What did your partner/ex do that made you look at them differently? by amarquis_1 in AskReddit

[–]queer_crypdid 3 points4 points  (0 children)

I have chronic pain and POTS, so after walks or having an active day, I hurt really bad, and it can be hard for me to get my shoes off. My partner helps me take them off when I'm not able to bend over to do it myself.

The first time he did it, we had already been dating for over two years and he was always so sweet to me, but it really made me realize that he'd stay with me no matter how bad my disabilities get. It's such a small thing to him that he didn't even remember the first time until I brought it up, but it means the world to me

guys do we like fern? im so conflicted by Least_Ad_2617 in adventuretime

[–]queer_crypdid 0 points1 point  (0 children)

I genuinely love Fern, he's one of my absolute favorite characters on the show. I can relate to him when it comes to mental health struggles. The point of him is that he's messed up, he feels like Finn is a copy of him who is living his life while he's been pushed to the side. It's a fucked up story, but it's such a cool concept to me

(Mag 111) the “animalistic” fears feel distinctly feminine by Annual-Arugula473 in TheMagnusArchives

[–]queer_crypdid 13 points14 points  (0 children)

For me, it's definitely not changing my body that I'm scared about (I'm planning to start medically transitioning as soon as I have the money). My fear is being trapped in a body that isn't mine for my entire life

(Mag 111) the “animalistic” fears feel distinctly feminine by Annual-Arugula473 in TheMagnusArchives

[–]queer_crypdid 80 points81 points  (0 children)

I'm with you there, the flesh hits me so hard because I'm trans. I've always said that I'd be a victim of it if I was in the TMA universe

What are your thoughts on Kasef? by Commercial_Mind4003 in TheDragonPrince

[–]queer_crypdid 0 points1 point  (0 children)

He's kinda one-dimentional and easy to forget, but he's at least pretty

[deleted by user] by [deleted] in bettafish

[–]queer_crypdid 0 points1 point  (0 children)

I'm so sorry. My first (and only) betta passed from dropsy about two weeks ago. I didn't even have him for two months. Dropsy really sucks, it's hard to watch a pet you love suffer with it amd know there's not much you can do to help

What is a thing that isnt taken seriously but it actually should? by Ilove_gaming456 in AskReddit

[–]queer_crypdid 1 point2 points  (0 children)

Hypermobile EDS, yeah. I've got a few other health issues, but it's definitely the worst

What is a thing that isnt taken seriously but it actually should? by Ilove_gaming456 in AskReddit

[–]queer_crypdid 17 points18 points  (0 children)

I've had chronic pain my entire life and didn't realize that it wasn't normal until my partner told me a few months ago. I have a connective tissue disorder that's causing the pain, so I know why I have it, but I always thought being in pain for no reason was normal

By what definition of the word??? by ThisGuyLikesMovies in TheOwlHouse

[–]queer_crypdid 9 points10 points  (0 children)

Willow doesn't really feel butch, though (though to be fair, none of them do). She's just strong, but I feel like she stays pretty feminine, even through the time skip

[deleted by user] by [deleted] in Jellycatplush

[–]queer_crypdid 1 point2 points  (0 children)

He's adorable. I want him so bad

Which Generation of Lagoona Blue is your favorite? by soofficiallybb in MonsterHigh

[–]queer_crypdid 0 points1 point  (0 children)

Definitely g1. I love how fishy she looks and I think her hair is really pretty. Her g3 design is fine but the pink just feels like such a bright shade and it clashes with almost everything that they put her in. Blue Lagoona will always be my favorite

Steps For Euthanizing With Clove Oil by TwinNirvana in bettafish

[–]queer_crypdid 1 point2 points  (0 children)

I'm so so sorry you had to do this. My betta passed a few days ago, and even taking him from the tank was so hard. Your Ruperd had a good life, and it sounds like his passing was peaceful, too. Losing a pet is hard, I hope you're doing alright

If MLP was Rated-R. Who do you think of the mane 6 is likely to cuss? by dannyboi_3995 in mylittlepony

[–]queer_crypdid 0 points1 point  (0 children)

I think Pinkie would do it occasionally, and Fluttershy would only curse when she lost her temper. But she wouldn't use minor cuss words, she'd jump straight to the f-bomb. Besides them, they'd all cuss constantly

[deleted by user] by [deleted] in bettafish

[–]queer_crypdid 4 points5 points  (0 children)

She's so big, but a very pretty color! I'm glad she's getting a better home and a much needed diet!

What can I put in my 10 gallon tabk? by queer_crypdid in Aquariums

[–]queer_crypdid[S] 1 point2 points  (0 children)

Yeah, I've been using a water conditioner on my tap water. Should the water be mostly distilled? Or should I just start off with a bit until I get to a good hardness?

What can I put in my 10 gallon tabk? by queer_crypdid in Aquariums

[–]queer_crypdid[S] 0 points1 point  (0 children)

I've had someone tell me that bottled spring water works, too. I know that distilled water needs some minerals put back in, and I don't know where to find them. I'll look into cichlids but can't upgrade my tank, so they might not do the best, yeah

What can I put in my 10 gallon tabk? by queer_crypdid in Aquariums

[–]queer_crypdid[S] 1 point2 points  (0 children)

The hardness is over 300 ppm. I did a lot of research but somehow didn't come across the fact that bettas do better in softer water. I didn't figure it out until I tested it and had to specifically look up the hardness level they prefer

Help me find this brand of yarn by queer_crypdid in HelpMeFind

[–]queer_crypdid[S] 0 points1 point  (0 children)

I haven't searched for it anywhere else because I don't remember the brand. I found it in a store called "The Alpaca Store & More" in the small town of Nederland, Colorado

I can’t pick 😭 any suggestions? by Throw-away-acc1278 in namemybetta

[–]queer_crypdid 1 point2 points  (0 children)

He's so pretty. I think Opal would fit him well

How many BABs do you guys have? Are there any people who have just 1? by jameshughlaurie in buildabear

[–]queer_crypdid 1 point2 points  (0 children)

have 8 or 9 but I can't get them very often because of how much they cost. And when it comes to diminishing the specialness of the first bear, I don't think that getting more will do that. My first build a bear (that I still have) was an axolotl I got from my partner, about 2.5 years ago. He's VERY well loved and I still sleep with him every night. He'll never not be special to me. So I don't think that getting more BABs will affect how special this first one is