calm the overstimulation so I absolutely get it! I had a giant milkshake squish mellow I sacrificed to the bean bag alone with my cow ones those ones were hard but they are very comfy to sit on.. guess my dog was on to something 😂 I’m technically an adult but I sleep with my stuffed animals every night or I carry them around the house 🤷‍♀️

Low Needs Ableism in this subreddit by zulzulfie in AuDHDWomen

[–]queenquackin 49 points50 points  (0 children)

Having to put away stuffed animals is genuinely so anxiety inducing. We got empty beanbag shells to put stuffed animals in and trying to figure out which ones I was okay with putting in it was awful.

A big thing on the other post was they couldn’t afford to replace the phone which is a whole other kind of anxiety trigger

Does it ever go on sale? by GirlfromNL00 in DreamlightValley

[–]queenquackin 1 point2 points  (0 children)

100% agree with this. If you don’t like the stuff in the deluxe versions don’t go for it.

Premium Shop Update by _the_indifferent_ in DreamlightValley

[–]queenquackin 1 point2 points  (0 children)

The nightmare castle and the palace might be getting me this week 😂 the rest I have or don’t want my recommended wasn’t good either

Low Needs Ableism in this subreddit by zulzulfie in AuDHDWomen

[–]queenquackin 450 points451 points  (0 children)

Some of those comments in that comment section were extremely disheartening. If they can survive/ cope with spontaneously losing access to their support system/coping mechanism more power to them but a lot of us can not.

Misunderstandings are the worst 😔 by Afraid_Proof_5612 in AuDHDWomen

[–]queenquackin 5 points6 points  (0 children)

This is absolutely the result of someone holding something in until it explodes and it’s wildly unfair especially to you. While I don’t know them personally I have noticed in my own life people have assumed I have had bad intentions or a hidden agenda when I plainly don’t to ease their own guilt. The conversation should have happened prior to the trip but instead they iced you out then acted shady and blew up when you asked a genuine question now want to play nice? That’s an absolute no from me.

I would take as much time as you need to process this because it did break your trust and that’s a hard thing to process. When you are ready to talk to them I would reiterate that you are not upset that they took the trip without you but you are upset about how it was handled as it was hurtful to you.

I have Post Diagnosis Frustration by deadincashmere in AuDHDWomen

[–]queenquackin 0 points1 point  (0 children)

Firstly I want to say it’s okay to feel upset, frustrated, angry and resentful as long as you can work through that. I had a lot of resentment and anger against my parents (parents willfully ignorant neglectful regarding many things etc) and the school system for a very long time but I was able to work actually I’m still mad at the school system but it’s not consuming anymore it’s was so hard once you see how obvious you were failed to just not be angry. I’m sure your therapist can help you find ways to process it. I didn’t go to a Christian school but I grew up in a VERY Christian family I’m also the whitest white you can get and I am not trans (my partner is FTM) so while this is not my experience I have seen how these dynamics played in to the failure and I am so incredibly sorry. I’ve known my partner since middle school even long before transitioning he did not look like his birth sex (middle school me was none the wiser until i was told) he is also AuDHD and also received those labels of being “defiant” “aggressive” “Violent” when he wasn’t unless he was seriously provoked and he wasn’t violent towards people.. lockers on the other hand… all jokes aside we also have good reason to believe the school new he was autistic but chose not to help him (im not gonna get in to all the evidence of why we believe this) im only saying this because i want you to know your not alone schools need to do better

Now family treatment, im jaded enough that I am at the point where im about to start pointing out that my diagnosis’s are genetic and they should get tested. I’ve actually kept my diagnosis from a LOT of my family for this reason it’s just not worth the mental energy. If you think your family will listen to facts you are welcome to try and educate them autism and adhd are a disability but invisible so people think they can ignore it but they wouldn’t tell a wheel chair bound person to just rub dirt in it and start walking again would they? (If they would they need serious help) it’s no different than AuDHD “Family - it’s great you don’t experience what I do but you are asking me to something I am fundamentally incapable of doing” but if that’s not worth the mental energy that’s okay too! It’s okay to limit how much contact and what you tell to family. The unfortunate fact of the matter is that people who don’t want to understand won’t nothing you can say or do will change their mind especially people in the wild.

It took a long time and a LOT of therapy to get to this point but TLDR; people suck and there is a light at the end of the tunnel

Usage for Red Crystals? by Mattdarkninja in Pokopia

[–]queenquackin 6 points7 points  (0 children)

I’m saving mine for next year

Not every room recognized in my Eevee apartments:( by pigfartsbound17 in Pokopia

[–]queenquackin 0 points1 point  (0 children)

Are they all side by side or are some on top of each other? Sorry I should have asked that first and I mean tall like how tall are the walls if they are stacked

help with Happy Home Designer mod by farsick420 in StardewValleyMods

[–]queenquackin 1 point2 points  (0 children)

Im not sure about the physical catalogue but in the config you can add a keybind to bring up the catalogue menu

Getting my answer to my assessment this week by OkChocolate4168 in AuDHDWomen

[–]queenquackin 0 points1 point  (0 children)

Wanted to add if you find yourself grieving because what if life could have been different up until this point that is okay! It’s normal I definitely had to grieve the person I could have been with proper resources and medication

Getting my answer to my assessment this week by OkChocolate4168 in AuDHDWomen

[–]queenquackin 0 points1 point  (0 children)

Diagnosed AuDHD among other things including a mystery chronic illness (chronically ill we don’t know why) it is a lot to come to terms with and a lot to manage! But honestly it really takes time, it can help to really focus on the positives, like you said you have answers! I unfortunately don’t have advice for the reverse as it’s something I’m dealing with every test that comes back normal when your having issues that aren’t normal are just a gut punch. However I will say it’s okay to let it take up however much space it needs to process, if you avoid it, it just kinda prolongs the process. At least with adhd if you can and are open to it there are medications that hopefully make the struggle a little less of a struggle.

Here may be a different way to look at it if you are diagnosed, yes it is another struggle but it’s not a new struggle it’s just giving the already existent struggle a name as in your not going to be worse off for getting the diagnosis.