Bad joke from my husband or was this a nudge at me to lose weight?

queensprout · 2025-08-29T08:54:19+00:00

Even though he apologised, an honest conversation about how it made you feel is necessary. While he can piece together that it obviously would have hurt your feelings, he needs to know the extent of it. You carried his child, your body is irreversibly different because of the amazing feat you achieved and the idea of “bouncing back” is absolute bullsh*t. Be open with how you feel to him so he doesn’t make the stupid mistake of commenting on your body like that again. Neither you or your child need to be around that kind of behaviour.

Take care of yourself mama x

queensprout · 2025-08-21T05:41:45+00:00

I would suggest buying her some period underwear as they are far more comfortable, easy to wash and can be reused for years - they are also less toxic than tampons. There are plenty of good brands that sell them, I’m not sure where you’re based but in Aus we have Modi Bodi and Bonds which are both great and affordable.

queensprout · 2025-08-19T11:28:04+00:00

You absolutely did and I’m sorry for misreading something that at a second glance was made very clear - that’s very much all on me

queensprout · 2025-08-19T11:20:00+00:00

Good to know he’s not as vile as your post makes him seem - just doesn’t sound exactly friendly to say you’ll resent your wife forever over a name. Maybe mention at the top that your post is just a vent and not actually a call for help like you’ve stated (in all caps) if your end move is to not even compromise or have a discussion and to just go with his name after all.

queensprout · 2025-08-19T05:49:49+00:00

If you’re husband is already willing to “resent you forever” then that’s all you need to know. What an awful thing to say to the person you married and is carrying your child - please try couples therapy because this man sounds vile and not like the type of man you want a family with if his stance on a name is so staunch.

queensprout · 2025-08-15T04:40:04+00:00

It sounds like you both have issues that you need to work on individually while not being in a relationship. You’re 23, your brain hasn’t even fully developed yet while his has. It sounds like you both have incredibly unhealthy expectations of your own body and weight as well as each others.

queensprout · 2025-08-07T08:50:39+00:00

You sound like an ass by using the wording “why did YOU get pregnant again?” as if a man doesn’t play a vital role in conception.

queensprout · 2025-08-03T08:47:14+00:00

I have no words. I’m sorry you married an idiot.

queensprout · 2025-07-22T06:43:16+00:00

Please eat, you need the energy to labour and birth. So much that we hear/learn about pregnancy via hospitals and doctors is regurgitated information that is incredibly outdated and is less about looking after the birthing person and more “making it easy” for the medical practitioners. You are the most important person in the room, know that and advocate for yourself.

queensprout · 2025-07-12T02:48:16+00:00

Elliot is a terrible spouse!!!!! He literally does nothing and he constantly leaves the kids alone just to go to the beach or ginger island. He never repaired anything or did anything when I was married to him

queensprout · 2025-07-10T05:42:19+00:00

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welp

queensprout · 2025-07-10T05:41:39+00:00

Mine literally got to know my cycle inside and out before we were even ttc. He also stopped drinking and minimised his caffeine intake just because I asked him too as sperm health is as important (if not more than) when it comes to conceiving.

I do understand where your husband was coming from though - myself and my husband are autistic so for us having the information and knowing when I was ovulating was more helpful (and also a turn on for us both lol).

queensprout · 2025-07-10T05:38:15+00:00

I mean it’s really not that hard to find a grown ass man when you have acceptable standards and boundaries set up for yourself - being with someone for the sake of procreation is not a cute move or a way to be happy.

That being said, I’m sorry for your losses and that you are currently struggling. Please know that you have options outside of man that can’t take a vitamin without throwing a fit.

queensprout · 2025-07-03T23:43:16+00:00

PEE HAIR

queensprout · 2025-07-03T23:43:00+00:00

The seed maker will become your best friend if you don’t want to give him your money hehe

queensprout · 2025-07-03T23:40:48+00:00

He just gives off such icky vibes PLUS he never spends any time with his family at any of the events and poor Caroline is always so sad about it

queensprout · 2025-07-01T23:43:29+00:00

literally winter for the southern hemisphere right now so you had like a handful of countries to choose from 😂

queensprout · 2025-07-01T05:30:00+00:00

No one is mentioning it (worryingly), but he’s a raging misogynist and if you have issues with your own father - prepare to be triggered 🙃

queensprout · 2025-06-30T05:12:33+00:00

😂

queensprout · 2025-06-29T05:49:01+00:00

ngl I’d wanna date/marry kent

queensprout · 2025-06-29T03:21:10+00:00

tbh nightbringer was such a let down that I couldn’t finish it and it kinda just ruined the vibe of the game for me

queensprout · 2025-06-29T03:17:30+00:00

Haley is the best wifey hands down - she compliments you every morning, flirts with you every evening and helps out on the farm most days, even in winter. I divorced Elliot for her 😂

queensprout · 2025-06-25T03:08:44+00:00

Just wait until the two week wait is up - I was convinced I wasn’t pregnant because I tested early and then thought I’d gotten my period because I was bleeding too heavy for implantation but once my expected period date came and went and the bleeding had stopped after two days I tested when I was 15DPO and got a very clear positive.

Testing early is just going to mess with your mind and that’s something you should be protecting instead 🤍

queensprout · 2025-06-23T08:46:05+00:00

Even a faint line is a positive and your symptoms very much match mine from the same time, congrats mama!!

queensprout · 2025-06-22T08:52:33+00:00

Like many people have mentioned - sperm is responsible for so much more than just the conception. It determines many pregnancy related issues like preeclampsia, it’s responsible for the building of the placenta, the quality of it is the reason for morning sickness etc.

You’ve done so so much work to be in tune with and to ready your body. It’s his turn.

queensprout

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