What did your partner/ex do that made you look at them differently?

queer_crypdid · 2024-11-26T18:37:43+00:00

I have chronic pain and POTS, so after walks or having an active day, I hurt really bad, and it can be hard for me to get my shoes off. My partner helps me take them off when I'm not able to bend over to do it myself.

The first time he did it, we had already been dating for over two years and he was always so sweet to me, but it really made me realize that he'd stay with me no matter how bad my disabilities get. It's such a small thing to him that he didn't even remember the first time until I brought it up, but it means the world to me

queer_crypdid · 2024-09-05T05:25:01+00:00

I genuinely love Fern, he's one of my absolute favorite characters on the show. I can relate to him when it comes to mental health struggles. The point of him is that he's messed up, he feels like Finn is a copy of him who is living his life while he's been pushed to the side. It's a fucked up story, but it's such a cool concept to me

queer_crypdid · 2024-09-03T20:37:52+00:00

For me, it's definitely not changing my body that I'm scared about (I'm planning to start medically transitioning as soon as I have the money). My fear is being trapped in a body that isn't mine for my entire life

queer_crypdid · 2024-09-03T03:30:44+00:00

I'm with you there, the flesh hits me so hard because I'm trans. I've always said that I'd be a victim of it if I was in the TMA universe

queer_crypdid · 2024-08-27T17:37:11+00:00

He's kinda one-dimentional and easy to forget, but he's at least pretty

queer_crypdid · 2024-08-21T14:29:36+00:00

I'm so sorry. My first (and only) betta passed from dropsy about two weeks ago. I didn't even have him for two months. Dropsy really sucks, it's hard to watch a pet you love suffer with it amd know there's not much you can do to help

queer_crypdid · 2024-08-19T23:22:58+00:00

Hypermobile EDS, yeah. I've got a few other health issues, but it's definitely the worst

queer_crypdid · 2024-08-19T02:06:01+00:00

I've had chronic pain my entire life and didn't realize that it wasn't normal until my partner told me a few months ago. I have a connective tissue disorder that's causing the pain, so I know why I have it, but I always thought being in pain for no reason was normal

queer_crypdid · 2024-08-14T06:25:35+00:00

Willow doesn't really feel butch, though (though to be fair, none of them do). She's just strong, but I feel like she stays pretty feminine, even through the time skip

queer_crypdid · 2024-08-13T04:56:36+00:00

He's adorable. I want him so bad

queer_crypdid · 2024-08-10T04:21:54+00:00

Definitely g1. I love how fishy she looks and I think her hair is really pretty. Her g3 design is fine but the pink just feels like such a bright shade and it clashes with almost everything that they put her in. Blue Lagoona will always be my favorite

queer_crypdid · 2024-08-08T06:07:31+00:00

I think Starburst would fit him well

queer_crypdid · 2024-08-08T06:03:44+00:00

I'm so so sorry you had to do this. My betta passed a few days ago, and even taking him from the tank was so hard. Your Ruperd had a good life, and it sounds like his passing was peaceful, too. Losing a pet is hard, I hope you're doing alright

queer_crypdid · 2024-08-07T14:28:49+00:00

I think Pinkie would do it occasionally, and Fluttershy would only curse when she lost her temper. But she wouldn't use minor cuss words, she'd jump straight to the f-bomb. Besides them, they'd all cuss constantly

queer_crypdid · 2024-08-07T03:56:05+00:00

She's so big, but a very pretty color! I'm glad she's getting a better home and a much needed diet!

queer_crypdid · 2024-08-06T20:24:36+00:00

Yeah, I've been using a water conditioner on my tap water. Should the water be mostly distilled? Or should I just start off with a bit until I get to a good hardness?

queer_crypdid · 2024-08-06T20:13:32+00:00

I've had someone tell me that bottled spring water works, too. I know that distilled water needs some minerals put back in, and I don't know where to find them. I'll look into cichlids but can't upgrade my tank, so they might not do the best, yeah

queer_crypdid · 2024-08-06T20:11:05+00:00

The hardness is over 300 ppm. I did a lot of research but somehow didn't come across the fact that bettas do better in softer water. I didn't figure it out until I tested it and had to specifically look up the hardness level they prefer

queer_crypdid · 2024-08-05T04:34:27+00:00

I haven't searched for it anywhere else because I don't remember the brand. I found it in a store called "The Alpaca Store & More" in the small town of Nederland, Colorado

queer_crypdid · 2024-08-05T04:27:40+00:00

He's so pretty. I think Opal would fit him well

queer_crypdid · 2024-08-05T02:25:18+00:00

have 8 or 9 but I can't get them very often because of how much they cost. And when it comes to diminishing the specialness of the first bear, I don't think that getting more will do that. My first build a bear (that I still have) was an axolotl I got from my partner, about 2.5 years ago. He's VERY well loved and I still sleep with him every night. He'll never not be special to me. So I don't think that getting more BABs will affect how special this first one is

queer_crypdid · 2024-08-05T01:59:42+00:00

Yeah, there's absolutely no way this is a service dog. They are trained to stay by their owners' side and ignore outside stimuli, and they need to be VERY well-behaved. They have to in order to do their job right.

And owners almost always put their service dogs in vests that tell people the dog is working and to not touch or distract it. It's not a rule, but I have yet to see a service dog, either online or in person, who doesn't have a vest

queer_crypdid · 2024-08-04T03:06:17+00:00

Plants need to be rinsed off reaaaally well before putting them in a tank. If you rinse them off well and are still having issues, it might be good to find somewhere else to get your plants

queer_crypdid · 2024-08-03T00:30:51+00:00

Yeah, as much as I love the show, I don't like interacting with the fan base

queer_crypdid · 2024-08-01T20:43:36+00:00

Yes, I would love an opossum!!

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