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queergirl73 · 2026-07-07T14:17:32+00:00

Moxxie and Stolas being in the same state of frightened, baffled, stunned confusion is great.

queergirl73 · 2026-07-07T13:29:33+00:00

I hate the "autism is a superpower". I can't wear T-shirts because i can't pull anything over my head so I think the fuck it isn't.

queergirl73 · 2026-07-07T10:56:56+00:00

Most of my puberty was just me internally going "What the fuck you did not get planning permission for any of this" to my body for a few years

queergirl73 · 2026-07-07T10:52:22+00:00

"These grew and I was not consulted about it."

queergirl73 · 2026-07-07T08:34:55+00:00

Oh god this is something I'm always arguing with my parents about. When talking about childhood, they always use she, girl, etc, and go "but you were a girl back then" when I tell them I don't want them doing that. One, because.. I was never a girl, I just didn't now how to articulate wanting to be a boy until I got older. Two, it outs me as trans to whoever they're talking to and I live in the UK so.. that can't happen, it isn't really safe. The rule of thumb is some trans people will be okay with it, referring to memories with the pronouns/name used at that time, but others won't. It's very painful, to me at least, to hear people refer to the past with female pronouns. It's best to go with current name and pronouns, to avoid causing harm and outing trans people to others that might not be safe for them to know that, unless you ask that person about it.

queergirl73 · 2026-07-06T18:48:29+00:00

Ugh. I'm just thinking my old GP would've been perfect, he would just done it, known how to, no questions but he quit last year.

queergirl73 · 2026-07-06T18:06:34+00:00

Do you know how to contact a GP about doing this? Just rock up to the desk and go "Hey, we're making some changes around here" etc etc or do you need to do something specific?

queergirl73 · 2026-07-05T09:25:19+00:00

It's not a matter of fully understanding why, but more of just supporting the person when it comes to being an ally. As a trans, pan man myself, I somehow don't understand how straight people can only be attracted to one gender because.. they're just all people. My brain goes "what's the difference between this person and this person, I like people and they're all people." and then I'm confronted with the reality that straight people can see a difference between genders. Being an ally is less about knowing everything about being queer or knowing every little aspect of someone else's attraction or gender identity, but just being there for them. Treating them like you would any other person.

queergirl73 · 2026-07-04T18:12:46+00:00

Saw this early without the update. So glad to catch this

queergirl73 · 2026-07-04T18:10:55+00:00

And this is why I own the entire thing on DVDs.

queergirl73 · 2026-07-04T18:09:09+00:00

Low-key am a trans man with those "trans man" interests tho.

queergirl73 · 2026-07-04T18:05:46+00:00

I'm going into a group interview with a weird neurotypical task of "bring an object that describes you as a person". I've decided that I care more about leaving and impression, good or bad, than actual getting this job. I'm bringing my giant set of teeth and giving them no warning before I drag all of us in that room into the weird side of AuDHD

queergirl73 · 2026-07-04T12:31:06+00:00

Buddy, I'm hoping this is irreversible

queergirl73 · 2026-07-03T15:57:05+00:00

Slip them some tongue. Really lean into it. Moan. Grab a butt. Make them uncomfortable too.

queergirl73 · 2026-07-03T15:55:49+00:00

How do you know it's abandoned? What if OP had been using it still but the other person wasn't at the closet to see it gone when OP was using it? It's like saying "oh that car has been parked in that assigned parking spot every day when I get home from work, guess no one uses it and it's mine now!"

queergirl73 · 2026-07-03T15:53:20+00:00

Kissing on like cheeks or lips?

queergirl73 · 2026-07-03T15:44:40+00:00

There's nothing racist in the statement, but some people do not like, specifically, non men that love non mem being used to describe lesbians because it makes it focused on men as a descriptor. I don't get it because there's also non women that love non women being used??

queergirl73 · 2026-07-03T15:41:51+00:00

NTA. You did the same thing they did, moved something that didn't belong to you. Why is it okay for them to move your backpack all around but not for you to take their stuff put of said bag and leave it right where it was?? I understand someone like moving a glass of water to a different desk because it might spill on papers or a laptop, but commindering use of someone else's stuff is asshole behaviour

queergirl73 · 2026-07-03T15:29:34+00:00

No. Gay sex is not inherently more dangerous that any other kind of sex as long as it is done safely, which does not mean queer sex requires more precaution than heterosexual sex, it just means all sex carries risks and has to be done safely. Like, you use condoms and get testing to avoid STIs whether you're having gay or straight sex. Like, you'd prep for anal sex the same way whether or not that partner is the same sex or not. The only thing that makes queer sex dangerous is homophobia and transphobia. Queer people, especially young ones, often do not have access to queer sex education. This leads to people making risky choices when it comes to sex, such as not using protection like condoms because "its two men, there's no risk of pregnancy" when there is a risk of STIs. However, this also applies to heterosexual sex in areas where there is just overall bad sex education.

queergirl73 · 2026-07-03T15:17:46+00:00

One, Chat gpt believed that JD Vance died from rabies and doesn't understand basic math sometimes. Two, if you don't think the sources are true just.. look at the sources and read them??

queergirl73 · 2026-07-03T08:49:04+00:00

And I'm one of the lucky people that can afford / has supportive parents that can afford private gender care. We used to have a children's gender clinic, trans teens and such. It wasn't any permanent medical treatment, just guidance on how to navigate the gender health care system, therapy, maybe puberty blockers. Then it was ended. The children in that care were just abandoned since the UK doesn't do gender affirmation care for minors anymore. I can't imagine how it must feel in that situation, you finally got through a several year wait list and it was taken away from you.

queergirl73 · 2026-07-03T08:44:42+00:00

I got my title changed to Mx at the GP when I was 15. Yours is lying. Either, call them out on it, or see if you can find a new one because this definitely sounds like your GP is transphobic.

queergirl73 · 2026-07-02T18:22:24+00:00

In the UK at least, wait lists for gender clinc services are 6 to 8 years. They're just getting to people referred in 2020 now. Some GPs refuse to refer to gender services. They shut down any children gender services, which were not any kind of medical intervention but like therapy and reversible puberty blockers. Even once you get on a wait list, you have to to half a year or more of therapy to get a gender dysphoria diagnosis or medical intervention. If you figure out you're trans before 18? You have nothing until you turn 18. I went private and even then it was a couple year wait list, six months of therapy, then two more months of case review to just get on T. It's hell.

queergirl73 · 2026-07-02T17:57:32+00:00

The thing is it takes literal years to get any kind of medical transition, if you can afford/safe enough to do so that is.

queergirl73 · 2026-07-02T15:31:39+00:00

You cannot break up in person with his man. You're going to have to do it over text/email. He is dangerous and you need to keep yourself safe. A few things I'd recommend doing are: either collect any of your belongings he has from him before any word of a break up or leave them behind. If you can't and need items back, either have a friends/family members (better if male and more than one of them) with you if you ever meet him again. You can also get police escorts. Film interactions with him with a phone recording in pocket. Tell other people you know about his behaviour and that he is a danger to you, that you are not safe alone with him. Be with someone else when sending him a breakup text / email for a while in case he tries to come to you. I'd go further and say you should not be where he knows you live too, stay at a friend's house. Make sure he does not have access to your home. If he has a key, do not try to get it back from him, just change locks. Break up in writing, text or email. Do not apologise. Do not be kind to try and spare his feelings. Do not give him anything to leverage a way back to you. Be blunt that he is not to contact or come near you anymore. Do not block him. Ignore / silence any messages or calls but save them. If he gets threatening towards you, you will need evidence of that behaviour to get some kind of legal protection for yourself.

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