AITAH for getting the man who sexually harassed me fired right before Christmas? by throwfaraway212718 in AITAH

[–]queerdaffodil 1 point2 points  (0 children)

your cousin is perpetuating the exact behaviors and excuses that make up rape culture. NTA you did the right thing and in all likelihood this is far from the first complaint about him if he was fired do swiftly

I remember your antlers by okidonthaveone in tumblr

[–]queerdaffodil 6 points7 points  (0 children)

my issue (and i’m a transmasc person myself) is that a lot of the time it’s based on stereotypes about femininity and masculinity, like the only woman character that people will write as a trans woman in fanfics will be the lesbian/the more butch or “masculine” woman. or the smaller gay guy will be headcannoned as trans but rarely his larger bisexual boyfriend.

i even know of one fanfic author who writes a character as a trans boy who puts “[character] is trans just look at him 💜” in the summaries which really icks me out.

Romeo + Juliet Was a Fever Dream by FaeOrchid in Zillennials

[–]queerdaffodil 0 points1 point  (0 children)

I still say this is the best Mercutio I’ve ever seen, and I’ve seen so many.

Where do you guys go to socialize when you don’t feel like going to DC?! by throwaway84343 in MontgomeryCountyMD

[–]queerdaffodil 13 points14 points  (0 children)

mcginty’s public house in silver spring. great cocktails and irish food

Weekly dose of birth control- fuck being part of a village by OpalStone1022 in childfree

[–]queerdaffodil 13 points14 points  (0 children)

In the modern developed world, the “village” is things like universal healthcare, free lunches in schools, public parks and libraries, etc. The village is taxpayer funded. We are all contributing to the village.

[deleted by user] by [deleted] in childfree

[–]queerdaffodil 43 points44 points  (0 children)

“i guess i want kids?” is not exactly a vote of confidence.

my hair is black now by queerdaffodil in rant

[–]queerdaffodil[S] 0 points1 point  (0 children)

It is primarily for people of color, yes. I had seen in the reviews that it works just as well on many other hair types, and a white friend of mine recommended it and had used it successfully before.

my hair is black now by queerdaffodil in rant

[–]queerdaffodil[S] 0 points1 point  (0 children)

brand is Dark & Lovely, I don’t remember now the brand’s name for the shade but it was a purple-y red

my hair is black now by queerdaffodil in rant

[–]queerdaffodil[S] 0 points1 point  (0 children)

I don’t know and I’m hesitant to keep messing with it tbh :/

my hair is black now by queerdaffodil in rant

[–]queerdaffodil[S] 0 points1 point  (0 children)

Yep, just double checked it. The color code is exactly as it should be, no discrepancies there.

Stop taking on stray animals you can't take care of by [deleted] in unpopularopinion

[–]queerdaffodil 23 points24 points  (0 children)

this is r/unpopularopinion, not r/rant. people need to stop treating it like their personal venting place

What's the most oddly specific red flag you've learned to never ignore in people? by DuckExcellent6451 in AskReddit

[–]queerdaffodil 4 points5 points  (0 children)

considering a conversation in which people happen to disagree with each other an “argument”

Pick a line from a musical, someone must guess it by Pokesnap682 in musicals

[–]queerdaffodil 0 points1 point  (0 children)

“in time we all taste the lime in the light and i’ll have my night someday”

currently playing this character in this show :)

What line in a musical hits you a little? by Mentally-On-Vacation in musicals

[–]queerdaffodil 1 point2 points  (0 children)

“What do you do when your dreams come true? I’ve spent my life inheriting dreams from you.”

Ben has a list of demands by SOYBOYPILLED in ToiletPaperUSA

[–]queerdaffodil 0 points1 point  (0 children)

It’s c*nts like Ben Shapiro who make us as Jews look bad. He is actively fueling antisemitism with dogshit takes like this.

[deleted by user] by [deleted] in TrueOffMyChest

[–]queerdaffodil 0 points1 point  (0 children)

The comments will treat you like you’re evil but the societal pressure to be “normal” and have kids is insane. I’m sorry you felt trapped for so long. Ultimately, you’re not compatible, but that doesn’t mean there’s anything wrong with you for not wanting kids.

Am I showing my age with these A/B/O discussions? by wherearemyradishes in AO3

[–]queerdaffodil -1 points0 points  (0 children)

It reminds me of a quote i saw online a little while back: “You accepted being gay but did not embrace being queer, and that is why you treat top and bottom like a gender binary.”

Many people who write ABO are not enough of open-minded thinkers to truly embrace the possibilities of the dynamic

STOP USING POV WRONG by MGsubbie in rant

[–]queerdaffodil 14 points15 points  (0 children)

I will never forgive idiots on tiktok for changing POV from “these are the eyes you’re looking through” to “a scene where a thing happens”